babystep 5,035 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 ...even if it's just for the sake of the baby (like without being in love with the person)? I wondered, because a friend of mine recently found out that she's pregnant from a boy she's dating for like two months and she told me that they're preparing to marry. And I was surprised, because before she found out she's pregnant she told me the guy might not be the right for her. And then she just said she wants to marry him for the baby. I know that shotgun weddings are nothing new and also often happens among K-celebs, so I wanted to hear if you would marry a boy/girl just for the baby or if you would rather wait? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlaveMaster 1,018 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 .its her fault Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Latte Macchiato 156 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babystep 5,035 Posted May 7, 2015 Author Share Posted May 7, 2015 .its her fault What's her fault? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onefatpanda 296 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 nope Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cnude 1,928 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 No, even if I truly loved the guy I would perhaps marry him in the future but not only because I was pregnant. It doesn't seem fair that the baby has to live with 2 adults that don't really love each other, it would create a weird environment for the kid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlaveMaster 1,018 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 What's her fault? if he isnt right for her,WHY have a baby from him,,than forcing herself to marry him..this girl is messed up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babystep 5,035 Posted May 7, 2015 Author Share Posted May 7, 2015 if he isnt right for her,WHY have a baby from him,,than forcing herself to marry him..this girl is messed up. Well, things happen. But that doesn't mean that she can't be happy and they're not going to marry tomorrow. At the end, it's her decision. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skibop!! 8,585 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 hell no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,948 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 this is why I think the government should consider giving out free morning after pills to all girls yes in every country. They need to promote the use of it... really. If I was pregnant (which will never happen but I'll try just for the sake of OP) and it was too late I would raise it or put it up for adoption. I would not marry him because of it but he'll pay child support anyways If I was a man and I impregnated someone by accident I would not want to marry her just because of that, I mean 2 months? No. I would support whatever decision the woman makes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Insane 728 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krystalized 1,843 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 I'm sorry but I would get an abortion. I'm against marriage because of babies too, but finally it's a matter of opinions and decisions Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
goldmine 2,849 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 peens are gross and im not ever going to be pregnant so no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fishyhaelove 509 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 If I really love him, I will marry him in the future after the baby grow up (maybe before the kid start going to school). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlaveMaster 1,018 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 Well, things happen. But that doesn't mean that she can't be happy and they're not going to marry tomorrow. At the end, it's her decision. some things doesnt happen if she didnt want to.But that also doesnt mean she will be happy .well,u learn from life.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sane 16,342 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 If it was really for the sake of the baby then you'd think twice before marrying somebody you had no previous intention of marrying and maybe work something out with them as two responsible adults instead of running off and ruining both your lives because oops you made a baby. Shotgun weddings are really because you're afraid of people's opinions if you have a baby out of wedlock, and nothing else. So no. Never. I'd rather do what's right for me and the baby than do what random people who are completely unrelated to the situation want me to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sully 4,318 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 Hell no. Me being pregnant would actually make me more inclined to turn down a marriage proposal from him because I think he would only be asking me because I'm pregnant. I want him to ask because he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me, not because of a baby. The only way I'd say yes is if we were already discussing marriage before the pregnancy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cnude 1,928 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 some things doesnt happen if she didnt want to.But that also doesnt mean she will be happy .well,u learn from life.. It's not that easy. Condoms break, the pill fails... It happens a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miky 2,878 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 nope and if none actually loves or wanted the marriage or even it's one sided will they will divorce more than sure,i've seen many marriages that went down real quickly when they did it out of love and free will even more when you're kinda forced by those circumstances etc. what people will say,parents in some cases etc...in many cases the baby,kid will suffer more if the marriage is failing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlaveMaster 1,018 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 It's not that easy. Condoms break, the pill fails... It happens a lot. see,so its her fault,for doing it and knowing the potential consequences Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sully 4,318 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 see,so its her fault,for doing it and knowing the potential consequences It's actually both the boy and the girl's fault. I don't know why when accidental pregnancy happens people like to blame only the girl like girls get pregnant with no help from a boy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cnude 1,928 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 see,so its her fault,for doing it and knowing the potential consequences Why isn't it his? He did it too. But no, just because you know something may happen (the pill failing or the condom breaking) you're not going to stop having sex. Those accidents are the exceptions to the rule. Sure, they happen, but the chance of birth control being effective beats the chance of it not being effective by a lot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlaveMaster 1,018 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 It's actually both the boy and the girl's fault. I don't know why when accidental pregnancy happens people like to blame only the girl like girls get pregnant with no help from a boy. cause girl is the one that gets to carry the baby in her for 9months..and suffers,so she has to choose the worthy male(thinks is the best for her)..BUt she didnt ..so its her fault. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cnude 1,928 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 cause girl is the one that gets to carry the baby in her for 9months..and suffers,so she has to choose the worthy male(thinks is the best for her)..BUt she didnt ..so its her fault. Wtf, you talk as if everytime someone has sex (either if they're using birth control or not) they get pregnant. You know ovulation is a thing, don't you? '-' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sully 4,318 Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 cause girl is the one that gets to carry the baby in her for 9months..and suffers,so she has to choose the worthy male(thinks is the best for her)..BUt she didnt ..so its her fault. It will always be both people's fault. He knew what he was doing as well. And the guy is on the hook for child support for 18 years regardless on if he wants to pay it or not, so he needs to worry about possible pregnancy as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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