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Make joke out of it if you are scared that he will tease you about it. It works.

Like if I told my brother accidentally that I like one of his friend and didn't want him to know. I would just make lame jokes like "oooooh nooo hooow lucky you are to see him sooo often" "I wish I had his nose" "he looks like he likes mint icecream" "tooootally in looovee" and by the end of the day he would think that I was just joking. Success.

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I think that one won't work because he is an asshole so yeah.

I think I have two options.

1. Delete all evidences and deny everything he says.

2. Blackmail him with something.

It depends.

Do others see you as an honest, trustworthy person, even more so than your brother? If this is the case, erase the evidence and lie your way to safety. However, if the above description does not apply to you, blackmail him. Do you have potentially damaging/embarrassing information he would not want leaked? 

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and now my brother knows something really embarrassing which he wasn't supposed to know. What should I do *cries* ???

stalker him or put camera on his room , catch him do something embarrassing .. or ask your mam what embarrassing thing he did when he was young .. Fighting don't give up  :hoplz:

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It depends.

Do others see you as an honest, trustworthy person, even more so than your brother? If this is the case, erase the evidence and lie your way to safety. However, if the above description does not apply to you blackmail him. Do you have potentially damaging/embarrassing information he would not want leaked?

So maybe I should pretend like I didnt get what he said? He made a snarky comment about it and I automatically knew what he was talking about.

Ohhh it is so complicated.DD;

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I was just dumb and I didn't realize he would found so soon. But it is not something perverted or whatever, just embarassing.

Would it be a problem if other people found out? And is it something he'd talk about?

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So maybe I should pretend like I didnt get what he said? He made a snarky comment about it and I automatically knew what he was talking about.

Ohhh it is so complicated.DD;

Yeah, that would probably be your best bet. I hope he isn't mean and tells others. It is during moments like this that I am able to appreciate the relationship I have with my sibling. Neither of us would ever reveal something embarrassing or damaging about the other. In fact, we share everything and we know that we are the only ones we can trust and rely on 100%.

 

Also, don't feel so embarrassed. I remember there was a user on here who created a thread about an EXTREMELY humiliating experience. The user was watching porn on their computer and forgot to close the tab/video (I think he/she fell asleep watching the porn) and when they opened the computer the next day, IN CLASS, the video started playing and everybody heard. I don't think anything could beat this, not even your situation (I hope). 

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Yeah, that would probably be your best bet. I hope he isn't mean and tells others. It is during moments like this that I am able to appreciate the relationship I have with my sibling. Neither of us would ever reveal something embarrassing or damaging about the other. In fact, we share everything and we know that we are the only ones we can trust and rely on 100%.

 

Also, don't feel so embarrassed. I remember there was a user on here who created a thread about an EXTREMELY humiliating experience. The user was watching porn on their computer and forgot to close the tab/video (I think he/she fell asleep watching the porn) and when they opened the computer the next day, IN CLASS, the video started playing and everybody heard. I don't think anything could beat this, not even your situation (I hope).

I am sure he already told his girlfriend (whatever, my family don't like her anyway) but I think I will go with it. I hope he will forget after month or something like that. I will also try to avoid him.

I can't beat that actually hahah. My brother just found out I like something which I shouldn't like because people think it is dumb.

PS.I deleted all evidences just in case.

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I would get teased a lot.

If it's something normal you'll just have to live with it I think... not act to embarassed?

But that depends on what it is I guess

I agree. If it's just something embarrassing but not life-ruining, then just take it in your stride and don't let your brother think he has a hold on you or something.

You might even want to consider taking preemptive action by voluntarily revealing your mistake to others who might eventually be expected to learn about it from your brother. That requires 'thick skin' on your part, but will effectively take the sting out of the whole matter, and allow you to move on.

 

Edit: If the 'mistake' is he finding out you like something you shouldn't because others might think it's dumb, I'd say fuck them; you can like whatever you like and they just have to deal :datass:

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I agree. If it's just something embarrassing but not life-ruining, then just take it in your stride and don't let your brother think he has a hold on you or something.

You might even want to consider taking preemptive action by voluntarily revealing your mistake to others who might eventually be expected to learn about it from your brother. That requires 'thick skin' on your part, but will effectively take the sting out of the whole matter, and allow you to move on.

Thanks for advice ;)
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