Starfire. 1,317 Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 Sometimes when I hear people talk about their standards people reply with,"Oh, you're ugly you shouldn't be picky." So does this mean ugly people like me and some other people can't have standards,but good looking people can? Please explain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jiaejelly 299 Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 You can have whatever standards you want. Some people are just always bitter and think that visuals define a person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bitchcraft 1,377 Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 Tbh i'm guilty of that too. If you're ugly, i feel like you should drop your standards to your level... Because you look ridiculous criticizing other people's looks when you yourself are ugly and they look better than you / or could get someone better looking than you. It doesn't always have to be about looks though Tbh i'm kind of a superficial person sometimes. And I'm much harder on myself than I am on anybody else in that regard so yeah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
junglove 4,071 Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 ngl but I usually think if you are not that good looking you shouldn't be so harsh on people's looks either and maybe sympathize more I dunno, but I also don't think good looking people should judge people's looks either. it's just it's worse when "not so good looking people" do it imo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeokdae 3,324 Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 People think if you're "ugly" you should be more accepting of ugly people and accept whatever you can get--which when you think about it makes no sense because everyone knows what the "height of beauty/perfect 10" is and everyone ofcourse wants it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupipoo 1,619 Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 I've been told I'm too picky quite often and I'm sorry but I won't lower my standards for your satisfaction, whether you're family or a friend. I know what I want and what I like, and who the fuck do you think you are to dare tell me my opinion on what I find attractive is wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noon 20,968 Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 i'm aiming to be a ugly wife with a hot husband tell those bitches to eat ya ass Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kpoposaurus 252 Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 Everyone has a right to their own standards. People just look at like: if you're ugly then you should be lenient because people don't want you anyway. That's generally how people feel, but I don't think it's exactly true. I see a lot of unattractive people with attractive people because they have a confidence or a "special" kind of personality to that person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheVirginThotty 3,905 Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 Who says that?..............ah nvm I remember seeing a meme saying "If you're ugly don't play hard to get you're already hard to want." Honestly it's good to have standards..it's precisely the lack of having standards that have some girls throwing their pussies around like that shit is dust.. I believe that what you put out is what you get.. if you show that you are a lady and you expect xyz from your partner I believe respectable males view you as a fish they definitely would like to catch and wife (not saying that your standards should be high like a rocket on mars and your man needs to cook,clean,have washboard abs, a strong chin and looking straight up calvein klein also not saying that you should be turned into a fish and be married and..you know beastiality and all...) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♩ ♪ ♫ ♬ 730 Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 don't settle for less like don't buy a fugly $2 shirt because you think you're poor & have no other option cuz somewhere in a bargain rack you might find a brand name shirt for $2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil 139 Posted February 23, 2015 Share Posted February 23, 2015 Never settle for less Everyone has their needs :^) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starfire. 1,317 Posted February 23, 2015 Author Share Posted February 23, 2015 Tbh i'm guilty of that too. If you're ugly, i feel like you should drop your standards to your level... Because you look ridiculous criticizing other people's looks when you yourself are ugly and they look better than you / or could get someone better looking than you. It doesn't always have to be about looks though Tbh i'm kind of a superficial person sometimes. And I'm much harder on myself than I am on anybody else in that regard so yeah. People think if you're "ugly" you should be more accepting of ugly people and accept whatever you can get--which when you think about it makes no sense because everyone knows what the "height of beauty/perfect 10" is and everyone ofcourse wants it.Yeah, I don't really understand it either. It's like saying good people can be rude but ugly people can't. Who says that?..............ah nvm I remember seeing a meme saying "If you're ugly don't play hard to get you're already hard to want." Honestly it's good to have standards..it's precisely the lack of having standards that have some girls throwing their pussies around like that shit is dust.. I believe that what you put out is what you get.. if you show that you are a lady and you expect xyz from your partner I believe respectable males view you as a fish they definitely would like to catch and wife (not saying that your standards should be high like a rocket on mars and your man needs to cook,clean,have washboard abs, a strong chin and looking straight up calvein klein also not saying that you should be turned into a fish and be married and..you know beastiality and all...) I agree with you completely. I mean, it's better than me going around dating every guy I can get. At least I have standards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reiz 1,275 Posted February 24, 2015 Share Posted February 24, 2015 You can have whatever standards you want. Some people are just always bitter and think that visuals define a person. Tbh i'm guilty of that too. If you're ugly, i feel like you should drop your standards to your level... Because you look ridiculous criticizing other people's looks when you yourself are ugly and they look better than you / or could get someone better looking than you. It doesn't always have to be about looks though Tbh i'm kind of a superficial person sometimes. And I'm much harder on myself than I am on anybody else in that regard so yeah. My opinion is somehow the mix of these 2 You can have whatever standards you want. But when it comes to reality (serious relationship), you need to drop your standards little by little because of various reasons. For example, lets say, my perfect ideal type is IU. Sometimes I see girls who are close to her level, almost as cute and pretty as her. But I think, unless I have a really handsome face or an expensive sport car or a huge house of my own, it will be hard to get someone like her, lol. Because there are tons of guys there who want her, and some of them might be better looking than me, or a very rich guy. Sometimes the 'standard' is not only about appearance, its about economic status as well, and its the reality, atleast in my place. But in the end, you will understand that relationship is not only about these things, there is something much more important. I mean, even if he/she is really good looking, it wont guarantee that you will be happy with him/her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valentinna 14,313 Posted February 24, 2015 Share Posted February 24, 2015 You can have your standars, but if the super hot guy you like doesn't pay attention to you, you can't cry about it 95% of good looking people end up with good looking people, and this is how world is, if you say "that's not true!!! LOVE IS BLIND" then you're just been delulu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adelightfulsong 1,656 Posted February 25, 2015 Share Posted February 25, 2015 I'm ugly on the inside and I've had to lower my standards because the crème of the crop doesn't deserve shit. But at the same time...I'm not a charity, dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smiIey 879 Posted February 25, 2015 Share Posted February 25, 2015 Okay, you have to be physically attracted to somebody a little. If they decline you, you shouldn't feel bad, you just don't fit their taste. Even if they agreed to go out with you, they wouldn't feel attracted to you, so it'd be a dead end. Not to mention I think it's best both partners in a relationship should find each other mentally and physically attractive. It's also messed up to think they're materialistic and too into looks. It's like criticizing somebody for their art style, writing style, music taste, taste buds, etc.. Everybody has their own personal taste. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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