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Yes...and that's why I stopped using Facebook completely.

 

 

Basically this guy from my old school. I strictly considered him as a classmate (I was never flirty or anything like that with him. I always gave straight short answers in texts. I have never met him out nor have I spoken to him on the phone) he suddenly started acting weird by asking really personal questions. I blocked him because he started saying things like "you better do as I say and call me in 5 minutes I want to hear your voice" (this was at like 3am). This happened in April 2014. Blocked him and changed my number eventually. Never texted him ever again. Checked my messages in December (because I don't use my account that much) and found he was messaging me throughout the whole year on my new account, and trying to find out where I was.

 

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I dont have facebook.

 

I have stalkers though, they are exo-l.

 

I have been in the fandom but then I left and stopped being exo-l because i dont like the fandom. These people hate me and now they're stalking my tweets and tumblr so they can bash and hate me for what I tweet and reblog. They're obsessed about me.

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Yes...and that's why I stopped using Facebook completely.

 

 

Basically this guy from my old school. I strictly considered him as a classmate (I was never flirty or anything like that with him. I always gave straight short answers in texts. I have never met him out nor have I spoken to him on the phone) he suddenly started acting weird by asking really personal questions. I blocked him because he started saying things like "you better do as I say and call me in 5 minutes I want to hear your voice" (this was at like 3am). This happened in April 2014. Blocked him and changed my number eventually. Never texted him ever again. Checked my messages in December (because I don't use my account that much) and found he was messaging me throughout the whole year on my new account, and trying to find out where I was.

 

 

that's pretty creepy  :._.:

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Yes

No

 

Ex boyfriend who couldn't accept the breakup. It was horrible and I felt completely hopeless and a bit scared (he was a football player and not a small guy). 

 

He finally got the hint when my mother threatened to kill him when I finally told her what was happening. 

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Yes...and that's why I stopped using Facebook completely.

 

 

Basically this guy from my old school. I strictly considered him as a classmate (I was never flirty or anything like that with him. I always gave straight short answers in texts. I have never met him out nor have I spoken to him on the phone) he suddenly started acting weird by asking really personal questions. I blocked him because he started saying things like "you better do as I say and call me in 5 minutes I want to hear your voice" (this was at like 3am). This happened in April 2014. Blocked him and changed my number eventually. Never texted him ever again. Checked my messages in December (because I don't use my account that much) and found he was messaging me throughout the whole year on my new account, and trying to find out where I was.

 

 

Oh, I experienced the same thing. The dude even went up to me one time and interrogated me, asking why I was not replying. I hated it that my phone was spammed with his messages, asking why I wasn't replying. So first, I just did not charge the phone for good. Then I eventually gave that number up. 

 

 

My first stalker was at the mall. I thought he was going to kidnap me. I was 12. Then the guy's friends asked for my number and I told them I had no phone. They looked like older guys.  Good thing about this was my mom. She was stalking me too! :._.:  So she 

"miraculously" appeared when the guys started to bother me.

 

 

Next stalker was when I was 15. It was a hot korean guy. Like seriously, hot and intelligent. I still don't know how he found out about my contact details. One day he asked me if I wanted to go to Seoul with him  and we weren't even friends. :._.:

 

 

I had a female stalker in high school as well. One day, before graduation, she ran towards me then gave me a hug while saying "I'll miss you!!". Then ran away. It happened so fast, even my friends got shocked.  Come to think of it, I don't know why fellow girls act this way. I had another female stalker after a year, she did the same thing. There was, however, a different incident too. She was such a stalker that a common friend introduced us to each other. The common friend was like "this is my gift to her. She can now stop following you from afar"

 

 

There's actually more but yeah  :._.:

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i had a stalker when i was 10. (he was a guy from my school and he followed me home without myself knowing.)

 

the next day when we had to attend choir sessions he told me he had followed me home and recited my house address in front of me

 

i never stalked anyone irl bc it's a waste of time 

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I don't know if my ex-boyfriend counts as a stalker, but if it does count, here's my story:

 

He was my first boyfriend and I was also his "first love" as he would usually say. We went out for about 2 years, and things started getting a lil craycray since he started being obsessive and would get jealous of every single guy. It was so extreme that he would even get jealous of celebrity males. He once stopped talking to me for about a week because I had Kai as my wallpaper.

 

Anyways, I got tired of his shit and broke up with him. He was so mad and started acting crazy, I was so scared.

He called me and was crying and saying he'd jump out of his window because his life was shit and nobody liked him. I had to call his parents and even his uncle so nothing bad would happen. A week after that, he started texting me every 5 minutes. I had to block him from Facebook, Twitter, kakaotalk, everywhere, but then he started texting me from his brother's cellphone. He would also make friends of his text me and call me names and harrass me. It was crazy, really.

 

We also attended the same school, so I saw him every single day and he always looked at me with scary eyes. He would wait for me every day at the end of the day, but he never did anything. He would just watch me leave.

 

It was that way for over half a year, and then he stopped once he got himself a new girlfriend.

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I don't know if my ex-boyfriend counts as a stalker, but if it does count, here's my story:

 

He was my first boyfriend and I was also his "first love" as he would usually say. We went out for about 2 years, and things started getting a lil craycray since he started being obsessive and would get jealous of every single guy. It was so extreme that he would even get jealous of celebrity males. He once stopped talking to me for about a week because I had Kai as my wallpaper.

 

Anyways, I got tired of his shit and broke up with him. He was so mad and started acting crazy, I was so scared.

He called me and was crying and saying he'd jump out of his window because his life was shit and nobody liked him. I had to call his parents and even his uncle so nothing bad would happen. A week after that, he started texting me every 5 minutes. I had to block him from Facebook, Twitter, kakaotalk, everywhere, but then he started texting me from his brother's cellphone. He would also make friends of his text me and call me names and harrass me. It was crazy, really.

 

We also attended the same school, so I saw him every single day and he always looked at me with scary eyes. He would wait for me every day at the end of the day, but he never did anything. He would just watch me leave.

 

It was that way for over half a year, and then he stopped once he got himself a new girlfriend.

 

Obsessive exes are almost always creepy  :omg: Glad that he found a new object for his obsession, still pity the new girl though lol

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Yes kind of I was stalked by a guy and he added me on fb, then he asked me out. He told me he watched me during P.E class. I always saw him in the morning while walking to school and in the hallways lmao but he stopped when I rejected him.

And no but sometimes I would creepily stare at my crushes during class ehhh... I'm ashamed lol

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I guess I sort of had a stalker. I changed workplaces last year and like normal people I greet my fellow co-workers when I see them in the morning. 

 

Next thing I know, one of the guys that worked there had already searched me on Facebook. The only thing I'd said to him a that point was 'Hi'. He harassed my best friend on Facebook constantly, always wanting to talk about me. He was constantly moaning to other co-workers that I'd never go out with him, etc etc. He took my Facebook profile picture and set it as his phone wallpaper. Then he actually went around to show it off to all of my new co-workers. 

We worked in different areas of the company but he would show up in mine constantly and then stare at me for 20 minutes, literally not doing anything else. He never spoke to me, just stared. Eventually he even convinced a co-worker to ask me out for him. 

So creepy.

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A few weeks ago I walked passed a random guy who was using his laptop and he had my pic as his wallpaper. Maybe he's a stalker? I don't even know him  :blush:

Holy crap! That's frightening..

 

As for me, yes I have had a stalker, but I haven't stalked anyone irl cause it's kind of embarrassing.

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Kid I went to high school with started a certain sentence off with "Don't think I'm a stalker, but" to ask me if I lived at ________ (which I did live). Then he told me he knew because he knows how the family car looks and he sees it over at ________ all the time. Apparently, he visits the neighborhood because he knew my neighbor. Then he asked me why he never sees me when he's there.... but that was a one-time event.

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I had a stalker once, and it was a frightening experience. For a couple of years I had to avoid going to certain places and my dad was constantly on alert to come pick me up in case sth happened. I still hate that asshole for terrifying me that bad, I was only a teen at the time.

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