Keyboard 13 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Today i was asked by a black person but i've never dated blacks but he was reallly cute but im unsure because my cousin also dated a black person but dumped her for a black girl. And now im really paranoid. I really wanna go out with him but i know my parents arent going to like that. What should i do? And also please share your experience with me. Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YNRA 1,082 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 kill your parents and get that big black d girl, you know its what you want Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VARSITY 3,838 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 You seem young if you're concerned with what your parents are going to think about dating a black person. Your parents seem prejudice if they won't like you dating a black person. Rather than create unnecessary drama and stress on your familial relationships. Just don't date him unless you're sure you can handle everything that comes along with it. my cousin also dated a black person but dumped her for a black girl I doubt they dumped your cousin just because she wasn't black. If they agreed to date her in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seolri 915 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 I wouldnt call it dating. He was my makeout buddy in the library cuz i just really like kissing lol.... I would've done him too but back but i really value my v card so... And GURLLLLLLLLLLLLLL FUCK YO PARENTS. JUST DONT TELL THEM LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
palechibi 2,748 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 just date him maybe it will help your parents not be so close minded thats what my cousin did and now our family isnt as close minded and now he's gonna get married to her so it worked out well ~ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grumpybiscuit 46 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 not all are bad. just try, if it didn't work out then you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MermaidPrincess 4,039 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 yes I've dated black guys. Nothing serious, just a few dates and a little something more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xo Nix xo 1,224 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 I haven't, but I definitely would. I have racist family too and I don't give a damn what they think, especially now that I'm an adult. My stepdad has made racist comments about a Chinese guy I've dated in the past, and once I got over the initial shock of him saying what he said, I just decided that his opinion doesn't matter. Like who you want to like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JILLheartsTVXQ 34 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Love knows no color. Give it a shot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MeU96 657 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 As a black person, I think that if you know that your family are racist, think twice before bringing someone (regardless of what race) into that kind of environment. But especially in this case, anti-blackness can really mess a person up, especially in a relationship. And also if you base your judgement of a whole race on one bad experience that you heard about (didn't even experience it first hand), you probably shouldn't be dating at all, that's not a very mature world view... So I'd say probably don't date this guy, he probably has enough going on. Black people are just people except our melanocytes are more active and our hair is a little magical! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Savior Qrisus 565 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 If that would stop your parents from loving you unconditionally then they were not parents in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AslanHunter 411 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 I'm black and when I had a white boyfriend once, I was a little stressed out over what my family would think. But in the end, no one made a big deal about it except my brother making stupid comments- but he always makes those anyway, I just had to continue my policy of ignoring him when he says outrageous things- problem solved. Truthfully, you will probably encounter some cultural differences here and there- depending on your respective backgrounds. But as long as you like them as a person, that might just become one more interesting thing to learn about them. In the end, people are individuals so no matter what race, just judge the person on a case-by-case basis. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hizu 6,869 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 No, actually I don't know any black person. Date who you want, though, don't let your parents' racism affect you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
90liner 1,904 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 I have before. I don't really understand how your cousin's experience is relevant tbh. My cousin dated a white guy, but he broke up with her. Should I rule out all white people based off one random guy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LThear 1,453 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 noup... but in my country there are black people so even if i wanted to i wouldnt be able... its pretty hard dating non white person in my country... we dont have black ppl, we dont have arabs, we dont even have asian except maybe few thousand chinese Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MySeaYeon 3,004 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 i haven't dated a black girl yet.....but i don't think my parents would care much..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Delincious 5,654 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Never Just get to know him better if you have doubts and then date him if you want to~ Who cares about your parents. Unless they're so racist they'd disown you/kick you out for dating a black person it shouldn't be much a problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gyujin 1,545 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Do whatever makes you happy. It's your life, not theirs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_ 1,328 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 There is no black person in my country or maybe I just haven't seen them around. My own rule is just not dating a different religion person. You got it with this I guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
victaorious 2,923 Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 No but I've also never dated anyone of my own race. I'm happy because where I live, dating outside your race is pretty much normal. Most the kids here look mixed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyorris 84 Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 NO I havent but I want to lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil 139 Posted April 18, 2015 Share Posted April 18, 2015 i dated a ..black guy before but his parents didnt wanted us to date so he ended it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Giselle Queen Mina Knight 387 Posted April 20, 2015 Share Posted April 20, 2015 No but i know my parents would instantly think I'm crazy if i did :( On your question just make sure your ready and not just forcing yourself. You seem young and honestly go with your heart ^_^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alexander Wang 591 Posted April 21, 2015 Share Posted April 21, 2015 I haven't dated a black guy before. I used to have a crush on one, but I never made a move on him, lmao. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AfterglowVape 11,799 Posted April 21, 2015 Share Posted April 21, 2015 no. but they sure are cute Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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