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Are you popular with the opposite/same sex? (romantically speaking)

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Dating Wise 

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if so why or why not?

 

tbh im not and i dont even know why. im not beautiful but im also not ugly , i have an ok body, i dress well, im funny and have a good personality but im always put in the friendzone lol.

 

No guy in my 17 years of living has asked me out and tbh i didnt think anything of it until my friends pointed it out. I also think it has to do with me having extremely pretty friends so i probably look ugly next to them and its caused me to have low self esteem. 

 

i dont really care if i have a boyfriend or not but when your with your friends and they constantly get hit on and your just awkwardly standing there, and all your friends have boyfriends  it makes you feel like shit.

 

lol reading this back it sounds depressing, dont worry guys im somewhat fine  :lol:

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oh u meant dating wise

 

um the last time i got hit on by a girl was last saturday. It was uncomfortable because I don't like vagina but i went along with it because i was bored

 

usually girls don't see me like that because they know i don't like them

 

I've had my share of guys who pursued me but I had no interest. I play hard to get so that attracts guys. Like I'm the mysterious type and i won't throw myself at u unless you buy me 3 bottles and then ill just be ready to go down on u

 

i don't like being in relationships tho, im too young to be tied down. I just wanna live my life and talk to several boys at once.. y not?

 

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^^^^

 

if so why or why not?

 

tbh im not and i dont even know why. im not beautiful but im also not ugly , i have an ok body, i dress well, im funny and have a good personality but im always put in the friendzone lol.

 

No guy in my 17 years of living has asked me out and tbh i didnt think anything of it until my friends pointed it out. I also think it has to do with me having extremely pretty friends so i probably look ugly next to them and its caused me to have low self esteem. 

 

i dont really care if i have a boyfriend or not but when your with your friends and they constantly get hit on and your just awkwardly standing there, and all your friends have boyfriends  it makes you feel like shit.

 

lol reading this back it sounds depressing, dont worry guys im somewhat fine  :lol:

 

tbh I don't think it has anything to do with having pretty friends.guys are comfortable around you,that's why you're always friendzoned.girls who are "mysterious" get asked out the most

I'm just like you,I'm ALWAYS friendzoned,my guy friends love hanging out with me,even the guy I have a crush on considers me one of his closest friends (which I wish he didn't).tbh I don't know if I should be happy about it :)))))

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No matter what anyone says in this thread about how they think they attract people...

 

 

Chances are we all fall into one of two camps:

 

1. You don't attract as many people as you think you do, of whatever sex you think you are more popular with.

 

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2. You probably attract more people than you realize, but just not from the kind of people you think would find you attractive.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

lol reading this back it sounds depressing, dont worry guys im somewhat fine   :lol:

 

If you are 17, the best is yet to come - so don't over think it right now because your perception on what "attraction" means for you and for others will change within a year, anyway lol

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I'm popular with the opposite sex tbh but I'm not... interested? And I think that fact makes them try harder? Love/sex is something I don't really need, I have bigger goals in life, you know. It's well known that I'm the very-serious-cold-hearted girl in my group but it seems some boys like that :._.: People call me "kuudere" for a reason, I guess.

I think you're that kind of girl that is cute and all but doesn't have that sex-appeal or something that boys like and they immediately take you as their friend because you're really nice? I don't know, that's what came into my mind, correct me if I'm wrong.
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i'm not sure tbh. i almost never go out.

 

as conceited as it is to say, i have found that, by and large, if i like someone, that person likes me back. but i always have to approach them first. when i was in school or when i worked for a b&m company i found out from others that certain people liked me but they never said anything ? ? ? even though i talked to them all the time ? ? ? i don't know why.

 

that may be the same case for you, OP. guys might actually like you but for whatever reason they're afraid to approach you. if i were you i would take the initiative, even though it does suck to be rejected.

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i'm not sure i think i'm not really popular with either but more on the moderate side

 

for girls idk someone finds me cute once in a while which is really nice  :)

 

with guys it's usually kind of creepy older men (i get super uncomfortable questions from men who are 31 and I'm half their age) 

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I've never had a bf or anyone asked me out and I'm 21.
I dont trust people enough to date or let them get close enough to ask me out.

No ever ever seemed to worth the time yet :smile:

I'm too young to deal with someone's shit :ahmagah:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And I'm too busy fangirling to look around  :imstupid:

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