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yeah you know... this is a very wicked and terrible love story that happened to me

still suffering for it... I have already made a lots of threads about my "boyfriend" and his immature behaviour

guess what... this keeps getting worst and worst, and its true.. even if he did a lot of bad things to me ... i can not forget him easily... because he was the first one

 

they say that your first love will never be forgotten...  :horror:

 

anyway.... I am going to tell you some facts about him that I found out later:

 

*He always picked me up at my house to go shopping, eating.... in a car, he told me that it was his own car.... WRONG 

that car wasn't his...  he borrowed his friend's car and lied to me about owning it... wut

 

*He told a guy he knew that his father was very wealthy and famous doctor in his home country....

WRONG

he told me that his father was a banker...

At this point I dunno if his father is a doctor or a banker... and his family is in another country not here

 

*I met a guy that used to work with him... this guy told me that my "boyfriend" used to steal money from the store he worked in.. and that he has a gambling addiction and that he owes a lot of money to the brokers...  :shock:  :shock:  :shock:

 

*also when he got mad to me he started adding tons and tons of random girls on social media... liking their pictures, commenting... and he told me he did it on purpose to make me jealous...  :omgwtf:

also he had lots of pictures of girls in his cellphone...   :horror:

 

*last time we talked he called me an ugly fat whore... and told me to go suck his d....  among other things

I am really offended.... :horror:  :horror:  :horror:

 

okay this sucks and I feel kinda shitty but by writing this lame story I am releasing myself...

 

thoughts? opinions? 

 

 

yes I am dumb, naive and I trust people easily thats why he lied so much to me~~ I already know this 

but its stil so hard to forget... 

 

 

what should I do now...  :unsure:

 

 

 

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Umm girl he's lucky that isn't me im such a vindictive bitch I would. Fuck him and take pictures of his dick telling. Him I need something to look at when we're no together and then post that shit all over his social media's and make sure his face is in it stick some around his car in flyers and write on it "since you're such a pusssy I thought you'd love a mind blowing fuck over!" Whew girllll

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Eh, everyone lies (except me). You might just stay with him. The other alternative is a "nice guy", that might be even worse.

 

I'm sorry but are you a -? He's calling her an ugly fat whore! I'm gonna pray foryou.

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Break up with him, right now his lies arent exactly hurting you, but later on that may change.

Also maybe he is just trying to make you jealous, but he may be cheating

Dont let this go on, im sure you deserve someone better

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I'm sorry but are you a -? He's calling her an ugly fat whore! I'm gonna pray foryou.

 

I interpret it this way. That wasn't enough for her to dump him or argue back to him (I assume). Hence, it's possible that sort of treatment intimately appeals to her. Some women say they prefer to be treated in a certain dominant manner to a degree, that might be her thing subconsciously.

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*last time we talked he called me an ugly fat whore... and told me to go suck his d....  among other things

I am really offended.... 

 

What the- what an asshole, get rid of him burn him skin him alive do whatever you want 

If he makes you unhappy there is no reason to still be in a relationship 

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I interpret it this way. That wasn't enough for her to dump him or argue back to him (I assume). Hence, it's possible that sort of treatment intimately appeals to her. Some women say they prefer to be treated in a certain dominant manner to a degree, that might be her thing subconsciously.

 

I love dominant males but that guy is as dominant as unicorns and rainbows. The girl said above she's offended not dripping wet

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I love dominant males but that guy is as dominant as unicorns and rainbows. The girl said above she's offended not dripping wet

 

Her reason is telling her its offensive, but relationships don't function on reason unless its money-related. Every person has different tastes/kinks/etc. She probably just wants him to tone it down, not him become a "better" person.

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Let this be a Lesson for future. Don't trust people so easily. He sounds like the type of person I would like to stay away from. Many times in life we don't Get things right the First time and don't worry much because even though "Firsts" are memorable its the Last and Only one that will matter so much more.

Also you can vent here all you want. We will listen :)

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I do not understand this part.

 

 

. i can not forget him easily... because he was the first one

1. Why would you want to forget something like this? It's a valuable life experience that you can use to shape successful relationships in the future. 

2. Are you actually trying to say that because this person is your "first love" you will still have lingering feelings for him? Are you talking about yourself or what some cultures like to claim about "first loves"? Don't set boundaries for yourself based on what other people say. And if you still have feelings for him, don't think it's because you're shackled to this "first love" stigma because it only exists if you want it to exist.

 

I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this. Just because it didn't work the first time (I mean, how many times does anyone get something right the first time? Learning experience.) doesn't mean you should have trust issues and lock yourself out to other people in the future. Whatever you choose to do, I think there's a clear consensus that you should end it. Get some support from your friends and stop the bullying.

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"last time we talked he called me an ugly fat whore... and told me to go suck his d"

 

On this alone I'd be tempted to leave him. Belittling your appearance in any way is imo unacceptable no matter how mad you get and what he said afterwards implies he has little to zero respect for you if he's thinking of you as more of a sexual object than anything. If he's verbally abusive at this stage there's a danger it could get worse if you keep accepting it. Good luck with whatever you ultimately decide on doing, hope it all works out okay for you hun.

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Knowing that he is a compulsive liar should serve as a pretty clear red flag. Judging from your post, it seems as if he's too immature to handle a relationship at them moment. Even though he may be "your first love" don't use that as a justification for staying with him. If you are uncomfortable with his actions, I'd recommend confronting him about his behavior and see whether or not that makes a difference. If he continues on with his bullshit, it's time to reconsider whether or not the relationship is worth staying in.

 

I'd personally get rid of him as soon as possible... but hey, it's your decision.

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yeah you know... this is a very wicked and terrible love story that happened to me

still suffering for it... I have already made a lots of threads about my "boyfriend" and his immature behaviour

guess what... this keeps getting worst and worst, and its true.. even if he did a lot of bad things to me ... i can not forget him easily... because he was the first one

 

they say that your first love will never be forgotten...  :horror:

 

anyway.... I am going to tell you some facts about him that I found out later:

 

*He always picked me up at my house to go shopping, eating.... in a car, he told me that it was his own car.... WRONG 

that car wasn't his...  he borrowed his friend's car and lied to me about owning it... wut

 

*He told a guy he knew that his father was very wealthy and famous doctor in his home country....

WRONG

he told me that his father was a banker...

At this point I dunno if his father is a doctor or a banker... and his family is in another country not here

 

*I met a guy that used to work with him... this guy told me that my "boyfriend" used to steal money from the store he worked in.. and that he has a gambling addiction and that he owes a lot of money to the brokers...  :shock:  :shock:  :shock:

 

*also when he got mad to me he started adding tons and tons of random girls on social media... liking their pictures, commenting... and he told me he did it on purpose to make me jealous...  :omgwtf:

also he had lots of pictures of girls in his cellphone...   :horror:

 

*last time we talked he called me an ugly fat whore... and told me to go suck his d....  among other things

I am really offended.... :horror:  :horror:  :horror:

 

okay this sucks and I feel kinda shitty but by writing this lame story I am releasing myself...

 

thoughts? opinions? 

 

 

yes I am dumb, naive and I trust people easily thats why he lied so much to me~~ I already know this 

but its stil so hard to forget... 

 

 

what should I do now...  :unsure:

Sadly, I have to tell you that I've been in a similar situation before in my life. Please be safe, because a person like this can be very dangerous. If he treats you like this, he does not love you. It sucks to say that, but that's how it is. You deserve so much better than be spoken to like that, and I think inside you must know this. Like most everyone else, I would advise you to break things off with him and cut him out of your life entirely. Just because he was the "first one" does not make you obligated to stay with him. There is nothing wrong with loving more than once in your life, and you can find someone better. My heart goes out to you, and I hope you get away from this toxic situation. 

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