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Great video. He is 100% correct. Once again made me realize that I am not ready for a relationship.

 

edit: Oh my god. I am finally done with this video and fuck.

I need to watch this every month. I need to email this to all of my friends, too.

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yeahhhhhhhhh i don't agree with this at all.

 

this doesn't sound like a healthy approach to a relationship at all. if you're getting into fights, being mean to each other, feeling insecure about them leaving you, having problems with jealousy, and find your SO to be a source of stress in your life, you need to leave that relationship ASAP because it's toxic. if i were experiencing any of those things like this guy is describing i would be out in a second, and it has nothing to do with being unable to commit.

 

a "good" relationship has about ~3 good experiences for every bad one. if you're going through weeks where you're having a fight everyday you need to not be in that relationship.

 

of course it's important to be faithful during the "bad times" but if this person is drawing on his own experiences i would be scared to be in a relationship with him. it sounds like there would be a lot of hostility and insecurity, and i would be expected to just be okay with that because it's a "commitment."

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hmm i dont think i agree with this... he makes it sound like relationships are shit and kisses and hugs are the only benefits...

you can only work through problems to a certain extent, if arguments are happening everyday to the point that you both hate each other's guts, then there's probably a compatibility issue going on there and the relationship needs to end

but whatever, just my opinion 

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yeahhhhhhhhh i don't agree with this at all.

 

this doesn't sound like a healthy approach to a relationship at all. if you're getting into fights, being mean to each other, feeling insecure about them leaving you, having problems with jealousy, and find your SO to be a source of stress in your life, you need to leave that relationship ASAP because it's toxic. if i were experiencing any of those things like this guy is describing i would be out in a second, and it has nothing to do with being unable to commit.

 

a "good" relationship has about ~3 good experiences for every bad one. if you're going through weeks where you're having a fight everyday you need to not be in that relationship.

 

of course it's important to be faithful during the "bad times" but if this person is drawing on his own experiences i would be scared to be in a relationship with him. it sounds like there would be a lot of hostility and insecurity, and i would be expected to just be okay with that because it's a "commitment."

This tbh

 

Unhealthy relationships are unhealthy, and you need to skyrocket yourself away from them

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