lone1 93 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Would you go to a friends wedding if she invites 6 days before her wedding? she planned the wedding for a year,told everyone but me n my other friend. she gave the same text mesg to me n my friend-invited us for the wedding via text with no date written on it saying we should know when her wedding is n she don't need to tell us cos we should be there ,expecting us to be there... Edit-well there's four of us that is very close,A being me,B being my closest friend that got the text and spoke to the brides sister and she says don't u know D is getting married C is already invited, so D tells C to speak to me and B about not to misunderstand,D gets caught in lies so B confronts D, D gives the text,B declines the invitation .D says what kind of a friend you are u supposed to be there,and she gives me and B attitude. C who another friend got invited a year in advance personally,D the bride who gave the last min text. i know its confusing-just wanted other peoples opinions. B got married 3 months ago,everyone was invited n all of us went for all her functions.we all friends over 11 years.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guirella warfare 0 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 · Hidden by lawlaw, November 23, 2014 - No reason given Hidden by lawlaw, November 23, 2014 - No reason given why not ? she still invite you after all Link to comment
Derppppp 129 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 No.Friends are her are better off not having. I doubt she'll even notice if you and your friend even show up at her wedding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nev Schulman 7,939 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 That's rude. I wouldn't go if I were you. She obviously doesn't care Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pineapple 7,592 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 I would be a bit insulted if that were me. I would assume she had some unexpected RSVP's no, and invited more people to make up the difference since catering etc...was already paid, or she wanted more gifts. I would decline. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ogre Shrek 8,980 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 It's not that the invite came 6 days before the wedding that irks (she may have plausibly forgotten in the midst of the wedding preparations), but that when she did remember to invite you, she did so by text message instead of a phone call. Not sincere at all. I wouldn't go, tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 I wouldn't go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
512955124 1,748 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Don't go. She probably ask you because some of the people she invited cannot attend and she needs the money for the ceremony etc. So she decided to invite you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sane 16,342 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 Would you go to a friends wedding if she invites 6 days before her wedding? Sure, if I had time. she planned the wedding for a year,told everyone but me n my other friend. she gave the same text mesg to me n my friend-invited us for the wedding via text with no date written on it saying we should know when her wedding is n she don't need to tell us cos we should be there ,expecting us to be there... Oh hell naw Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoshiStar 1,650 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 don't go Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lone1 93 Posted November 23, 2014 Author Share Posted November 23, 2014 It's not that the invite came 6 days before the wedding that irks (she may have plausibly forgotten in the midst of the wedding preparations), but that when she did remember to invite you, she did so by text message instead of a phone call. Not sincere at all. I wouldn't go, tbh. We meet up often.so i was insulted about the text.she told us in January she is planning wedding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lone1 93 Posted November 23, 2014 Author Share Posted November 23, 2014 well I did decline,she gave me n my friend the same text saying we are friends and how can we decline,she gave me lots of attitude and said she don't want to fight me,my friend(B) said the bride would have not invited us if B had not spoken to C and the Brides sister.which is true... D is very predictable Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KaniPi 2,626 Posted November 23, 2014 Share Posted November 23, 2014 I wouldn't go either. If she gives you attitude, tell her off and ignore. She obviously doesn't think of you as real friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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