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  1. I disagree I've always been super pro-LGBT+ and very liberal and supportive. But I still had a very hard time accepting who I was and my sexuality. It took me pretty much all of middle and high school to finally accept that I was attracted to girls too, not just guys. Being pro-LGBT+ and being able to accept yourself as LGBT+ are very different. It's easy to be supportive because it's not you. But once you start realizing you aren't straight, it becomes very difficult to accept it. What RapMon said sounds exactly what I told myself when I was first trying to accept my sexuality. I would finally accept that I liked girls, but then some days I would say "Oh no, I'm straight. I'm not bi." and even after I accepted I was bi, I had times where I would deny it to myself. I even said I was straight in my application for college (during the roommate matching survey) because I wasn't ready to identify as bisexual. I still had "Oh, I'm not bi, I'm straight" thoughts. It wasn't until I finally became involved with another girl that I finally was able to fully accept it. I strongly believe that RapMon is bi or pan. A lot of things he says remind me of things I said when I was still half unable to fully accept myself. The whole saying "oh that's not me" part is what makes it almost painfully obvious. It could have something to do with mental illness as well, of course we will never know. But based on how he always stressed the whole "sneakers" thing with his ideal type, and wrote bi lyrics for another group before, and just a lot of what RM says and does, just seems very much like someone who has slowly realized he is bi but still struggles to adjust and fully accept that idea. Again, it's been proven many many times, over and over again, that someone who is very accepting and pro-LGBT will probably still struggle a great deal with accepting their own sexuality or gender identity. Because supporting others is different than doing it to yourself. Just wanted to add that- I may be projecting myself on RM but it just sounds painfully familiar to me. He definitely likes women, but there at times it seems quite possible he likes men as well I'd like to point out that a lot of bisexual people are comfortable expressing interest in the opposite sex, but struggle and hesitate to do so for the same sex, even if they are indeed bisexual. Everyone knows I like guys, I always comment on how hot they are and my reactions to them are obvious. However most people are shocked to death when they hear I like girls too because I'm not as open and blatant about my attraction to them and tend not to react. Even after accepting myself as bi, t happens this way So a lot of idols can express clear interest for women but I feel like that shouldn't instantly lead people to think they are totally straight, especially if said idol has had questionable moments towards the same sex Just some thoughts
  2. Throwback MIN YOONGI, WHO HAVE YOU PERMISSION TO SNATCH ALL MY WEAVES LIKE THIS I LOVE THIS HAIR, BLACK HAIR IS TRUTH YALL Tae's eyebrows are amazing holy shit I feel nervous, something will happen, I can feel it
  3. These ones... And I am loyal I am merely visiting Jungkook's thread because I support all members, that's all I'm still 100% loyal to Tae
  4. This influx of tweets got me looking at BTS/BH like I feel you. And then taking every little thing as a possible hint for comeback because once it comes out you realize all the hints they dropped
  5. Who is that? She is fucking beautiful Yoona looks like a doll sometimes, her face is so tiny and delicate
  6. I don't think they're dating at all, but I do think they are very good friends and it's possible they may have attempted to date or had some small thing in the past but at the moment I think they're just friends, imo, maybe they tried it but decided being friends was better, all I know is I don't think they have anything romantic going on I was talking with my friend today and the whole "statistics" aspect of LGBT+ came up. I hate how people act like it's delusional to think that there's more than 1 gay person in a KPop group. In high school, my friend group was probably around 10 people and only 4 were straight. In college, I have a huge social group, but only have around 6 people I consider real friends. In those 6 people, only 2 people are straight. We didn't become friends because of our sexuality either. We became friends, and then we realized: Wow, most of us are not straight. Based on statistics is not accurate, because a group of 5 friends may have 0 LGBT+ people, and another group of 5 friends may have 3 LGBT+ people. Real life just does not follow statistics. I agree it's unrealistic to say "9/10 members of this group are gay" but I also think that it shouldn't be so quick to dismiss the possibility of there being more than 1-2 LGBT+ people in a group. Also, bigger group doesn't mean more chances of there being more LGBT people. A group with 5 members could have 3-4 LGBT, and a group of 10 could have just 1-2, maybe even 0. It's honestly too random. Statistically yes only 1 in X amount of people will be LGBT+, however that is when looking at the population as a whole. Kpop is split up into smaller groups and it's too random how these groups are put together, so like 3/5 of one group could be LGBT, and 0/10 of one group could be. I'm sorry if it's a long ass rant but I just hate how because of "statistics" it's assumed each group can only have, like, at most 2 LGBT+ members. Especially since some companies are more public about their support of LGBT+ so maybe some LGBT people are more drawn to become trainees under certain companies. Which would again skew statistics because some LGBT people may go to certain companies that have a rep for being more open/accepting/liberal in Korea.
  7. #Whenwilli Are there any translations of the names on the 'Credits' portion of the Wings album? Some names are in Korean and I wanted to know who they were.
  8. I just love Taehyung so much
  9. Jiwoo is my bae and Oh Na Na Na is the bop of my life
  10. I loved Secret actually and I was waiting for another comeback before stanning but I Wish was really really good I like that they don't downright do a cutesy concept but they make it fantasy/whimsical and more mature I'm a pretty new fan, I've been watching the cosmic diaries and so far, I think my bias is Yeunjung, Xuan Yi, Eunseo, Mei Qi, Dawon, Seola...It's so hard to choose lol If anyone has any varieties or reality show besides the diaries, I'd love to watch them Just wanted to say hi, and they are really talented and unique. I really wish they will go far
  11. You're basically accusing Jackson of queerbaiting. No matter how you spin it, you're saying Jackson knows what fans like so everything he has said or done is inspired by his desire to please and hype up fans and basically Fanservice. Aka, queerbaiting. Here is why I disagree I don't follow Got7 but I do know a lot about Jackson and how outgoing he is, I get his personality type. Here's the thing. especially because Jackson knows English and connects with international fans a lot, I think that only makes it more likely that he is bisexual. Jackson is definitely the fanservice type, he does a lot of it for the fans enjoyment. But the amount of things he says and the way he acts around men who are NOT his group members, really shows that it's not all for Fanservice. Logically speaking, why would he be so obvious with men outside of Got7 members? If it was fanservice, fans don't really get enjoyment from that sort of thing unless it's skinship among the members/group. Jackson knows English and he comes from a place where being LGBT+ is generally accepted, at least more so than Korea, and a lot of his international fans are younger fans who are very accepting of LGBT+ and even encourage it (though there is still lots of homophobia, this generation is so much more accepting, the "tumblr generation" is especially and they're the loudest online so it's likely Jackson sees that). So if Jackson knows this, maybe his obvious flirting and love of men who are not Got7 members (meaning it's not fanservice) is because he sort of wants I-fans to know or is hinting towards it. Basically, it just doesn't make sense to me to say Jackson is straight on the basis that most of his interactions are fanservice since he knows what fans like since he speaks English and is very connected to the fandom. Because a lot of the "receipts" on Jackson, are of Jackson with men outside of Got7 members....which wouldn't work for Fanservice because fans only really care about group ships for fanservice
  12. sorry if this is weird but I really like your posts and sig<3

    1. aveline

      aveline

      Ah thank you so much! I really appreciate it. :D (And Taehyung is gorgeous af, I couldn't resist haha)

  13. Hey guys I admit when I first heard Loona I didn't see what was special about them, but I didn't finish the first song. Today I wen back and listened to ViViD and all the new songs from Hyunjun, Haseul, Heejin, and all their songs together, and I fell in love. Something about them stuck to me, I really like their music and the vibe they give off, it's like I can feel their charming and bubbly personalities even without seeing them really speak or talk I bought their song on Itunes and when I have some more money (broke college student here, lol) I'll buy all their stuff, but I know they are pretty new and I wanted to join this thread and talk about them since they are not so big yet. Haseul's voice is probably one of my favorite in KPop it is just so beautiful. I like the vibe Heejin gives me she's really...bright, bubbly. And Hyunjin is so cute and soft lol. imo it's going to be hard picking a bias and so far we only know 3. So far I really love all their music, I can't imagine how good the real debut will be
  14. Hey thanks for the add

    1. You Need Some Milk

      You Need Some Milk

      Your welcome boo lol

  15. I am really emo about the fact that I probably won't get tickets for BTS's Chicago concert and I know it's dramatic but it makes me want to cry because what the actual fuck they are my inspiration everyday and half the reason I haven't shot myself and turned into a total bitch even though I still am a bitch what the fuck why did I move to America I could have stayed in fucking Korea
  16. I'm asking all my friends and family what their internet connection speed is lmao I'm desperate af
  17. Thank you I am freaking out, like I neeed to get tickets lmao I can't allow myself miss this chance Chicago tickets go on sale Friday at 4 PM CST, right?
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