Jean Grey 2,400 Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 Ok...so I have a problem with my friend. We are on the same uni and the same major. We have so many things in common and I thought that we will be friends for a long time. But now she ignores all my calls and texts and I honestly dont know why. I've sent her something on Messenger but she didn't respond me yet. But I saw that she liked some posts on facebook when she could easily text me back. I saw her on uni maybe two weeks ago, but now I remember she mentioned something. She was complaining about our major and people on uni. I dont know what to do. Can I save ours frindship ? HELP. Sorry for grammar mistakes but i am on phone right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
초췌 270 Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 maybe she just doesn't like you you go to uni, there's many people you can possibly connect with anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abra 40,910 Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 I wouldn't be too worried. Just keep talking to her and texting her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloupsidou 2,047 Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 Ask her why she avoids you or drop her flat out. Get real friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beenzinos knobbly knees 39 Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 I would say she might need some space from you? if you are doing the same course and constantly seeing each other maybe she just needs a break. dont take it personally - everyone gets fed up of each other once in awhile. i know that between me and my friends we give each other space when we need it - its never really the others fault but just that we are getting annoyed at the stupidest things about the other. if you have sent her a message asking whats wrong, id say give her some time. As a best friend i say you always deserve a reply or response even if they are pissed off - if shes not giving one dont hold onto it too much. tl;dr, give her the space she clearly wants, dont take it too personally. its clear she has some things she needs to clear up. just send her a message saying youre there if she needs you and dont stress out over it too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hoplz 2,333 Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 Just ask her straight out and tell me wat she says Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean Grey 2,400 Posted December 1, 2014 Author Share Posted December 1, 2014 maybe she just doesn't like you you go to uni, there's many people you can possibly connect with anyway Well we always sit next to each other and we spent lunch breaks together. We are even on the same japanese course. So I think I would notice that she dislikes me. Just ask her straight out and tell me wat she says That's the main problem, she doesn't text me back or show up on uni. I would say she might need some space from you? if you are doing the same course and constantly seeing each other maybe she just needs a break. dont take it personally - everyone gets fed up of each other once in awhile. i know that between me and my friends we give each other space when we need it - its never really the others fault but just that we are getting annoyed at the stupidest things about the other. if you have sent her a message asking whats wrong, id say give her some time. As a best friend i say you always deserve a reply or response even if they are pissed off - if shes not giving one dont hold onto it too much. tl;dr, give her the space she clearly wants, dont take it too personally. its clear she has some things she needs to clear up. just send her a message saying youre there if she needs you and dont stress out over it too much. I have sent 3 texts why she doesn't respond to me and if she is mad at me. But thanks for advice, I will wait for her and give her some space. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beenzinos knobbly knees 39 Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 I have sent 3 texts why she doesn't respond to me and if she is mad at me. But thanks for advice, I will wait for her and give her some space. as i said, sometimes she just needs space/may be petty. i think you just need to give her time. the worst thing you can do is be too pushy with someone. ask your other friends if they have spoken to her? if so its less likely she has personal problems going on and instead just needs space. you can only do so much for someone. if shes active on fb shes probs pissed off and doesnt want to talk about it just yet! dont worry too much, she will come around. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jean Grey 2,400 Posted December 2, 2014 Author Share Posted December 2, 2014 Update : my friend finally texted me back (yay~) And she had a huge fight with her mom. She told her that she feels really overwhelmed and want to have a qap year. And her mom is really mad at her right now. So ...that's it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lil 139 Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 Just don't like message her 24/7 you know?.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lynnie 1,207 Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 Just don't like message her 24/7 you know?.. This and maybe you should rethink your friendship? Why would someone ignore you if they were a good friend? You can always be friends with someone else! It's university, you're gonna meet tons of new people! Good luck! But, I do hope things will work out for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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