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In the light of recent thread about the majority of this forum being introverted, I have a few questions for you guys..

 

Do you feel lonely? Is loneliness difficult to bear for you or do you actually enjoy spending time alone? Have you always been a lone wolf or was there a time when you were socially active and outgoing?

 

I was really outgoing and had a nice group of friends during my junior and senior year of high school, but since I've entered college I haven't been able to make any really close friends. I have a lot of acquaintances, with some I even go out, but that happens like once in every two months. I've drifted apart from my high school friends since we live in different towns now, I mean I still hear from them and we get to see eachother once in a while, but it's not the same.. and they all seem to have made a lot of friends in college too, while that's not really the case for me.

 

Sometimes I'm ok with spending time alone and I really treasure it and enjoy it, but when I see how everyone's having fun and doing well on FB, it just makes me feel like I'm missing out and how life's passing me by.. I'm also single and it seems like that won't change in quite a while, since I don't go out often.

 

Please share your experinces below

 

Dara's part in Ugly always gets me

 

 

 

 

 

 

and share more songs like this too, pls

 

 

 

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In the light of recent thread about the majority of this forum being introverted, I have a few questions for you guys..

 

Do you feel lonely? Is loneliness difficult to bear for you or do you actually enjoy spending time alone? Have you always been a lone wolf or was there a time when you were socially active and outgoing?

 

I was really outgoing and had a nice group of friends during my junior and senior year of high school, but since I've entered college I haven't been able to make any really close friends. I have a lot of acquaintances, with some I even go out, but that happens like once in every two months. I've drifted apart from my high school friends since we live in different towns now, I mean I still hear from them and we get to see eachother once in a while, but it's not the same.. and they all seem to have made a lot of friends in college too, while that's not really the case for me.

 

Sometimes I'm ok with spending time alone and I really treasure it and enjoy it, but when I see how everyone's having fun and doing well on FB, it just makes me feel like I'm missing out and how life's passing me by.. I'm also single and it seems like that won't change in quite a while, since I don't go out often.

 

Please share your experinces below

 

Dara's part in Ugly always gets me

 

 

 

 

 

 

and share more songs like this too, pls

What recent thread ?

To answer your question - I'm never lonely, I like solitude. Especially since my life is always hectic and I have to associate with so many people, I can't stand.

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generally I prefer spending time alone and away from people, even though I have close friends irl. I do hang out with them, but I don't really contribute anything lmao so I usually just chill by myself. I am more than happy however to disassociate myself with the idiots at school lol

I don't feel lonely though. Sometimes yes, but not for the most part

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You should join a club. Or a fellowship. Or marching band. Marching band always has parties. 

 

Thinking back, I always tend to be a loner the first couple years, but make great friends in my last. Also, don't let social media fool you into thinking everyone but you is having a good time. Sometimes that's easier said than done, but just remind yourself of that. If you've been capable of making good friends once, I don't see why you can't do it again. 

 

I get lonely, but nowadays it's usually when I'm cooped up inside and working.

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i never used to place importance on friends.. but i did have about 5-10 friends through each different schools

now i actually want friends but i can't open up to anyone

 

same for me, but what makes it difficult is how all the ppl i know already have close groups of friends and I feel like there's no place for me tbh.

 

i want to do more in my free time than spend time on my laptop, but you can't really do much by yourself tbh..

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Yeh because everytime i ask someone to go out and hang with me they're always too busy, so i just go out by myself taking random buses and exploring my area. But at least being lonely allows me to eat at whatever restaurant i want without those picky friends  :hurr: so i dont really mind thaaaat much i guess. 

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You should join a club. Or a fellowship. Or marching band. Marching band always has parties. 

 

Thinking back, I always tend to be a loner the first couple years, but make great friends in my last. Also, don't let social media fool you into thinking everyone but you is having a good time. Sometimes that's easier said than done, but just remind yourself of that. If you've been capable of making good friends once, I don't see why you can't do it again. 

 

I get lonely, but nowadays it's usually when I'm cooped up inside and working.

 

yes, i've been considering to join a club or smth, but i find going out of my comfort zone quite challenging tbh. i guess it's true that life begins at the end of your comfort zone.. i should get to it someday

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yes, i've been considering to join a club or smth, but i find going out of my comfort zone quite challenging tbh. i guess it's true that life begins at the end of your comfort zone.. i should get to it someday

It doesn't sound like you want to do it. When you find your college experience much more enjoyable in all aspects, you're going to wonder why you haven't done it sooner. Don't find out the hard way like me lol.

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i am. it's much harder to find friends as you get older, and even in college it was difficult for me because i'm the sort of person who is hardcore about studying and will take huge course loads and feel bad if i get anything under 100%. and since i didn't go to a place like MIT or harvey mudd a lot of students also quietly hate your guts when you know all the material and they don't.

 

i like being alone and i always have but sometimes it's too much.

 

I hate being lonely and dick-deprived, but I've been having dates left and right for the past 2 weeks so I guess I'm good. Not knowing anyone in Korea is stressing me out but I think I'll make friends fast

 

dates with korean guys? i'm (hoping) to live there while i get my masters but i've been wondering about the dating scene since it's such a different culture. is it hard to meet single dudes?

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i am. it's much harder to find friends as you get older, and even in college it was difficult for me because i'm the sort of person who is hardcore about studying and will take huge course loads and feel bad if i get anything under 100%. and since i didn't go to a place like MIT or harvey mudd a lot of students also quietly hate your guts when you know all the material and they don't.

 

i like being alone and i always have but sometimes it's too much.

 

 

dates with korean guys? i'm (hoping) to live there while i get my masters but i've been wondering about the dating scene since it's such a different culture. is it hard to meet single dudes?

I'm going to SK on thursday lol so no it's not Korean guys

 

 

 

In SK you have 2 types of guys: 1. The curious-about-foreigners guys that'll date you but not wife you up and 2. Those who wanna ride the white horse and check it off their bucket list

 

Very few stray from this.

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