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Would you go to a friends wedding if she invites 6 days before her wedding?

 

she planned the wedding for a year,told everyone but me n my other friend.

she gave the same text mesg to me n my friend-invited us for the wedding via text with no date written on it saying we should know when her wedding is n she don't need to tell us cos we should be there ,expecting us to be there...

 

Edit-well there's four of us that is very close,A being me,B being my closest friend that got the text and spoke to the brides sister and she says don't u know D is getting married C is already invited,

so D tells C to speak to me and  B about not to misunderstand,D gets caught in lies so B confronts D,

D gives the text,B declines the invitation .D says what kind of a friend you are u supposed to be there,and she gives me and B attitude.

 

C who another friend got invited a year in advance personally,D the bride who gave the last min text.

i know its confusing-just wanted other peoples opinions.

 

B got married 3 months ago,everyone was invited n all of us went for all her functions.we all friends over 11 years..

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I would be a bit insulted if that were me. I would assume she had some unexpected RSVP's no, and invited more people to make up the difference since catering etc...was already paid, or she wanted more gifts. I would decline. 

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It's not that the invite came 6 days before the wedding that irks (she may have plausibly forgotten in the midst of the wedding preparations), but that when she did remember to invite you, she did so by text message instead of a phone call. Not sincere at all.

 

I wouldn't go, tbh.

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Would you go to a friends wedding if she invites 6 days before her wedding?

Sure, if I had time.

 

she planned the wedding for a year,told everyone but me n my other friend.

she gave the same text mesg to me n my friend-invited us for the wedding via text with no date written on it saying we should know when her wedding is n she don't need to tell us cos we should be there ,expecting us to be there...

Oh hell naw  :donthinkso:

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It's not that the invite came 6 days before the wedding that irks (she may have plausibly forgotten in the midst of the wedding preparations), but that when she did remember to invite you, she did so by text message instead of a phone call. Not sincere at all.

 

I wouldn't go, tbh.

 

We meet up often.so i was insulted about the text.she told us in January she is planning wedding.

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well I did decline,she gave me n my friend the same text saying we are friends and how can we decline,she gave me lots of attitude and said she don't want to fight me,my friend(B) said the bride  would have not invited us if B had not spoken to C and the Brides sister.which is true...

 

D is very predictable

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