xLeeChaex 46 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 i wanna ask i know someone that is in college right now and she just got engaged at the age of 21 lolShe just got her own apartment with her boyfriend and she goes to school as well. One of my parents told me "Oh look at what she has done herself and is already getting her things together and being on her own. When are you gonna get a boyfriend and do what she is doing?" Im like wtf does it look like should i care what she does with herself and life lmfao.I mean it kind of pissed me off because it sounded like he wanted me to get a boyfriend now tbh im like wtf ima get boyfriend later, im only 18 years old right now. Since when does getting a fucking boyfriend is so important NOW Wont you guys agree that getting engaged at the age of 21 is a bit early? Like damn i want to get my own place and MY OWN SHIT, you know what i mean lmao i dont wanna depend on someone else.As of now im a college freshmen and im only 18, i have a long way to go to get married and get engaged and do what i want to do. I feel once im done with college, i just wanna enjoy myself and travel to places lol Aint nothing wrong with that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KinkySanta 1,073 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 21 is way too early for that in my opinion. You got to live and have yourself figured out before you commit to someone. I doubt she has herself entirely figured out by 21. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xLeeChaex 46 Posted October 19, 2014 Author Share Posted October 19, 2014 21 is way too early for that in my opinion. You got to live and have yourself figured out before you commit to someone. I doubt she has herself entirely figured out by 21. Exactly and she just turned 21 like about a week ago Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kissxkiss_baby 5,756 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 21 is way too early for that in my opinion. You got to live and have yourself figured out before you commit to someone. I doubt she has herself entirely figured out by 21. You'd be shocked by the amount of people that get married that young...speaking from personal experience anyways Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doolicious 1,354 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 It really depends on the person. I don't think it's a big deal of how young or old you get engaged (or any other life choices), just as long as you're happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SchoolNote 6,178 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 That's too young for me the girl barely has gotten to experience life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Senpie 1,663 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 a lot of people i knew in Texas got engaged then and married after college. I guess it's really what's the norm where you are. If you're from anywhere else than the south, that'd probably be reallllllyyy young. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xX_Europa_Xx 221 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 Thats too young Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danny. 762 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 Depends on the girl tbh. I agree that's quite young but if the girl herself is more mature and put together than most 21 year old then I guess that's ok. Are they planning to have a long engagement? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xLeeChaex 46 Posted October 19, 2014 Author Share Posted October 19, 2014 That's too young for me the girl barely has gotten to experience life. Yeah i know and she is only a junior in college right now lol.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SchoolNote 6,178 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 Yeah i know and she is only a junior in college right now lol.... I will pray for her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xLeeChaex 46 Posted October 19, 2014 Author Share Posted October 19, 2014 Depends on the girl tbh. I agree that's quite young but if the girl herself is more mature and put together than most 21 year old then I guess that's ok. Are they planning to have a long engagement? I believe so, they cant be that dumb enough to marry right now plus the girl just turned 21 like a week ago lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danny. 762 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 I believe so, they cant be that dumb enough to marry right now plus the girl just turned 21 like a week ago lol MTE. If that's the case then I'm glad because it gives them more leeway if they decide to part ways a little down the road. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xLeeChaex 46 Posted October 19, 2014 Author Share Posted October 19, 2014 I will pray for her. LMAO the thing is that yeah she is responsible and shit like that but she hasnt been able to fully experience life, you know what i mean lol Like tbh i wanna get engaged and married at least around my 30s lol and im only 18 right now lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
osmdomo 27 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 I agree with you.. Let's see how long she last with that man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xLeeChaex 46 Posted October 19, 2014 Author Share Posted October 19, 2014 MTE. If that's the case then I'm glad because it gives them more leeway if they decide to part ways a little down the road. You see im in college right now and i have seen people break up with their bfs once they graduate and some of them have dated their bfs since freshmen year in college lol And in all honesty i just prefer to focus on school and what i want to study in life lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SchoolNote 6,178 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 LMAO the thing is that yeah she is responsible and shit like that but she has been able to fully experience life, you know what i mean lol Like tbh i wanna get engaged and married at least around my 30s lol and im only 18 right now lol Idk sounds like she's rushing things at least wait to you have an established foundation i.e. graduated college, have a nice paying job and all that good stuff. Well it's her life I guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Symphonyâ„¢ 11,329 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 21 is way too early for that in my opinion. You got to live and have yourself figured out before you commit to someone. I doubt she has herself entirely figured out by 21.My mom and dad got married at 18 and 16 and lasted 21-23 years. It's not too early some people are just not mature enough to handle commitment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xLeeChaex 46 Posted October 19, 2014 Author Share Posted October 19, 2014 I agree with you.. Let's see how long she last with that man. She has known the man since 2012 i believe but damn its too early for that shit man...aint nobody wants to get marry to man so young and have so much shit to deal with lolololol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xLeeChaex 46 Posted October 19, 2014 Author Share Posted October 19, 2014 Idk sounds like she's rushing things at least wait to you have an established foundation i.e. graduated college, have a nice paying job and all that good stuff. Well it's her life I guess. Thats what i said, but ima see how she ends up with her bf Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Midna 2,032 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 Depends on couple i know some people who had kids during uni and they had to take a year or 2 off before going back. idg why people think marriage is gonna change your life tho? but thats just me, i jus see marriage as something that makes ur relationship official. doesnt mean you'll have kids asap after your marriage lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SchoolNote 6,178 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 Thats what i said, but ima see how she ends up with her bf Good luck to her lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xLeeChaex 46 Posted October 19, 2014 Author Share Posted October 19, 2014 My mom and dad got married at 18 and 16 and lasted 21-23 years. It's not too early some people are just not mature enough to handle commitment. SHIT 18 AND 16! Well that is true lol i guess some people are but being committed to a relationship at a young age is too fast..like have fun with yourself by traveling to countries, partying, meeting new people and etc. thats the way of life But like i said it aint my business what she does with herself lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myugyu 1,660 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 My parents were 19/21 when they got married. They're still together after all these years (they're 53/55) I think it just depends on the person if they're ready or not. Plus all of us have different priorities in life. Personally Im in the same page as you, I want to enjoy myself and become more financially satisfied before I dare think of marriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xLeeChaex 46 Posted October 19, 2014 Author Share Posted October 19, 2014 Depends on couple i know some people who had kids during uni and they had to take a year or 2 off before going back. idg why people think marriage is gonna change your life tho? but thats just me, i jus see marriage as something that makes ur relationship official. doesnt mean you'll have kids asap after your marriage lmao The thing is that, it kind of pissed me off when one of my parents told me "oh when are you gonna do things like what is she doing with herself like getting her own apartment with her bf, getting engaged, and almost being done with college." im here like wtf.......first off its MY LIFE, i could do whatever i want to do with it Second off, getting engaged at ur early twenties is a bit tad early Thrid off, you really think its good start to live with your bf even though you have never own a house before lol Thats just me though lmfaoo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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