Supremacy 181 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 New post I was in her house right now just to give her present. When I got out of her house, she sent a message saying she saw my sad face and she said sorry for the latest weeks. She said she was very stressed because of the exams. I sent a message saying I was thinking about to end this relationship and she said she was very sorry and she will accept my decision if I want to finish it. What I should do?????? If you didn't undestand, read my old post http://onehallyu.com/topic/152971-please-i-need-your-help-should-i-finish-my-relationship/ In 4 month my girlfriend never called me out and in last week's she rarely send messages to me. She said she is studying for exams and I understand, but I don't understand why she can send messages to her friends and never to me. When I asked she said I want so much attention. Today is her birthday and I sent a long message to her to said how I love her and she was happy, but when her friends sent messages to her she said things like I love you. The history is longer, but I hate long posts. I'm thinking in put an end in this relationship, but I need your impartial opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ron Swanson 6,677 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 What exam is she doing that takes up 4 months... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkPunk 1,129 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 If you're thinking about it in the first place you probably should tbh also who studies 4 months for an exam.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MermaidPrincess 4,039 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 she didnt call you in 4 months end it, it'll be for BOTH of your guys' benefits Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HRH Ayyu 4,199 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 texting doesnt take alot of time. imo she doesnt sound that into you. let it burn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean Grey 2,400 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 end it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supremacy 181 Posted March 22, 2015 Author Share Posted March 22, 2015 What exam is she doing that takes up 4 months... If you're thinking about it in the first place you probably should tbh also who studies 4 months for an exam.. she didnt call you in 4 months end it, it'll be for BOTH of your guys' benefits She maybe did it because I always called her out. The exams started in the latest weeks, same time that she stop to send messages to me. About the 4 months, It isn't that she not sent messages, but she didn't invite me to go out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ajewcy 1,217 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 You've already said that you are thinking of ending it to her. Alea iacta est. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JinRi29 352 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 New post I was in her house right now just to give her present. When I got out of her house, she sent a message saying she saw my sad face and she said sorry for the latest weeks. She said she was very stressed because of the exams. I sent a message saying I was thinking about to end this relationship and she said she was very sorry and she will accept my decision if I want to finish it. What I should do?????? If you didn't undestand, read my old post Just end it. She said she would accept it and to me that means she doesn't even want to try making the relationship work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
potaeto 1,933 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 End it tbh.. seems like she's be fine with it and she's not giving it much effort in her part Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheVirginThotty 3,905 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 Listen if you love her give it a chance imo she sounds like she knows what was coming and is trying to hold onto what seems stable while probably carousing around with other "people" I won't tell you end it but from an outsiders view -changes he's to she's- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ron Swanson 6,677 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 She maybe did it because I always called her out. The exams started in the latest weeks, same time that she stop to send messages to me If the exams just started lately that shouldn't give her an excuse to stop talking to you for 4 months. It sounds like she's in a relationship with you for the sake of being one. Call it off because it doesn't sound like she cares that much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supremacy 181 Posted March 22, 2015 Author Share Posted March 22, 2015 If the exams just started lately that shouldn't give her an excuse to stop talking to you for 4 months. It sounds like she's in a relationship with you for the sake of being one. Call it off because it doesn't sound like she cares that much. It's not that she stopped talking to me for 4 months. She didn't invited me to go out for 4 months (called me out), but she sent messages to me. The real problem is that since the exams begins she rarely talked to me, but she talked to her friends. Sometimes I feel she loves me. I really love her, if I put an end in this relationship I will be very sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean Grey 2,400 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 It's not that she stopped talking to me for 4 months. She didn't invited me to go out for 4 months (called me out), but she sent messages to me. The real problem is that since the exams begins she rarely talked to me, but she talked to her friends. Sometimes I feel she loves me. I really love her, if I put an end in this relationship I will be very sad. So her friends are more important to her than you are. And I am not being mean - I just feel sorry for you. You really care about her but no offense I don't think she deaply cares for you. I hope you will find somebody who will like you as much as you do like her. Good luck ^^~. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PoshLuxe 689 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 End it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
× xngιѕм 708 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 If you love her that much, then give her a chance and tell her what you don't personally like about the relationship, if she changes the way things went like in 4 months ago, then that means she cares. If she doesn't change at ALL, you know shes not worth it. Overall- I'm leaving this up to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acclaim 3,513 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 She sounds not into you, end it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ღChoco 2,864 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 It sounds like she's been putting in zero effort for the last 4 months. Save yourself anymore pain and end it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supremacy 181 Posted March 22, 2015 Author Share Posted March 22, 2015 So her friends are more important to her than you are. And I am not being mean - I just feel sorry for you. You really care about her but no offense I don't think she deaply cares for you. I hope you will find somebody who will like you as much as you do like her. Good luck ^^~. If the exams just started lately that shouldn't give her an excuse to stop talking to you for 4 months. It sounds like she's in a relationship with you for the sake of being one. Call it off because it doesn't sound like she cares that much. End it If you love her that much, then give her a chance and tell her what you don't personally like about the relationship, if she changes the way things went like in 4 months ago, then that means she cares. If she doesn't change at ALL, you know shes not worth it. Overall- I'm leaving this up to you. She sounds not into you, end it. It sounds like she's been putting in zero effort for the last 4 months. Save yourself anymore pain and end it. Thanks for the repllies. You and the rest of the people . When I said to her I was thinking about to end I said i will think and tomorrow I will send a message. I'm really thinking about it and my life will be a bit lonely without her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Supremacy 181 Posted March 23, 2015 Author Share Posted March 23, 2015 If you love her that much, then give her a chance and tell her what you don't personally like about the relationship, if she changes the way things went like in 4 months ago, then that means she cares. If she doesn't change at ALL, you know shes not worth it. Overall- I'm leaving this up to you. I'm thinking about it. She said she was sorry but never said she will change. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sneeze 308 Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 I'm really thinking about it and my life will be a bit lonely without her Maybe you need to end it if that's the only reason you are hesitating - it will hurt you more the longer you try to make the relationship last if she simply represents a comfort zone. I mean, it doesn't sound like you actually miss her much as a person (but this is just my impression). I mean...I know a lot of people stay in a relationship because that relationship became a daily routine that they were comfortable in and were afraid to lose. They weren't actually afraid of losing a person, in other words, just what made it easier for them to feel secure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice_ 1,328 Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 CONSISTENT Sir !! Once you've made up your mind,then do it. Don't think of any kind of reason. I just don't want to sound rude,but she doesn't even try and she's already know this is gonna happen. So,the decision is yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tamaneko 36 Posted March 24, 2015 Share Posted March 24, 2015 Never be afraid to walk out of a relationship that just doesn't work for the both of you. Take small steps in improving yourself (I know the gym thing is said frequently, but any exercise really does help - I took up dancing and rock climbing). If you ever need small chat I'll be here :3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil 139 Posted March 24, 2015 Share Posted March 24, 2015 I don't wanna sound mean but you should end it in her birthday and be like "Happy birthday bach" She seems to not care that much about the relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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