Brand New Sakurakou 62 Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 This guy open my eyes on alot of stuff , I wanted tto share maybe it will open your eyes too ^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BadBadNotGood 11,616 Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 Great video. He is 100% correct. Once again made me realize that I am not ready for a relationship. edit: Oh my god. I am finally done with this video and fuck. I need to watch this every month. I need to email this to all of my friends, too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GUILD 3,195 Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 He's young and he's got it. Nailed it, kid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
♔Nippon Girl♥ 737 Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 thanks for sharing this really helpful and he is on point Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imideal( ͡°ᴥ ͡° ʋ) 2,497 Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 very realistic way of thinking about relationships. good on him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hallah 8,441 Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 yeahhhhhhhhh i don't agree with this at all. this doesn't sound like a healthy approach to a relationship at all. if you're getting into fights, being mean to each other, feeling insecure about them leaving you, having problems with jealousy, and find your SO to be a source of stress in your life, you need to leave that relationship ASAP because it's toxic. if i were experiencing any of those things like this guy is describing i would be out in a second, and it has nothing to do with being unable to commit. a "good" relationship has about ~3 good experiences for every bad one. if you're going through weeks where you're having a fight everyday you need to not be in that relationship. of course it's important to be faithful during the "bad times" but if this person is drawing on his own experiences i would be scared to be in a relationship with him. it sounds like there would be a lot of hostility and insecurity, and i would be expected to just be okay with that because it's a "commitment." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thegreennss 141 Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 Relationships have always been complicated and I feel like you're never entirely happy when you're in one. It's not a recent thing, but he did point out many true things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grape Soda 12,004 Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 His eyes are so pretty. But he's 100% right. I know that I don't have the time to fully commit to a relationship without it affecting my work or school. Lol 'look at this mother fucker breathing and shit' XD Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ravioli 247 Posted December 7, 2014 Share Posted December 7, 2014 hmm i dont think i agree with this... he makes it sound like relationships are shit and kisses and hugs are the only benefits... you can only work through problems to a certain extent, if arguments are happening everyday to the point that you both hate each other's guts, then there's probably a compatibility issue going on there and the relationship needs to end but whatever, just my opinion Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted December 9, 2014 Share Posted December 9, 2014 yeahhhhhhhhh i don't agree with this at all. this doesn't sound like a healthy approach to a relationship at all. if you're getting into fights, being mean to each other, feeling insecure about them leaving you, having problems with jealousy, and find your SO to be a source of stress in your life, you need to leave that relationship ASAP because it's toxic. if i were experiencing any of those things like this guy is describing i would be out in a second, and it has nothing to do with being unable to commit. a "good" relationship has about ~3 good experiences for every bad one. if you're going through weeks where you're having a fight everyday you need to not be in that relationship. of course it's important to be faithful during the "bad times" but if this person is drawing on his own experiences i would be scared to be in a relationship with him. it sounds like there would be a lot of hostility and insecurity, and i would be expected to just be okay with that because it's a "commitment." This tbh Unhealthy relationships are unhealthy, and you need to skyrocket yourself away from them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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