HaniBunny 1 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I've been dating this guy for almost a month now, and We decided to take the step into being in a relationship Last week. So now, We are b/f & g/f, and We have talked about sex and Had quite a bit of makeout sessions that almost lead to sex, but I really didn't let anything happen, I just said No Maybe another time, (I am not a virgin, and neither is he). Obviously, it seems he really wants it but I am a bit iffy since I don't want him to lose interest in me after We have done It. We are in a relationship now, which does have a good sign. And I did ask him if he was wanting the relationship to be serious or just casual (just for fun) just so I don't get too attached on this guy and so I know What I really have to look forward to. And he said he is wanting something Serious, and asked if I was feeling like he wanted something more casual. And told me not to worry. which is also a good sign, right? I've read so many things online where it says that guys DO lose interest after sex, so I really want to know What you think in this situation and some advice? Thanks guys!!! xxx ♡ Your oppa is ugly ♡ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SNSTD 4,470 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I've been dating this guy for almost a month now, and We decided to take the step into being in a relationship Last week. So now, We are b/f & g/f, and We have talked about sex and Had quite a bit of makeout sessions that almost lead to sex, but I really didn't let anything happen, I just said No Maybe another time, (I am not a virgin, and neither is he). Obviously, it seems he really wants it but I am a bit iffy since I don't want him to lose interest in me after We have done It. We are in a relationship now, which does have a good sign. And I did ask him if he was wanting the relationship to be serious or just casual (just for fun) just so I don't get too attached on this guy and so I know What I really have to look forward to. And he said he is wanting something Serious, and asked if I was feeling like he wanted something more casual. And told me not to worry. which is also a good sign, right? I've read so many things online where it says that guys DO lose interest after sex, so I really want to know What you think in this situation and some advice? Thanks guys!!! xxx ♡ Your oppa is ugly ♡ wut Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deea 6,754 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I've been with my bf for almost 3 months now and everytime I go to his apartament I ignore his sexual frustrations Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*lesigh* 6,759 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 Tbh all he's saying could be mere lip service. But if he really does seem like the right guy and he seems genuine about his feelings towards him, sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
byeol 8,270 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 Almost one month.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lexi.K 3,161 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 If he's not able to wait for you, he's not worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WON Hallyu 18,527 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 After I ejaculate, I feel abit sleepy but the next morning the wood is up again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hwayoungsnip 145 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 If he truly likes you he won't lose interest after sex, he'll just want more. Pretty much you just need to decide what's important to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denizen mars 5,911 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 'guys lose interest in a relationship after sex'...if this was true, married couples wouldn't exist... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
slutty slut 394 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 if he really liked you he'd respect you and your decisions, otherwise it's not worth it and if he loses interest in you after you've had sex then he was probably just looking to sleep with you in the first place Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ripiasuju 8,229 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 yes its true they do, but not all the time lots of times it might make him more interested ~ but personally I dont even think it should happen untill marriage, its not relly something that should be used to stabilize a bf/gf friendship ~ more like a marriage Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest anh Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 honestly horn dogs aren't cute Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HaniBunny 1 Posted April 3, 2015 Author Share Posted April 3, 2015 Thanks guys.Maybe I'll just ask him to wait. Sorry this was so abrupt. Hehe. I just needed some advice on this topic, so I decided to ask what kpop fans think in this situation ♡ Your oppa is ugly ♡ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
llamaswag 8,571 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 No, I dont think guy will lose interest after sex if he really love u. So to make sure his feeling is genuine not just seek for physical contact, you should waits for another 5/6 months into ur relationship? if u want to know his true heart be4 take another step. 1/2 months into a relationship and already has sex is way too soon, and especially u want a serious relationship. Therefore, time to test the relationship is a must Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Property of Goddess Irene 9,760 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 Your bf lies to you the same way you lie to your bf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 No If you would've had sex before knowing eachother, then that's another matter because he might just be horny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KinkySanta 1,073 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I had sex with my guy on the first date, we've been together for over a year now. They won't necessarily lose interest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted April 4, 2015 Share Posted April 4, 2015 lip service to get in your pants. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScarletWhimsy 2,203 Posted April 13, 2015 Share Posted April 13, 2015 If he's not able to wait for you, he's not worth it. ^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
grumpybiscuit 46 Posted April 14, 2015 Share Posted April 14, 2015 guys are usually more ready than the ladies. girls usually wait for the right time and a little more cautious on anything intimate related. sometimes boys would lose interest after a long wait. now, if there is someone like that - leave him. dont even bother starting or go further. boy loves girl would wait until you are ready and comfortable with it. sex is part of relationship but not all that. if he's serious with you, he will not lose interest in you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LilLeppi 138 Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 I've been dating this guy for almost a month now, and We decided to take the step into being in a relationship Last week. So now, We are b/f & g/f, and We have talked about sex and Had quite a bit of makeout sessions that almost lead to sex, but I really didn't let anything happen, I just said No Maybe another time, (I am not a virgin, and neither is he). Obviously, it seems he really wants it but I am a bit iffy since I don't want him to lose interest in me after We have done It. We are in a relationship now, which does have a good sign. And I did ask him if he was wanting the relationship to be serious or just casual (just for fun) just so I don't get too attached on this guy and so I know What I really have to look forward to. And he said he is wanting something Serious, and asked if I was feeling like he wanted something more casual. And told me not to worry. which is also a good sign, right? I've read so many things online where it says that guys DO lose interest after sex, so I really want to know What you think in this situation and some advice? Thanks guys!!! xxx ♡ Your oppa is ugly ♡ Honestly, I think this can go either way. Some guys hunt for girls only based on sex and are just horrible people, but there are also guys that will stick with a girl even when they have sex early in their relationship. It just depends on your guy. You have to judge for yourself how sincere you think he is. If you feel you're not ready to go there with him yet, and you feel like he's pressuring you, then that's just wrong, and he needs to be understanding of your feelings. But if you are ready for it, there's nothing wrong with that, either. Best of luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mao 696 Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 I've only had sex with one person (multiple times) and we're both really good friends (this is kind of weird to talk about) so we usually just nap afterwords or change the subject and move on LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScarletWhimsy 2,203 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 'guys lose interest in a relationship after sex'...if this was true, married couples wouldn't exist... ^ exactly how I reasoned it out too LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krystalized 1,843 Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 If the guy is interested in u he won't end with you after having sex. I had sex with my bf after a week of relationship but were still going strong (1 and half year) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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