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A sexually frustrated man decides to keep track of all the excuses his s/o gives him

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this is absolutely nuts. like, not even borderline nuts, it's full blown crazy.

 

if you're feeling sexually frustrated, have a conversation with your significant other. try to find solutions. pleasure yourself, if need be. do not make a chart cataloging her refusal like a lunatic.

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i laughed

 

yes he might want sex everyday...but i have to assume that's because he's only having sex 3x a month..........his chances of getting a yes are like 1 and 10... so ofc he's asking every day...

 

no she is not obligated to have sex with him just because he asks....and wants to have sex.... but still... she is only having sex with him... 3x a month...

 

I want to assume they have been married 15 years+ and are in their 40s+ ... with kids...

 

That said...if it bothers him that much (i don't take this that seriously, there are worse things he could do)... then maybe it's time to find a new s/o... or go to couples counseling....

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yes he might want sex everyday...but i have to assume that's because he's only having sex 3x a month..........his chances of getting a yes are like 1 and 10... so ofc he's asking every day...

 

no she is not obligated to have sex with him just because he asks....and wants to have sex.... but still... she is only having sex with him... 3x a month...

 

I want to assume they have been married 15 years+ and are in their 40s+ ... 

 

That said...if it bothers him that much (i don't take this that seriously, there are worse things he could do)... then maybe it's time to find a new s/o... or go to couples counseling....

 

I agree. 

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i laughed

 

yes he might want sex everyday...but i have to assume that's because he's only having sex 3x a month..........his chances of getting a yes are like 1 and 10... so ofc he's asking every day...

 

no she is not obligated to have sex with him just because he asks....and wants to have sex.... but still... she is only having sex with him... 3x a month...

 

I want to assume they have been married 15 years+ and are in their 40s+ ... with kids...

 

That said...if it bothers him that much (i don't take this that seriously, there are worse things he could do)... then maybe it's time to find a new s/o... or go to couples counseling....

 

This. People are focusing on the fact that he's asking every day and not getting the overall picture. Your significant other should normally want to have sex with you. Those shaming him for wanting to have sex with his significant other are a bit much. I mean it's not like it's once a week they are having sex and he wants more. It's 3 times in a month and a half. That's not normal.

 

The worst thing he did was make this public. He should either sat down and talked with her about it, gone to counseling or leave if it's truly bothering him that much. Now, if there is a legit medical reason for her low libido, then he should be understanding and patient. However, if there are other reasons (lack of interest, not happy, other relestlessness), then discussion and communication is the most important step. This is for both sides, not just him. 

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I remember this. I feel bad for people in situations like that. Nobody likes to feel unwanted, especially by the person who's supposed to want you and care about you more than anybody else  :._.:

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This. People are focusing on the fact that he's asking every day and not getting the overall picture. Your significant other should normally want to have sex with you. Those shaming him for wanting to have sex with his significant other are a bit much. I mean it's not like it's once a week they are having sex and he wants more. It's 3 times in a month and a half. That's not normal.

 

The worst thing he did was make this public. He should either sat down and talked with her about it, gone to counseling or leave if it's truly bothering him that much. Now, if there is a legit medical reason for her low libido, then he should be understanding and patient. However, if there are other reasons (lack of interest, not happy, other relestlessness), then discussion and communication is the most important step. This is for both sides, not just him. 

Some people just have naturally lower sex drives or just don't like sex much.... it happens and people shouldn't be shamed for it.

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Some people just have naturally lower sex drives or just don't like sex much.... it happens and people shouldn't be shamed for it.

 

On the same hand, people shouldn't make excuses for it either. 

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