sasuke_uchiha 65 Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 Some of the girls I was dating used to be very clingy. They'll try to ''trap'' you in a way or drag you down subtly out of fear you might leave her. Nowadays I'm just disgusted when I sense those from miles away. I just hate value leeching people in general. What was your experience like? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaecutie 3,326 Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 um no but i really like needy and clingy people. like not one that will drag you down but one that always wants your attention and stuff they make me feel warm and bubbly and happy<3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SNSTD 4,470 Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 No Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
My Ship is Black Pearl 552 Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 Find a better gf/bf then.. If you dont feel comfortable with them whats the point to stay in a relationship? I think you need to find someone who is mature inside or have the same interest/personality as you. I'm neutral about clingy bf/gf, I just want them to know where he can be clingy with me and when he's not. I'd like a relationship where we can understand and respect each other But it seems hard these days and I just broke up with my bf 4 weeks ago. Sigh.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jvng 3,864 Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 no but a lot of my friends are like that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hallah 8,441 Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 IMO i did, but as someone who's introverted af my view of "needy" is probably skewed, and it prob. didn't help that i didn't like him very much. he wanted to talk on the phone every day, including while i was at work, and i guess that's normal in relationships, but i just found it ultimately distracting. he also talked about himself all the time and would complain endlessly if anyone ever made anything resembling a critical comment towards him. when i broke up with him he wouldn't stop texting me for like a month (i didn't respond to any of them) and asked me questions like if i would visit him in the hospital if he got sick. i don't really miss that relationship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Omniscient 404 Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 i had a needy gf and i find it unattractive af Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miyeon 13,114 Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 it's annoying n i get tired of them quick Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krystalized 1,843 Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 My bf is kinda clingy but just sometimes, and im fine with it. Tbh is more like im too cold lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NewEvolution 548 Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 I don't think they were needy exactly, but I was just way too detached. And when you don't give a fuck about a person on an emotional level, you get super fuckn annoyed. It's really annoying af. I remember I made him cry 475145 times because of that. I feel sorry now that I know how it feels tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mgl 5,919 Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 Yeah and she turned into a stalker. 0/10 would not recommend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sasuke_uchiha 65 Posted December 29, 2014 Author Share Posted December 29, 2014 Find a better gf/bf then.. If you dont feel comfortable with them whats the point to stay in a relationship? I think you need to find someone who is mature inside or have the same interest/personality as you. I'm neutral about clingy bf/gf, I just want them to know where he can be clingy with me and when he's not. I'd like a relationship where we can understand and respect each other But it seems hard these days and I just broke up with my bf 4 weeks ago. Sigh.... ''Some of the girls I used to date..'' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aussiefan01 59 Posted December 30, 2014 Share Posted December 30, 2014 Ive found that by just going out on dates with people , who become clingy and needy within the first two weeks , such as abundances of text messages and calling non stop , or waiting by my house. Not to mention the low self esteem messages they send , which guilts you into keep mkaing sure they are okay. I had a conversation with someone the other day who i consider very needy/clingy and used examples of how past dates were clingy, as a passive aggressive way to get my point across nicely , he told me that he was glad he wanst clingy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yuri 2,662 Posted December 31, 2014 Share Posted December 31, 2014 Unfortunately, yes. I know some people that encourage this behaviour; makes them feel 'wanted', but honestly. I don't personally put up with this crap. There was once a guy in my life that was beyond needy. If I didn't text him/call him every hour, he'd be like: "wot r u up 2 lololol" and it just drove me insane. I value my alone time, and what with my job, every now and then, I like a day to myself just to relax. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy being in a relationship, but not the unhealthy kind where you can't function without the other person. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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