Senpie 1,663 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I do that when people hurt me tbh. It's terrible tbh, and i regret it almost right away. How do you stop or prevent from even doing it in the first place? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hqnnik 1,528 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 Me too, I don't want to hurt anybody though. Just think through it before speaking. I get hurt easily but I hurt others as easily. Whenever I am about to say something incorrigible to someone, I hold off and remain quiet. Run stuff through your mind or cup a hand over your mouth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
baetics 888 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I say shit to hurt people because I like hurting people If you want to prevent from doing it then try to think before you speak. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
۩ ♡ لا اله الا الله ♥ ۞ 632 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 no , when someone hurt me , I just cry in silent ... not just in internet , in my real life when someone talk bad about me behind my back , I just leave it and cry alone .. sometime I hate that about myself , I hope I can talk back and return it but this just not me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunny 5,676 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I really try not to... I think I'm a pretty empathetic person especially being bullied myself and falling into a deep depression, I would never want someone to feel hurt especially because of me i know words can do so much harm... even if that person is rude to me i try to think of their situation and feelings, it's hard for me to be stern and that's caused a lot of problems >.< Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helbi 4,358 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I can't be mean/rude even if I'm mad or don't like someone because I just end up feeling bad about what I said later. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vitaeminH2O 883 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 Not intentionally... but it does happens sometimes and i feel horrible for doing it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xo Nix xo 1,224 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 Not on purpose. I'm usually very careful with how I talk to people, even if they've hurt me...but sometimes I reach a limit and I just cannot sugarcoat something harsh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LThear 1,453 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 i do say things like fat girls shoudnt wear leggings.... but things like that are facts Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Faint 39 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 i admit i did that before. all my emotions and thoughts just kind of burst all at once, and the things i shouldn't have said came out before i can think about it. i felt like shit right after. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julien6672 69 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
125628 3,659 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 only when they start it lmao but only online, i'm too pussy irl Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I usually punch them and ignore them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senpie 1,663 Posted April 3, 2015 Author Share Posted April 3, 2015 Me too, I don't want to hurt anybody though. Just think through it before speaking. I get hurt easily but I hurt others as easily. Whenever I am about to say something incorrigible to someone, I hold off and remain quiet. Run stuff through your mind or cup a hand over your mouth. Thanks, I'll try to do that. I know I run my mouth off without thinking sometimes. no , when someone hurt me , I just cry in silent ... not just in internet , in my real life when someone talk bad about me behind my back , I just leave it and cry alone .. sometime I hate that about myself , I hope I can talk back and return it but this just not me Aww, I'm sorry to hear that. Crying by yourself really sucks. I hope you break this barrier in your mind, or find other outlets. <3 You could talk back to defend yourself (though sometimes the people you argue with can be exasperating af, so you don't even want to stoop to their IQ tbh), or you could talk to someone IRL. A best friend maybe? It's embarassing but sometimes I rant to my dog. He seems to understand when I'm sad. He also likes to lick my tears when I cry which is cute lmao <3 I really try not to... I think I'm a pretty empathetic person especially being bullied myself and falling into a deep depression, I would never want someone to feel hurt especially because of me i know words can do so much harm... even if that person is rude to me i try to think of their situation and feelings, it's hard for me to be stern and that's caused a lot of problems >.< I think that's a good thing. I'm sorry you've been hurt in the past. I think you need to learn to be stern. There's a difference between being rude/mean and being honest or saying no. Not on purpose. I'm usually very careful with how I talk to people, even if they've hurt me...but sometimes I reach a limit and I just cannot sugarcoat something harsh. ^me IRL i do say things like fat girls shoudnt wear leggings.... but things like that are facts Fat girls want style too and it keeps you warm lmao. It's worse when girls wear ripped up leggings tbh. only when they start it lmao but only online, i'm too pussy irl I say mean shit to my friends and fam too behind a keyboard. It's very damaging. I usually punch them and ignore them.Teach me senpai Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rriinu 8 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 only when i'm pissed off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil 139 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 Sometimes I have to talk badly to people when they don't seem to understand the serious point I'm trying to get across. /: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnie 1,207 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I used to do that..I would say things that I knew it would hurt them (since they had hurt me). But I think I'm getting better at keeping it back. I try to ignore whatever and keep myself busy with something else. But it's hard :s Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HappyMaknae 815 Posted April 3, 2015 Share Posted April 3, 2015 I dont want to. I really don't. But, you know, sometimes when you get hurt by someone you just want them to feel a little bit of your pain. It only happens when I'm extremely angry or agitated :S I end up regretting it big time :( Just try to cool down before you speak Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smiIey 879 Posted April 4, 2015 Share Posted April 4, 2015 Not really. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seaweed 866 Posted April 4, 2015 Share Posted April 4, 2015 Only when I'm extremely angry. But it doesn't happen often because my friends don't piss me off and I avoid the people who make me furious too often. I don't like to hurt people at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cherryboyjaejae 260 Posted April 4, 2015 Share Posted April 4, 2015 yes i do.who doesn't? we wouldn't be humans if we've never hurt people.but the sad part is most of the time many of us don't even have a clue that we are hurting someone's feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyorris 84 Posted April 4, 2015 Share Posted April 4, 2015 No. If I fight with someone I wont ever say something that I know will hurt them, even if I wanted to, I just cant. Buuut when Im not angry, I always say things that hurt people .. mostly its the truth that they cant handle lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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