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Do you get crushes on people other than your partner while in a relationship?

KinkySanta

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Just wondering if this is a normal thing, or a sign of being a huge douchebag.

I sadly do get crushes on other people while in a relationship. I've been with the same person for a little over a year now, but as some of you probably know from the fact I post about it all the time I also have a huge crush on my boss. I've had the crush on my boss since before I even met the guy I'm with, so I guess it makes sense that the crush didn't just magically disappear.

Do any of you get crushes on people other than your partner while in a relationship? Only really asking because on a thread I posted about the boss thing someone replied to the thread saying, "Don't you have a boyfriend though?" So it really got me wondering if this isn't super normal.

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It's normal and innocent. The problem becomes acting upon those feelings if you are in a relationship where you've agreed with your partner you wouldn't and that the partnership is monogamous. Otherwise, crushes are honestly really harmless. Being with someone doesn't always magically make everyone else unattractive, and it's all in good fun as long as you know where to keep the line drawn.

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well theres a scripture from the bible that says "if you see a woman and have desire for her, you have already commited adultery in your heart" so this can kind of apply to this altho no-ones married.

and I havent had a girlfriend, but there are girls who have had crushes on me while they were dating already ~ these days no-one is really all that loyal, at least in new zealand.

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It's bad when all you can think about is the other person

When I was with my ex, I got a new job and one of the gained a crush on a girl that worked with me almost instantly. She was all I thought about for 6 months, and it became pretty problematic for our shitty relationship

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i think it's normal and it cant be avoided tbh. the person i'm having a mutual understanding with rn actually asked me about this and i do have (like 2) and he seems fine with it (well, that's what he said idk). but anyways, however, dont go to the extent or going beyond actually thinking about them other than your partner and actually crossing the line, or making it more than just a crush

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happened to me once


its not something you can control


it only means you are not 100% in love with the person you in a relationship with


or else you wouldn't crush on anybody else


am i wrong  :imstupid:


 


it happened to me once like i said and its not going to happen again because i finally found the man of my dreams :dave:


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