Top 10 things foreign women hate about Japanese men

[kinjiki]

10 – Too many weird hobbies
These women aren’t talking about slightly different hobbies like robot building or training homing pigeons. These women are creeped out by guys obsessed with idols. The ones who stand in line for hours just to shake hands with a member of idol group, AKB48, or get angry when their favorite idol goes out on a date with another guy. It’s just not the idol-obsessed men either. According to these ladies, you’d be surprised at how many weird dudes with Lolita complexes there are in Japan.
 

9 – Have a small appetite
A 21-year-old Chinese student had this to say: “Japanese men don’t eat at all. Even when we’re at a restaurant, they just order the cheapest item and don’t order alcohol. They also don’t eat all of their food a lot of the times, so even if we go out to eat together, it’s not enjoyable.â€
 

8 – Acting like they are better than women
Most women don’t like to be talked down to, including the ones who took this survey.
 

7 – Have a gloomy personality
Coming in at number 7, many foreign women complained that Japanese men are all doom and gloom. No one likes a downer.
 

6 – Talk quietly
A common complaint among women in any nation is that their man doesn’t listen, but this is quite the opposite. Many foreign women said their Japanese man talks too softly, so even if he was listening, you’d never hear his response.
 

5 – Greetings are too reserved
A 22-year-old American student commented, “Japanese men are really shy. Most of them won’t look at my eyes when we’re talking.†Aside from zero eye-contact, Japanese men were said to not greet women properly (according to the survey takers).
 

4 – Stingy
A 19-year-old Korean student commented on the stinginess of the Japanese men she has dated: “The thing I was most surprised about was the time a Japanese guy asked me out to eat, but insisted that we split the bill. In Korea, it’s usually the guy who pays. Another time, the guy I was with said that we had to split the bill for a love hotel; I was so shocked that I walked out and went home.â€
 

3 – Uninterested in sex
Many of you have probably heard about “herbivore men,†a term that refers to men in Japan who are uninterested in sex or finding a girlfriend. A 22-year-old American student who took the Bucchi News survey has a new nickname for them: hyenas. The term refers to Japanese men who get so caught up in anime that they eventually fall in love with cute anime girls for real. They aren’t interested in living women, only 2-D women who aren’t really alive. These men are like hyenas, only preying on dead things (anime characters).
 

2 – Too thin
When it comes to their man, many foreign women don’t like someone who’s too thin. It’s especially a turnoff for a lot of women when a potential Japanese boyfriend is skinner than they are.
 

1 – Everyone’s hairstyle and clothing are the same
A boyfriend who looks like everyone else is a bore for many of the women who took this survey. It seems that most foreign women in Japan want a Japanese boyfriend who is unique and has his own style.
 

 

http://bucchinews.com/society/3454.html

[tamar braxton]

10 – Too many weird hobbies

These women aren’t talking about slightly different hobbies like robot building or training homing pigeons. These women are creeped out by guys obsessed with idols. The ones who stand in line for hours just to shake hands with a member of idol group, AKB48, or get angry when their favorite idol goes out on a date with another guy. It’s just not the idol-obsessed men either. According to these ladies, you’d be surprised at how many weird dudes with Lolita complexes there are in Japan.

 

[dream]

11 – They begin to spend their time and money with akb48 when they reach 35.

 

[Voldemin]

1 – Everyone’s hairstyle and clothing are the same
A boyfriend who looks like everyone else is a bore for many of the women who took this survey. It seems that most foreign women in Japan want a Japanese boyfriend who is unique and has his own style.

 

[Chunface]

lol

[Penis Intolerant]

9 – Have a small appetite

 

A 21-year-old Chinese student had this to say: “Japanese men don’t eat at all. Even when we’re at a restaurant, they just order the cheapest item and don’t order alcohol. They also don’t eat all of their food a lot of the times, so even if we go out to eat together, it’s not enjoyable.â€

 

 

This is true :o I just moved from an apartment complex that was overflowing with Japanese businessmen & their families. Every time I went to one of the buffets on the first floor, the fathers & their sons barely had anything on their plates and I'd get so confused, thinking, "The fuck. These are the families that bank at least $100K-$150K a year, why are they starving themselves? " I've seen their wives scold them to eat more, but they don't seem to at times :|

[Hey Im K]

10 – Too many weird hobbies

[beltofvenus]

6 – Talk quietly
A common complaint among women in any nation is that their man doesn’t listen, but this is quite the opposite. Many foreign women said their Japanese man talks too softly, so even if he was listening, you’d never hear his response.

 

my type of guy. 

Men like this are attractive...  

[Nanallena]

Small D-s?

[0211]

We split the costs in Sweden too, I don't see the big deal. 

[Tzuyuholic]

These threads are useless. What am I supposed to comment on such a post? I'm sure there are creeps and very likeable people in any country.

[Netizenbuzz]

"8 – Acting like they are better than women

Most women don’t like to be talked down to, including the ones who took this survey."

 

and then

 

“The thing I was most surprised about was the time a Japanese guy asked me out to eat, but insisted that we split the bill. In Korea, it’s usually the guy who pays. Another time, the guy I was with said that we had to split the bill for a love hotel; I was so shocked that I walked out and went home.â€

 

Maybe women should stop sending contradictory messages then. If you're expecting special treatment from men at all times just on the basis that you have a vagina, then you're either conceding that

1. You believe that men are superior and that women deserve compensation in the form of chivalry

or

2. You believe that women are superior and that men should be subservient to you

 

Either way, there is no equality in that mindset.

 

I was raised on the idea that women are equal and I believe it. Which means I believe that, among other things, you can open your own doors, pull out your own chairs, and pay your own bills just as well as I can, and that you don't need to me to patronize you by insinuating that you need me to do it for you. But if you expect me to do all of these things for you despite the fact that you feel like you can do it yourself, yet you're insulted at the notion that you should do it for me, too, then that's not conducive to equality.

 

I'm aware that there are still way too many people who insist on imposing traditional gender roles on both sides (from men towards women, and vice versa) but it's a bit disheartening to see so many "modern feminist women" who don't see the hypocrisy in placing such narrow ideals of masculinity and chivalry on men, while concurrently rebelling against "oppressive" expectations of femininity.

 

On another note, I can't help but notice that there are a lot of articles lately (on Yahoo and such sites) written by women, basically stating all of the things that women hate about men and how we should change to fit their expectations more. If similar articles were being written about women by men, would they not be called misogynist?

[tamar braxton]

"8 – Acting like they are better than women

Most women don’t like to be talked down to, including the ones who took this survey."

 

and then

 

“The thing I was most surprised about was the time a Japanese guy asked me out to eat, but insisted that we split the bill. In Korea, it’s usually the guy who pays. Another time, the guy I was with said that we had to split the bill for a love hotel; I was so shocked that I walked out and went home.â€

 

Maybe women should stop sending contradictory messages then. If you're expecting special treatment from men at all times just on the basis that you have a vagina, then you're either conceding that

1. You believe that men are superior and that women deserve compensation in the form of chivalry

or

2. You believe that women are superior and that men should be subservient to you

 

Either way, there is no equality in that mindset.

 

I was taught that women are equal and I believe it. I believe that you can open your own doors, pull out your own chairs, and pay your own bills just as well as I can, and that you don't need to me to patronize you by insinuating that you need me to do it for you. But if you expect me to do all of these things for you despite the fact that you feel like you can do it yourself, but you're insulted at the notion that you should do it for me, too, then that's not conducive to equality.

 

I'm aware that there are still way too many people who insist on imposing traditional gender roles on both sides (from men towards women, and vice versa) but it's a bit disheartening to see so many "modern feminist women" who don't see the hypocrisy in placing such narrow ideals of masculinity and chivalry on men, while concurrently rebelling against "oppressive" expectations of femininity.

 

On another note, I can't help but notice that there are a lot of articles lately (on Yahoo and such sites) written by women, basically stating all of the things that women hate about men and how we should change to fit their expectations more. If similar articles were being written about women by men, would they not be called misogynist?

 

Whoever asks who out should pay

[Milo]

11. short

[RiCardenasZ]

I thought "small dick" would be number 1 lol

[Netizenbuzz]

Whoever asks who out should pay

 

Logical, but it's ideas like "it's supposed to be the guy who pays" that I was referring to, and that's still very much the norm in modern society (along with the idea that a man's worth is determined by his income). I wonder if such ideas will still be accepted even when women have equal pay across the board? And if so, then I wonder if at that point, more people will start to bring attention to the hypocrisy in that notion.

[kinjiki]

Men are better than woman, have physically better bodies, smarter, age better, don't have to wear makeup to be presentable and all of the world's greatest inventions/discoveries have been 95% made by men.

[fuckJohnny]

I'm a bit surprised about the splitting bill part. Maybe they think whoever asks who out should pay?

Where I used to live we would split the bill and it was no problem.

[tamar braxton]

Logical, but it's ideas like "it's supposed to be the guy who pays" that I was referring to, and that's still very much the norm in modern society (along with the idea that a man's worth is determined by his income). I wonder if such ideas will still be accepted even when women have equal pay across the board? And if so, then I wonder if at that point, more people will start to bring attention to the hypocrisy in that notion.

 

And a woman's worth is determined by her looks

 

LOL tons of men have been screeching about not wanting to pay for the first date (even if he is the one that asks the girl out and wants to impress her)

[fuckJohnny]

I was taught that women are equal and I believe it. Which means I believe that, among other things, you can open your own doors, pull out your own chairs, and pay your own bills just as well as I can, and that you don't need to me to patronize you by insinuating that you need me to do it for you. But if you expect me to do all of these things for you despite the fact that you feel like you can do it yourself, yet you're insulted at the notion that you should do it for me, too, then that's not conducive to equality.

 

I find that usually people who do that want to be nice and polite. There are people that even to a random person. I personally usually hold doors open for women and men.

I don't expect a guy to hold the door open for me but if he does it's nice and I would do the same for him. My step dad usually holds the door for me but I'm pretty sure he does that because some doors here are so heavy and I'm really small. It's not that she's a girl she can't open a door it's more of a let be nice for her.

[Wholahay]

The dumbassery in this thread is astounding.

[Netizenbuzz]

And a woman's worth is determined by her looks

 

LOL tons of men have been screeching about not wanting to pay for the first date (even if he is the one that asks the girl out and wants to impress her)

 

-Absolutely and I don't agree with that

 

-That's sad, but I don't speak on behalf of those men either because I don't see the logic in treating someone to a date but not wanting to pay the bill. So you can make your claim about "tons of men screeching" and selfishly forcing women to pay the bill in every situation but you know as well I do that it's not even close to being the accepted norm  - in fact I've never even heard of such a thing much less witnessed it first hand. I'm just taking your word for it for the sake of your argument since I don't know for a fact that this hasn't been your experience, even though common sense tells me that you're greatly exaggerating.

[Netizenbuzz]

I find that usually people who do that want to be nice and polite. There are people that even to a random person. I personally usually hold doors open for women and men.

I don't expect a guy to hold the door open for me but if he does it's nice and I would do the same for him. My step dad usually holds the door for me but I'm pretty sure he does that because some doors here are so heavy and I'm really small. It's not that she's a girl she can't open a door it's more of a let be nice for her.

 

I find myself in the same boat as you. I usually hold the door for everyone (I might be too polite, actually, sometimes I end up holding the door for someone who's just a little too far away which is a bit awkward lol)

 

It's always a nice gesture to put others before yourself, but what we're discussing here is the idea that these gestures should be expected based on gender, not regardless of gender or based on stature, health etc.

[fuckJohnny]

I find myself in the same boat as you. I usually hold the door for everyone (I might be too polite, actually, sometimes I end up holding the door for someone who's just a little too far away which is a bit awkward lol)

 

It's always a nice gesture to put others before yourself, but what we're discussing here is the idea that these gestures should be expected based on gender, not regardless of gender or based on stature, health etc.

 

I do the same lol. But it feels really nice when they say thank you and/or smile and you feel like such a good person.

 

Oh I get it and I really don't agree with that unless they like to do it. For example my mom doesn't expect my step dad to open the door for her nor does she ask him too he just does it because he wants to and I think that's pretty nice.

Of course females should do the same.

[Good People]

Wow overall this is incredibly stupid...

 

9. You want a man who drinks? Seriously?

 

8. You can't say they act better than women, and that they are also too shy to look women in the eye. These two contradict each other.

 

4. You want a man you don't know to pay for your stuff? Don't be a hoe, pay your own bills until you know him well enough to accept gifts from him.

 

2. People come in all sizes, get an obese American guy then if you don't like "skinny".