slutty slut 394 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 some dude is trying to get it on with my friend but he's 25 and she's 20. i know they're both in their 20s but tbh it just seems a lil weird to me? like.. my friend graduated high school last year and is barely a freshman in college and the dude already has a bachelor's and a career going for him. the mental maturity between them is really noticeable too so i kinda wonder why the dude can't find a girl his own age. idk... i feel like something is off with him what do you guys think tbh????? should i tell my friend to ignore his ass???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MermaidPrincess 4,039 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 it would be weird if she was like 17 she's fine if its a mistake then let her make it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoplz 2,333 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ღChoco 2,864 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 idk I think the age difference is fine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jjangbakk 7,293 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 your friend should decide for herself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sammydee 8,599 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 It's 5 years.....i guess it's fine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OppawithaVengeance 3,454 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 Look at Kylie and tyga lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chioma 4,091 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 The age difference is fine. Now if she was underage we would have a problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UNIQ 5,546 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cornangel 5,295 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
llamaswag 8,571 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 No. It is not weird that actually considered good age different between the girl and guy. Alot of girls want to date a man that a little bit older than them (3-5 years are good) cuz they assume to be more mature and can take care of woman (like u say he has a career). Why date a boy that is childish and has no career when u can have a man with career that can help u out and u dont need to babysit him? it is fine if she was still high school and dates another H/S boy her age. Now she is 20's and in college, 5 years age different is totally fine to me. Based on his status, his pretty good--college graduate with a career (No comment on his personally IDK him), but ofcourse it is all depend on your friend if she is interest on him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chub chub 2,372 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 this should be up to ur fren honestly speaking if she feels okay i dont find 20 vs 25 to be weird Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cherry yuuki 458 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 They're both adults and if she wants to date him, then it's honestly her business. I know you mean well and all but I'm sure she can make her own decisions, she's not a little girl. If you want to be a good friend, just be there for her and support her at all times. The age difference is not a big deal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KinkySanta 1,073 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 I don't find it to be weird at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LoveBB 529 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 I don't find it weird at all. Your friend is an adult. Let her decide her own life and if she makes mistakes, they are hers to make. Just be there for her and offer advice when she asks for it. Otherwise, the ball's fully in her court. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ingenting 1,781 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 that seems like a normal age difference. my roommate is 19 and her boyfriend is about 25 (i forgot his exact age haha), and they match each other well. it's more about how they get along together than their age, but if they're at completely different stages in life and maturity it might not work out in the long run. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xo Nix xo 1,224 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 They're both legal adults, it's fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unafraid 187 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 It sounds like a good age gap, so thats not a problem, what matters is if she likes him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keijiro 7,065 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 5 years is still ok imo. More than that, it gets kinda weird. Especially those with >10 years age difference Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lully 1,779 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 I personally have a 2 year rule simply because I have a younger brother who is 2 years younger than me. I call it my "brotherzone" (not to be confused with the friendzone which isn't real at fucking all) because I just can't get passed the idea that you're the same age as my lil' bro if you're two years younger than me. (Sorry Kai, Sehun, and like almost every idol ever lmfao they're all 94liners rn). However, this age difference isn't strange. As long as your friend is okay with everything and is comfortable, it's fine. But if you feel fishy about this guy, like if you think he's taking advantage of her age or creeping or something, you should definitely say something to your friend. Whether she takes your concerns to heart is up to her, but if you /really/ feel like something is up with this guy, I would say something to her about it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 your friend should decide for herself Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slutty slut 394 Posted April 22, 2015 Author Share Posted April 22, 2015 your friend should decide for herself omg no my friend is dumb as hell she's always making dumb decisions but i feel like this guy is a creep and can't hit it off with women his own age so he goes for younger college girls or something??? he gives off that vibe. he has no friends, all he does is play xbox when he's not hanging out with my friend and idk he's so weird.. like, how he acts and stuff idk LOL this guy is so fishy to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kowaiyo 1,123 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 It's fine. It's just a 5 years gap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vitaeminH2O 883 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 Yes... I would just because you said that you noticed the difference in maturity between the two... that puts up a red flag in my book tbh. Because usually when the maturity level is different it means that they might not be on the same page as what they expect out of each in their relationship... that can cause problems in the long run.... and the guy can use her naiveness to take advantage of her But at the end of the day it is her decision =/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny 5,676 Posted April 22, 2015 Share Posted April 22, 2015 nopeee as long as they can both be mature and serious when needed! if the difference in maturity is noticeable like you said then maybe it wont work out tho....im almost 20 and my gf is 27 and tbh i like the age difference a lot it depends on the people themselves more than the ages Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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