So... does this mean anything or I am I being paranoid?

[mysunandmoon]

So, recently this boy and I became closer as friends, and tbh I have a little bit of a crush on him, but there was a two/three week period of time where we messaged each other every night. Like literally, if it got to 10 and neither of us had messaged each other, it was weird. 

 

Anyhow, I started to feel like he wasn't really into it and became a bit self conscious, so I promised myself I wouldn't start the conversation for the next couple of nights. He ended up messaging me (like I said, routine at this point) and for three nights, he was the first to reach out.

 

However, I feel like I fucked up a little bit because it's been a while now, and I haven't spoken to him (I forgot to mention we were talking at school as well) and it seems like he's been avoiding me a bit.

 

Do you think I hurt his feelings or something? Or am I just being too paranoid?

[SoshiStar]

go and ask him 

[iamayam]

If I was the guy , I'd be paranoid lol.

[S k y e]

Yeah since you ARE friends, it's best to talk it out with him 

[lone1]

let him go..

[anonymouslove]

I guess you have a major crush on him or else it won't be bothering you this much? ;) Hmm if this is getting on your nerves, ask him. (call or in person) (about what? you say.. nothing in particular ^^). It seems like you want to talk to him and as a friend, it would be nice to reach out and see how he's doing, what he's up to, keep it to a casual convo. Don't think too deep into this because technically you both are still friends and if it doesn't come together, you'll know that you've tried and you can move on. 

 

or 

 

Wait, see and let it go if nothing happens. You are stuck in limbo, perhaps floating in the friend zone but might be 'dating' yet not 'exclusive' so... in conclusion you and him are not in a relationship. I have no clue what convo you've had with him but like you said and I quote "and it seems like he's been avoiding me a bit" - he's pulling away and if you start pushing for more may not be a good thing. He knows how to reach you. You have a 'crush' on him and if he is interested (as friends or getting to know you more than just friends), he will remain in contact with you again. What you did or didn't do wrong doesn't matter in the end with the right guy! In the meantime, easier said then done but try to relax and focus on everything that makes you paranoid free. lol. The more you contemplate on a situation you can't control (what he's thinking), the more you end up blaming yourself based on these perception.

 

sorry i wrote too much, can't seem to summarise haha

 

 

I was in a similar situation to you 3 times. The first I just let it go and not initiate further contact. Nothing happened. He didn't initiate contact either. Had a chance to speak to him again weeks later and he acted as we were never that close. This was fine by me, as much as I had a 'crush' on him, it would have never worked out since I would have love for a guy to be into me as much as I was into him. The second guy, I initiate contact via sms after weeks of no contact. He didn't respond. I just let it go. The third guy, I texted after a week of no contact, we continue with texting/calling and eventually he stopped the contact and just dissappered. So based on my own experience whatever you decide to do, just relax and do it - it's that simple. Well, sorta ;)

 

[Choiza's D]

he wants ur d

[Suzy Quatro]

He might be feeling like you wondering why you stopped talking to him and such. Maybe he also likes you or just sees you as a friend but if you want to know or develop any kind of relation with that guy you should try to approach him.

 

 

 

If I was the guy , I'd be paranoid lol.

 

Me too