barrio baby 833 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 why does everyone encourage girls to challenge traditional feminine roles but when men challenge traditional masculine roles they're looked down upon? when u see a feminine boy do u automatically assume he's gay? but when you see a tomboy girl you don't automatically assume she's gay? ur femme-phobic tbh DO U THINK its ok for girls to like "boy things" like sports etc but think its weird for guys to like "girl things" like cooking, shopping, makeup etc? ur femme phobic tbh this is why everyone needs to stan underrated beauty/songbird/troubadour/charity queen/ethnic vocalist/feminist choi sooyoung do you think emma watson could ever? will she ever? CAN she ever? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Almondandlime 6,854 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebel Heart 113 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 Yeah it's a legit thing. And it's related to misogny yet on seperate scales. Like for example Asia is more sexist but less femmephobic thenthe west, while the west is more femmephobic but less sexist. It's weird. Yeah it's a legit thing. And it's related to misogny yet on seperate scales. Like for example Asia is more sexist but less femmephobic than the west, while the west is more femmephobic but less sexist. It's weird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
removed929393303 15,230 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 but when you see a tomboy girl you don't automatically assume she's gay? isn't that what people do with amber? crying @ you promoting sooyoung at the end Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
。Beach Angel 。 955 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 i probably am and i should fix that :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SNSTD 4,470 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 i probably am and i should fix that :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barrio baby 833 Posted January 7, 2015 Author Share Posted January 7, 2015 no ur sexist male faves probably point and laugh at overweight girls who follow them on instagram Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Diabeetus 417 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 I love everybody! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mgl 5,919 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 It can be because of many things, like misogyny, homophobia, religious beliefs and the fact women have a movement that actively works to release them from stereotypical gender roles, but men don't. Honestly speaking, in my country femme guys aren't really well accepted outside of certain circles. Women have some more flexibility in that regard, but they still can't get away with certain choices without some degree of criticism. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rebel Heart 113 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 isn't that what people do with amber? crying @ you promoting sooyoung at the end In US You literally have to be androgynous to be considered masculine as a female. Whereas if an otherwise masculine guy is caught having any feminine tendency or hobby he's extreeeeeeemely feminine, emasculated, not a real man etc etc. The penalty for men who break gender rules is harsher in general because there's a perception that femininity is inferior. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hallah 8,441 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 isn't that what people do with amber? i don't think i've ever seen anyone ever ship amber with a dude. it's always a female idol. IMO anyone who says that women aren't labeled as gay if they look and dress like a tomboy apparently don't pay much attention. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ot12 814 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 probably has to do with asia's the world's general preference towards guys since the ancient times (lol this reminds me of a whap essay i just wrote) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barrio baby 833 Posted January 7, 2015 Author Share Posted January 7, 2015 I love everybody! speaking like a true sooyoung stan. slei me king Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ot12 814 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 i don't think i've ever seen anyone ever ship amber with a dude. it's always a female idol. IMO anyone who says that women aren't labeled as gay if they look and dress like a tomboy apparently don't pay much attention. well there's krisber and henber(?) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Almondandlime 6,854 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 ur sexist male faves probably point and laugh at overweight girls who follow them on instagram Probably. I'm sure the female ones do the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seulo 4,828 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 It can be because of many things, like misogyny, homophobia, religious beliefs and the fact women have a movement that actively works to release them from stereotypical gender roles, but men don't. Honestly speaking, in my country femme guys aren't really well accepted outside of certain circles. Women have some more flexibility in that regard, but they still can't get away with certain choices without some degree of criticism. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barrio baby 833 Posted January 7, 2015 Author Share Posted January 7, 2015 when will sexist kolea catch up to ha? sooyoung is ahead of her time! the shame Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lu-brican't 1,059 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 this is why everyone needs to stan underrated beauty/songbird/troubadour/charity queen/ethnic vocalist/feminist choi sooyoung do you think emma watson could ever? will she ever? CAN she ever? agree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hallah 8,441 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 well there's krisber and henber(?) oh, are those romantic ships? i don't know about kris, but i thought people treated her and henry like they do with him and sunny (AKA platonic) i could be wrong tho, i don't really ship so i don't keep close tabs on the different pairings. i just know kryber is a huge one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hiraishrimp 5,413 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 i don't think i've ever seen anyone ever ship amber with a dude. it's always a female idol. IMO anyone who says that women aren't labeled as gay if they look and dress like a tomboy apparently don't pay much attention. People ship her with Henry for some odd reason Oops I was beaten to it lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MasterOfCider 692 Posted January 7, 2015 Share Posted January 7, 2015 No, I'm not. People can like and do what they want so long as they're not physically harming someone else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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