KinkySanta 1,073 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Okay so I've been with the same guy for like 10 months now. The other day I asked him when his birthday was because I forgot when it was (oops) and he gets all offended that I forgot. He told me it was close to mine by a month and ten days (not close at all), but I told him that I was shocked he remembered my birthday exactly. His response was, "he remembers important days". Now I'm a little confused because if it's supposedly important it means he might be doing something for me on my birthday. Does this mean I have to do something special, like get him a gift on his birthday? The unfortunate thing is his birthday is first and coming up really soon. I know him well enough to know what he'd like, it's just a matter of do I get him a gift or not. I don't want to ask if I should get him a gift because people never are straight up about if they expect a gift or not. Plus I'd hate to make him think that he has to get me a gift on mine, because I hate receiving gifts from anyone tbh. I told him I wanted a break around Christmas time because of this exact issue (I didn't tell him that's why I wanted some time apart though haha). Now I feel like I got to face the awkwardness of whether to gift or not to gift. To small gift or not to gift? That's the question Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
✨ Ass Fat ✨ 9,598 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Just do something special for his birthday either way if he doesnt do anything special then he owes you some fucking good as sex GET THAT DICK GURL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Envied 5,831 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 "His response was, "he remembers important days". BLOOP!If you two have been together for ten months, I would assume you'd get him a gift if he is the type to like receiving them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myreflections 3,232 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 well.. the normal thing is to get friends presents on their birthday usually friends make gifts to friends. couples even more so just because you give him a gift, doesn't necesarily mean he will as well but as I mentioned above.. friends usually give each other gifts on birthdays. lovers even more. family even more so. so yeah. wouldn't it be more awkward not to give him a gift? if you don't like receiving gifts... just tell him you don't like that. if you feel awkward giving a gift, plan a nice day on his birthday or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheVirginThotty 3,905 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Umm yeah you should get him a gift case solved or if you're on that cheap side just do some cook in dinner after he's done eating say you're gunna go get desert push bring out a fresh plate replace it with the one he ate the food out of then sit on it and spread them legs..-im sorry I've been reading too much wahida Clark cries- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eunjiapink 203 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Do you realy love him? Seems like you are awkward with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yeongwonhi 1,416 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 surprise him with something special, gift or not...at least, that is what i'd do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smiIey 879 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Get him a gift: cheap or moderately-priced. It's the thought that counts, I say. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
✨ Ass Fat ✨ 9,598 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Just remember if you dont have enough money to buy him a gift? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s4a 13,715 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 You really should give a significant other a gift on their birthday, regardless of if he points out the importance or not. Even if it's just a card or something simple, it's the thought that goes a long way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RóisÃn Dubh 3,966 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 now that you asked him about his birthday, he'll probably expect to receive a gift, and if he knows your birthday exactly, then he's probably planning to give you a gift as well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KinkySanta 1,073 Posted January 24, 2015 Author Share Posted January 24, 2015 Do you realy love him? Seems like you are awkward with him I initially was just in it for the sex not gonna lie, but he's starting to really grow on me. Bad thing is I think at the moment he likes me a lot more than I like him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YOONGI 6,021 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 From his comment about "remembering important days" it seems that he thinks of birthdays as something important. I feel like he'd be disappointed if you didn't get him a gift. He was already disappointed that you didn't remember his birthday lol. What you get him should be something you are comfortable with. If you don't wanna go all out, then don't. Just showing you were thinking about him should be enough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
No Heart 580 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 Just give him a blowjob. It doesn't cost a thing, and will always please your man. Unless you're really bad.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ring 603 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 From his response, I am sure he will be expecting gift from you. A small thoughtful gift at least. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
awolfska 950 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 you've been dating for 10 months! i'd def get him something, or treat him out to dinner, or do something fun with him on his birthday. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
montchery 3,185 Posted January 24, 2015 Share Posted January 24, 2015 If you have been dating someone for 10 months already... I would expect my significant other to remember my birthday too. Not to receive any gifts but because it is basic information, imo. Anyway, I would plan something special. You could cook or invite him to dinner somewhere nice you know he likes, buy him a gift or go somewhere fun. If he told you it is an important date for him, then he probably does expect you to plan something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil 139 Posted January 25, 2015 Share Posted January 25, 2015 well.. the normal thing is to get friends presents on their birthday usually friends make gifts to friends. couples even more so just because you give him a gift, doesn't necesarily mean he will as well but as I mentioned above.. friends usually give each other gifts on birthdays. lovers even more. family even more so. so yeah. wouldn't it be more awkward not to give him a gift? if you don't like receiving gifts... just tell him you don't like that. if you feel awkward giving a gift, plan a nice day on his birthday or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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