Are U straight guy+not like girlxgirl

[Messica]

I am. I don't get this thing of how most guys like that stuff. My guy friends don't find that stuff hot either. I just find it nasty and a turn off.

When I hear about girls who watch boyxboy and use the excuse that guys like girl girl, I don't find that reason as legit. I don't even want my gf doing it.

Who else?

I now know about the 'want to be in between' aspect. Even then, I wouldn't want to be in a threesome. Who else?

[Taku]

The title gave me cancer. Lord. 

 

But the reasoning behind this, 'fetish' for lack of a better word, was already answered in another thread somewhere iirc. Most guys who watch girl on girl action fantasize about being in between the two. I mean they could watch threesome videos but whatever. 

 

Also, judging you if you tell your gf what she can and can't do. She can watch whatever the fuck she wants. 

[Chrome]

I don't find it gross or anything, but I don't find it particularly hot or a turn on in either

[Skibop!!]

How old are you?

[mistakesweremade]

Think it more a guy wants to sleep with two girls at once. You know a 3 way

[WON Hallyu]

You're probably homophobic

[Messica]

How old are you?

17

The title gave me cancer. Lord. 

 

But the reasoning behind this, 'fetish' for lack of a better word, was already answered in another thread somewhere iirc. Most guys who watch girl on girl action fantasize about being in between the two. I mean they could watch threesome videos but whatever. 

 

Also, judging you if you tell your gf what she can and can't do. She can watch whatever the fuck she wants.

 

I'm quite sheltered so I never knew it even thought of that. I don't find being in a threesome hot either. But media portrays this fetish as normal or found in all/most guys. I just didn't know. Thanks for educating me though. But so if my gf doesn't want to be faithful I shouldn't tell her not to. No one should abuse their right and cause wrong with it, even me. Even if I was a little to thirsty I wouldn't want to do it with a boy or girl while in a relationship, I shouldn't either. I would rather have boundaries that would guide me to the right way (still free willed) than expand and express every human right I have.

[Messica]

You're probably homophobic

I'm not homophobic. Gays should be allowed to be gay and I'm fine with that. But I find the act disgusting, but that does not make anyone a homophobe

[Taku]

17 I'm quite sheltered so I never knew it even thought of that. I don't find being in a threesome hot either. But media portrays this fetish as normal or found in all/most guys. I just didn't know. Thanks for educating me though. But so if my gf doesn't want to be faithful I shouldn't tell her not to. No one should abuse their right and cause wrong with it, even me. Even if I was a little to thirsty I wouldn't want to do it with a boy or girl while in a relationship, I shouldn't either. I would rather have boundaries that would guide me to the right way (still free willed) than expand and express every human right I have.

 

You telling her what she can and cannot watch =/= you telling her not to cheat on you. 

 

The former is basically restricting one's freedom, while the other is a part of society's rules regarding relationships. They basically do the same thing, but the one issuing the orders is different, and that matters a lot. 

 

But I'm glad I educated you in something. 

[plush-cthulhu]

I prefer girl x plush

 

[Messica]

You telling her what she can and cannot watch =/= you telling her not to cheat on you.

 

The former is basically restricting one's freedom, while the other is a part of society's rules regarding relationships. They basically do the same thing, but the one issuing the orders is different, and that matters a lot.

 

But I'm glad I educated you in something.

 

Wouldn't both be issuing orders? But I wouldn't and shouldn't judge anyone by what they watch, and the topic isn't necessarily about watching tho. I judge them by how and what they think. Personally I'd restrict my own freedoms to do the right/best thing, I'm not selfish so I don't really care if some rights were taken from me. I'd rather be a righteous slave than be a free man who is governed by permitted temptations. But society shouldn't change and determine/state what's right or wrong. They are present before society, If anything we shouldn't rely on ourselves in each other in finding that out, because not one human is reliable enough to have it all objectified. But yes If you wish to educate me, please do, I like Civil people.

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I don't find watching anybody regardless of gender or sexual orientation making out to be hot.

[Messica]

Think it more a guy wants to sleep with two girls at once. You know a 3 way

is that the same for girls who like boyxboy?

[Taku]

Wouldn't both be issuing orders? But I wouldn't and shouldn't judge anyone by what they watch, and the topic isn't necessarily about watching tho. I judge them by how and what they think. Personally I'd restrict my own freedoms to do the right/best thing, I'm not selfish so I don't really care if some rights were taken from me. I'd rather be a righteous slave than be a free man who is governed by permitted temptations. But society shouldn't change and determine/state what's right or wrong. They are present before society, If anything we shouldn't rely on ourselves in each other in finding that out, because not one human is reliable enough to have it all objectified. But yes If you wish to educate me, please do, I like Civil people.

 

1) That's why I said they 'basically do the same thing' lol. 

 

2) It does though. We aren't born knowing what's 'good and bad', but are taught it. 

 

 

is that the same for girls who like boyxboy?

 

I don't think so. I remember someone stating that since straight porn was more attuned to the male demographic (though there are an increasing amount of videos which cater to females now fortunately), some girls wanted to experience some male eye candy. Well that and the fact that others, like their male counterparts, fetishize these acts. 

 

Of course this is a generalisation. Not everyone will watch gay porn for the reasons stated above. 

[Messica]

1) That's why I said they 'basically do the same thing' lol.

 

2) It does though. We aren't born knowing what's 'good and bad', but are taught it.

 

 

 

 

I don't think so. I remember someone stating that since straight porn was more attuned to the male demographic (though there are an increasing amount of videos which cater to females now fortunately), some girls wanted to experience some male eye candy. Well that and the fact that others, like their male counterparts, fetishize these acts.

 

Of course this is a generalisation. Not everyone will watch gay porn for the reasons stated above.

 

as for number 2, but even society is probably the most unreliable. In fact no one is reliable to say so. We just have no choice to but to adhere to what society says unless you have a faith by a supernatural and omniscient entity/entities. This seems to be a more logical source of morals because if someone/people knows more than humanity can ever know, then that's exponentially more reliable. Sometimes what we think is right and wrong isn't at all, and this has been shown multiple times in history. This is why I don't shame people who think homosexuality is wrong (with religious backing)in which society thinks it should be allowed. Secular society has been just wrong as well as religious societies historically, even with all the revisions. But then many religious societies have been wrong several times historically. Whether both is wrong, we cannot escape that it is inherent that morality is there and exists,but then morality doesnt rule us because it had to be formed somehow.I always keep in mind that society could be wrong because were unreliable as fuuu.

 

funnily, there are straight guys who watch gay porn, but would never date another man.

[sane]

I think the idea is there being more of what you're attracted to. Like, watching 2 girls instead of a guy and a girl, since you're not attracted to dudes.

That kind of thing.

[Taku]

as for number 2, but even society is probably the most unreliable. In fact no one is reliable to say so. We just have no choice to but to adhere to what society says unless you have a faith by a supernatural and omniscient entity/entities. This seems to be a more logical source of morals because if someone/people knows more than humanity can ever know, then that's exponentially more reliable. Sometimes what we think is right and wrong isn't at all, and this has been shown multiple times in history. This is why I don't shame people who think homosexuality is wrong (with religious backing)in which society thinks it should be allowed. Secular society has been just wrong as well as religious societies historically, even with all the revisions. But then many religious societies have been wrong several times historically. Whether both is wrong, we cannot escape that it is inherent that morality is there and exists,but then morality doesnt rule us because it had to be formed somehow.I always keep in mind that society could be wrong because were unreliable as fuuu.

 

funnily, there are straight guys who watch gay porn, but would never date another man.

 

We do have a choice though. I said society taught us what was right and wrong, not that we'd have to follow these rules to a T. Hence the constant cycle of rebellions and what not.

 

 

I'm not smart enough to understand the rest of your paragraph (too much jargon lol) so I'll stop here. 

[Messica]

We do have a choice though. I said society taught us what was right and wrong, not that we'd have to follow these rules to a T. Hence the constant cycle of rebellions and what not.

 

 

I'm not smart enough to understand the rest of your paragraph (too much jargon lol) so I'll stop here.

 

the last statement of my post though. I find it weird. Maybe its out of dominance or jealousy

what do you think?

[Taku]

the last statement of my post though. I find it weird. Maybe its out of dominance or jealousy

what do you think?

 

You mean:

 

funnily, there are straight guys who watch gay porn, but would never date another man. 

 

? 

 

I've never heard of any straight who watches gay porn for leisure... I mean porn is a means of sexual pleasure right? So why would they watch something that didn't elicit such a feeling unless they were in fact not straight? Simple really. 

[Messica]

You mean:

 

 

 

? 

 

I've never heard of any straight who watches gay porn for leisure... I mean porn is a means of sexual pleasure right? So why would they watch something that didn't elicit such a feeling unless they were in fact not straight? Simple really.

 

the ancient Greeks and Romans did it out of dominance (perhaps watching it imagining their dominate another, as dominance over another male seems to be an expression of a great level or dominance) plus the body was much worshipped, male and female. Perhaps that gives an avenue for feeling.

[His Majesty Robosexual]

The title gave me cancer. Lord. 

 

But the reasoning behind this, 'fetish' for lack of a better word, was already answered in another thread somewhere iirc. Most guys who watch girl on girl action fantasize about being in between the two. I mean they could watch threesome videos but whatever. 

 

Also, judging you if you tell your gf what she can and can't do. She can watch whatever the fuck she wants. 

Except cheat.