Do think sleeping in the same bed as a friend of the opposite gender is weird/awkward?

[Candykiss]

In college I've slept in nearly all the beds of my guy friends~

It was getting late and my dorm was too far to go back

 

A little cuddling and snuggling happened but I set limits

 

When I tell people I spent the night they always think something sexual happens or assume I'm a slut -_-

 

 

 

 

[shaishaix]

hey!

 

I haven't seen you in decades ...

 

EDIT: the topic .... if she's hot, def will spoon w/ her ... if she ugly; well i'll fall on the floor on purpose

[Saturn Girl]

it's only awkward if someone makes it so, if you're comfortable with it then it's fine.

[Lully]

I've shared a bed with my best friend's boyfriend when she went to work because we all slept in the bed together and then she had to leave. I mean, that's how trust works???? We never did anything, and I wouldn't want to, he wasn't my type at all, ew gross. 

 

But I mean, everyone has their own limits and their own norms, so *shrugs* 

 

I don't see anything wrong with it. It's fucking 2015, live your life. 

[Elle Eaux Elle]

Geez I was only tryna help u ungrateful betch

[abra]

It can feel weird and be a bit uncomfortable but it's generally cosy and comforting

[Skibop!!]

no, but I'm a girl so it's different lol

[Bitchcraft]

No... I spent many nights on my guy friends' beds. Many times with 2 other guys in beds meant for 2 ppl only. Nothing ever happened.

Men are not beasts... It's not like your friends are gonna rape you.

When you're hammered or too stoned to go to your place, you do what you gotta do. And it was never awkward.

yolo

[mochi]

I've never done it, tbh for me it would feel kinda awkward (I'm not that intimate with my guy friends)

but depends on how close you are and whether you yourself are comfortable with it I guess

[kamitruth]

I slept with my friends mom when I was little

[Mao]

i think it's normal with some people, and weird with others depending on how close you are

[sunadonna]

If you guys are really friends i dont see why is weird

[blinglocket]

i sleep with my guy friends all the time, including this weekend lmao

[zuluu]

It's not a big deal to me, like passing out with a friend and cuddling doesn't mean were gonna bang.

[bitch]

Yes both gay and straight men it's cool it's strictly for sleeping

[yabarthe]

It's only weird and awkward if you make it so. My friends and I share beds whenever we go on trips, doesn't matter what gender we are because no one wants to sleep on the hotel room floor. 

[ღChoco]

idk I probably wouldn't think much of it if I had to share a bed w/ a male friend. 

As long as he didn't try anything /shrug

[Genesis]

Nope.

[hotdog]

Nope

[Moonbyun]

Nope, it's not something that I mind at all.

[RyoDori]

each to their own opinions but i haven't done it before and i wouldn't do it either. the only ones who i had slept in the same bed with who is the opposite gender were my boyfriend and my brothers. 

[Exovaries]

Nah it's not weird at all if you're friends 

 

You're not a slut for sleeping in the same bed as a friend. You're a slut if you have sex with many people, and even if you do, don't let people criticize you for it. Slut should not be an insult :D

[auroras]

As long as both of you are comfortable with it, it's fine imo. But you should probably avoid telling anyone you're not close with about it. 

[♡SEOLO♡]

nothing wrong with that

[imideal( ͡°ᴥ ͡° ʋ)]

maybe its just me but i might be uncomfortable

 

if he looked like this dear god