When guys are expected to pay for the majority of the dates and such.

[Whiteknight]

ds

[Skibop!!]

STOP. Women are not products, wtf

[DramaticTaeyeon"]

Chivalry is dead. 

[Ghettoe]

Depends on the culture. I've heard in certain cultures women expect men to pay for dates. I won't stand for it. I work and make my own money, I see no reason why you should pay for something I can perfectly afford myself.

 

On the subject of chivalry, there is courtesy and there is chivalry. 

 

This is not the 1500s so screw chivalry which quite frankly is seriously misunderstood. 

 

There is courtesy which to me is that I think a man should hold the door for a woman just out of respect. I happen to be female but out of respect hold the door for senior citizens and a pregnant lady or a mother with kids. She can obviously hold the door herself but it's courtesy.

 

PS. To answer the question, If he wants to pay for sex he should get a prostitute. 

[Whiteknight]

STOP. Women are not products, wtf

 

So guys shouldn't be expected to pay for the majority of the dates?

[sane]

Women are not obligated to put out, and men are not obligated to pay out.

[Whiteknight]

Women are not obligated to put out, and men are not obligated to pay out.

Traditionally, it is expected that guys pay for dates and such. Were girls expected to put out back then?

[Aahlia]

What. The. Fuck.

[Bosatsu]

Sounds like prostitution. 

[Shithead]

STOP. Men are not wallets, wtf.

[sane]

Traditionally, it is expected that guys pay for dates and such. Were girls expected to put out back then?

 

Not really, no. Not in general, at least.

Chivalry is pretty one-sided.

[Whiteknight]

What. The. Fuck.

 

Let me articulate.

 

Tradtionally, guys are expected to shell out a lot of money for their woman. Logically, they must get something in return right? If someone is spending so much money, they want to get a return on their investment, correct?

 

Is there something not clear?

[GodBot]

Isn't that how dating works? Men pay for everything and the women give sex in return.

 

[Arrogant Prince]

Chivalry is dead. 

And women killed it.

[Onetooth]

Depends on the culture. I've heard in certain cultures women expect men to pay for dates. I won't stand for it. I work and make my own money, I see no reason why you should pay for something I can perfectly afford myself.

 

On the subject, there is courtesy and there is chivalry. 

 

This is not the 1500s so screw chivalry which quite frankly is seriously misunderstood. 

 

There is courtesy which to me is that I think a man should hold the door for a woman just out of respect. I happen to be female but out of respect hold the door for senior citizens and a pregnant lady or a mother with kids. She can obviously hold the door herself but it's courtesy.

 

You don't just hold the door open for everybody?

[Delincious]

Sounds like prostitution. 

[Whiteknight]

Sounds like prostitution. 

 

It is basically prostitution in a polite sense.

[desu]

Your thread topics always make me want to pray for you.

[Ghettoe]

You don't just hold the door open for everybody?

 

I don't mean I slam the door in people's faces who don't meet this exception but in the case where I am walking through a door and see a lady with groceries let's say. I would open the door for her and let her pass then go. But if it's like a crazy crowd, I hold the door for whoever is next. I mean I am not saying a guy should hold the door for endless hours while ladies flock through. It's like a seat on the bus. I tend to give my seat on the bus for certain people. 

[Whiteknight]

Your thread topics always make me want to pray for you.

 

Is that a good thing or a bad thing?

[Mog]

I don't know why there has to be an expectation for someone to pay anyway. My boyfriend and I have always just either taken turns or whoever wants to pay at the time. It's not that big of a deal. 

 

 

PS. To answer the question, If he wants to pay for sex he should get a prostitute. 

 

+1

[Whiteknight]

D

 

PS. To answer the question, If he wants to pay for sex he should get a prostitute. 

 

Prostitution isn't legal in a lot of countries. Also prostitute have a risk of harboring potential STD's.

 

I certainly wouldn't want to stick my dink in a hole where a lot of dink been  in.

 

Do you even logic?

[Aahlia]

Let me articulate.

 

Tradtionally, guys are expected to shell out a lot of money for their woman. Logically, they must get something in return right? If someone is spending so much money, they want to get a return on their investment, correct?

 

Is there something not clear?

 

...

 

really?

 

So you want sex for the money spent? Date a prostitute then.

[Kpopalypse]

So if a guy pays for the majority of dates, does he usually get sex in return?

 

I mean if he is paying so much for a chick he needs to get a return on his investment right?

 

What do you think?

 

Do guys still have the final say/more power in decisions regarding a relationship?

 

LOL what is this

 

We're in 2013.  Just saying.

[Whiteknight]

...

 

really?

 

So you want sex for the money spent? Date a prostitute then.

 

Not entirely sex.

 

I was just using sex as an example of a reward for paying. I been there has to be an incentive right? Return on investment?

 

I already listed reasons on why prostitute would not be ideal. I am using logic here.

 

Also, you don't "date" a prostitute.

 

 

Your turn.