Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 Everytime I go on a first "date" with guys (whether they're my friends or not), I bring my roommate... I mean, I #trustnoho and it's much less formal? Idk I'm scared of dying in a dark alley or getting assaulted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SlaveMaster 1,018 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 i'm scared of dying in a dark alley or getting assaulted. LMAO,..that will never happen.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted March 22, 2015 Author Share Posted March 22, 2015 LMAO,..that will never happen.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
seaweed 866 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 Maybe a bit but I don't blame you tbh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elle Eaux Elle 2,298 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 If you brought your roommate on a first date with me I'd dump your ass instantly so yeah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DragonFury 3,019 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 Yes. You lack trust and as a sign of trust I think you should give me the details of your bank account. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ajewcy 1,217 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 If you brought your roommate on a first date with me I'd dump your ass instantly so yeah For real. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted March 22, 2015 Author Share Posted March 22, 2015 If you brought your roommate on a first date with me I'd dump your ass instantly so yeah For real. I wouldn't date either of you so I'm good. I mean sis, I'm in a foreign country, I'm clueless about my surroundings most of the time. The only place I know how to go to by heart is the police station. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haus of Tzu:Lai 5,450 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 That's kind of weird, especially if you're supposed to be going on a date with someone and not just 'hanging out'. Shouldn't meeting your date in a public/busy place alleviate the concern of being assaulted/killed? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted March 22, 2015 Author Share Posted March 22, 2015 That's kind of weird, especially if you're supposed to be going on a date with someone and not just 'hanging out'. Shouldn't meeting your date in a public/busy place alleviate the concern of being assaulted/killed? I had dates going very, very wrong in public before so I'm kinda paranoiac about that shit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ajewcy 1,217 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 I wouldn't date either of you so I'm good. I mean sis, I'm in a foreign country, I'm clueless about my surroundings most of the time. The only place I know how to go to by heart is the police station. You better know where the dark alleys are then so you can avoid them ;^) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted March 22, 2015 Author Share Posted March 22, 2015 You better know where the dark alleys are then so you can avoid them ;^) actually some restaurants you can only go to... through a dark alley. and even if it ain't a dark alley, residential areas are so empty I try to avoid them as much as possible. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haus of Tzu:Lai 5,450 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 I had dates going very, very wrong in public before so I'm kinda paranoiac about that shit. Do you mind sharing? I'm curious. Maybe next time, invite a few more people out and hang out as a group. Going out with someone and bringing a friend, makes it awkward not only for the guy but also for your friend (being the third wheel and all). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hiraishrimp 5,413 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 There's nothing wrong with being a lil bit cautious, you never know what could happen (plus your roommate is a good alibi to leave if the date is shitty) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted March 22, 2015 Author Share Posted March 22, 2015 Do you mind sharing? I'm curious. Maybe next time, invite a few more people out and hang out as a group. Going out with someone and bringing a friend, makes it awkward not only for the guy but also for your friend (being the third wheel and all). guy tried to force me into his car in a crowded area and made a fucking scene. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sebbula 4,051 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 idk if I would bring a roommate on a first date but I can understand why you would do that. might be a little ot once I was in a park (my mum was there too but she was quite far away cause I was riding pretty fast on my bike) and this guy shouted out 'do you want me to rape you' and it freaked me the fuck out so bad cause I was like 10. I rode away really quickly and thankfully my mum didn't hear him. till this day I still get scared when going to that same park by myself cause it's sort of imbedded in my memory. but tldr; it's a little weird but if you had a previous event that makes you paranoid, it makes sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haus of Tzu:Lai 5,450 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 guy tried to force me into his car in a crowded area and made a fucking scene. Ok, that's fucking crazy. You're ok though? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted March 22, 2015 Author Share Posted March 22, 2015 Ok, that's fucking crazy. You're ok though? yeah but I'm still paranoid lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ripiasuju 8,229 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 nah you're not.... as a guy I dont ever considr anything like that cause theres no girl in the world who's a threat to me in that type of way ~ (unless she got a gun) but if ur a girl and its a firs date, then bring a friend ~ who cares its weird, better safe then sorry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted March 22, 2015 Author Share Posted March 22, 2015 idk if I would bring a roommate on a first date but I can understand why you would do that. might be a little ot once I was in a park (my mum was there too but she was quite far away cause I was riding pretty fast on my bike) and this guy shouted out 'do you want me to rape you' and it freaked me the fuck out so bad cause I was like 10. I rode away really quickly and thankfully my mum didn't hear him. till this day I still get scared when going to that same park by myself cause it's sort of imbedded in my memory. but tldr; it's a little weird but if you had a previous event that makes you paranoid, it makes sense. yeah it's similar nah you're not.... as a guy I dont ever considr anything like that cause theres no girl in the world who's a threat to me in that type of way ~ (unless she got a gun) but if ur a girl and its a firs date, then bring a friend ~ who cares its weird, better safe then sorry have you met mother russia? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ripiasuju 8,229 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 yeah it's similar have you met mother russia? lol she clearly has a gun a few times, and who cant take on american white cops ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sad Party Queen 1,580 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 No. Never lose this way of thinking it will keep you alive. LMAO,..that will never happen.. Oh to be young and naive... google rape or murder and hit the news icon and see what you get. People are actually monsters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted March 22, 2015 Author Share Posted March 22, 2015 No. Never lose this way of thinking it will keep you alive. Oh to be young and naive... google rape or murder and hit the news icon and see what you get. People are actually monsters. agreed, I don't think I'm too suspicious and my roomie doesn't mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sad Party Queen 1,580 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 agreed, I don't think I'm too suspicious and my roomie doesn't mind. Even if you were, better to be suspicious than careless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KinkySanta 1,073 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 If I was a guy and you brought your roommate on a first date I'd never call you again tbh. Just bring a pocket knife to your first dates and let people know where you're going and all that. That's what I do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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