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i don't get why people won't let other people ALONE
just LET ME BE WHO I AM
WhY ARE PEOPLE SO FUCKING JUDGMENTAL
'YOU'RE CRAZY' 'YOU'RE ANNOYING' 'YOU'RE SO DEPRESSING' 'YOU'RE SUCH A DRAMA QUEEN' 'YOU'RE DELUSIONAL' 'YOU JUST WANT ATTENTION' 'YOU THINK YOU'RE ALL THAT'
BITCH LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE OKAY
LIFE IS HARD ENOUGH WITHOUT EVERYONE TRYING TO TAKE YOU DOWN FOR BEING WHO YOU ARE
I AM WHO I AM, WHAT'S SO WRONG WITH THAT
I DON'T GIVE YOU SHIT, WHY CAN'T YOU LET ME LIVE MY LIFE
people just take this sick pleasure out of making other people feel like shit
they get pleasure out of JUDGING others, MOCKING them
that is SICK. if you do that to someone, you are SICK
JUST LET PEOPL BE WHO THEY ARE
I hate that people call me crazy, or if i don't take my meds, they act like suddenly it means i'm crazy, I'm not crazy just bc i didn't take my meds!
I can go ONE fucking day or two without meds!!
I'M NOT FUCKING HARLEY QUINN, I'M NOT CRAZY, EVEN IF I WAS, ONE DAY WITHOUT MEDICATION WOULDNT KILL ME
JUST LEAVE ME ALONE? MAYBE I CAN'T AFFORD A REFILL RIGHT NOW AND MY STUDENT INSURANCE IS SHIT
oR that people on this forum and online and in real life, won't let you be you
can't have an opinion, can't say anything they find 'weird' or crazy or delusional, or u get attacked like u committed some crime
bitch there are bigger problems to worry about than being an ass to someone on a forum, or to someone in ur class/dorm/whateverr
i just wanted to paint and she walks in and starts talking about how i waste money!!! I SPent it on clothes! she says i'm destroying my body....i can't handle my own money...why am i an insomniac?? I can't sleep, i'm afraid of the dark sometimes, OKAY? don't shit on me, it's not my fault!!
why are people so hellbent on judging and hurting each other, just leave me the fuck alone, I already wish I wasn't alive, PLEASE DON'T MAKE IT WORSE. IT DOESN'T COST YOU ANYTHING TO BE NICE
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triple??? wtf is my computer doing
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You don't know V personally
nope. that's why i specifically said it was all my bs opinion/gut feeling/completely baseless. i just get the same 'feeling' with him, Sehun, Key and some other idols as I do w/ some friends who I know. itdoesn't mean a thing
but i guess stressing several times in my post that what i was saying was completely baseless/completely based on my gut feeling and had nothing to do with facts/was literally just a random crap opinion...i guess that saying it 3 times wasn't enough to get the message across...oops...i guess i'll say it again:
My post is completely baseless and based on 100% 'gut feeling', it has no facts, it's just a nobody's opinion on her bias, period.
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i have no evidence for my following statements...just my opinion based on completely subjective 'gut feeling' that has no specific evidence or basis, just...my own feeling and experience
i tend to be very in tune with other people and their thoughts and feelings, i can read people well, sometimes even without meaning to. today i met a boy friend, i saw him working at a restaurant i visited with my friend. we talked and after we left, my friend that i ate with asked if my friend and i (the guy working) were a thing. i was surprised, bc i'd never thought about him that way - he is cute and even my type, yet i'd just never imagined anything romantic with him...like there was some sort of block. not like 'friendzoned', just like...it's hard to explain, but it's as if i automatically just see them as friends for some reason, even before getting to know them.
i realized that with several of my other guy friends, who are gay, when i first met them, i felt the same 'block'...though i didn't know they were gay and they weren't my friends so it wasn't just me friendzoning them, i just felt a block even the first time i met them, even if they were attractive...so i talked to my male friend and we were talking about the pride parade i went to...he then came out to me as gay.... i think i am the first person he has told...
i know it sounds dumb and i swear, you guys can laugh at me and ignore it, i understand, but i think maybe that 'block' is my version of a gaydar? because every guy i felt that 'block' with, turned out to be gay, once i got to know them i ended up finding out they were gay. i feel the block instantly upon meeting them, its odd. so maybe it's my gaydar that somehow leads to the block since i know nothing romantic can or will happen
Taehyung is my ultimate bias, i find him super attractive and his visuals are really my type, he can be super sexy, but for some reason i've never been attracted to him in a physical or romantic manner. I have the same 'block' for him as I did with all my other guy friends that ended up being gay: I find them very physically attractive, i should be attracted to them, but i just...don't see them that way, even if they are 100% my type...i can only see as a friend, even if i just met them. maybe i thought, i somehow recognize that they aren't attracted to women, so i instantly block off any feelings beyond platonic friendship? idk
i know it's dumb as hell...sorry...but it's just an opinion...
i just can't imagine Taehyung with a girl romantically. I can't. It's not like I have any reason to want him to be a specific sexuality; i would love him and support him equally if he was homo, hetero, pan, bi, ace, demi, anything, it doesn't matter to me, he is Taehyung and will always be Taehyung no matter who he loves or doesn't love. I don't ship him with anyone, I love him to pieces and he is my ultimate bias but I've just never seen him 'that' way...no matter what i just can't for the life of me see him being romantic or physical with a girl.
maybe it's just because he tends to treat everyone so friendly and is so relaxed...but does anyone have footage or events where he was flustered by a girl? i've only seen him get flustered with guys. he gets flustered quite easily with skinship and attention from guys...he loves skinship but still gets super flustered by it, even from some of his members. i've never seen him have that sort of reaction to girls, he honestly seems really at ease with them. that doesn't mean he is gay of course. his interactions with females are also limited compared to males....but the way he acts with fanboys and fangirls...to me he seems so comfortable with fangirls, it's no big deal - he is the fanservice king, he can hold girls hands, cradles their faces, has no problem with any of that...but with fanboys, he gets so flustered, he gives them extra attention, idk, sorry i'm rambling, but his face lights up with fanboys
just my two cents, but i can't see him with a girl as anything more than friendship. but again, i'm basing this post entirely on my personal gut feelings and intuition. i could bring a lot of receipts and stuff of his reaction to guys and males, but they've all been posted here already, i have nothing new...
anyway that event happened today with my friend since he came out to me, and that's what triggered this post...i'm sorry for wasting your time but i hope someone found it at least interesting to read...i'm sorry i know it's dumb, but sometimes gut feelings mean something, idk, but this is the only place i could really share these thoughts so...
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Tae is too cute for the world
. Look at him stepping back and his body posture when he's asking for something, what a baby!
what an adorable little cub<3 he is so gentle and sweet...even when arguing he is such a cutie and sweetheart...
i love that Yoongi holds his hand to pacify him and it works...Tae is so soft for that sort of thing, he is a lover not a fighter...i actually think Taegi are very good together. they are more odd and rare bit they are good together, i think they get along well, it's just in their own way, but it's easy to see they care for each other a lot (as all of BTS does, of course)
also, THIS ISN'T FAIR TAEHYUNG:

eXcUsE mEeE
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these are some of Irene's worst gifs, she is beautiful but these 'legendary' gifs do the opposite of showcase her beauty.


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the last time i actually posteds here was like last year or monthws ago even though I love taehyung with my liife
but i lurk all threads 99% of the time and usually have private visibility but I'm always here....this thread, the best thread since it's for Tae....anyways, it took me this long to post bc I was in the process of reincarnating after lissstening to 4 o'clock .....
just wanted to say hi im a stranger but i love Taehyung and this thread is for loving him and all so that's really all for now

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is there anyone else who gets the weird feeling that Jennie and Rosé only ping when they're together?
I keep getting this feeling that rosé wants to please Jennie really hard 24/7 and Jennie sometimes indulged her and sometimes plays hard to get but even Jennie pings me more around rosé, whereas she otherwise doesn't ping me?
idk I'm kinda drunk rn tbh
edit; not drunk just like tipsy enough to think weird shit
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Minho and Taemin are the least attractive Shinee members; Jonghyun, Onew and Key are the most attractive.
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Blackpink seem gayer but they're still the straightest girl group I can think of rn besides RV
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but -as a bisexual- I don't think we are the minority. Or better, not that much of a minority to make the likelihood of a certain idol being bi extremely low.
I know this is old but I was backtracking
I'd like to point out that bisexuals are not the minority's, id actually say they are the majority. bi-erasure is very prominent, and people tend to forget that even if you have slight attraction to either the same or opposite sex, you can qualify as bi
For example, a girl might have 90% preference for guys, and a 10% preference for girls - it's rare for her to like a girl, she's only liked one girl, that sort of thing - but she's still bi. Even if a guy dates guys his whole life and only has one girlfriend, he's still not gay, he is bi.
most people are at least somewhat attracted to the same sex - on the Kinsey scale, I'd say most people are a 2, and that a 0 is more rare.
because sexuality can be so fluid, I think a lot of people are bi but will never consider themselves bisexual or be considered bi because they have such a strong preference for a certain sex. for example, a girl might have such a strong preference for guys that she can ignore her attraction to girls, or pretend it's not there, whatever. But she would still be bi.
So I actually think it makes sense that there are so many idols people see as bi or bicurious- bc sexuality is very fluid.
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plz move this thread to the random section
I accidentally put it in award voting
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One thing that just made me smh was a fangirl's comment saying "the one who filmed was a guy, that's why jungkook found it weird and gave it attention". Uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuh that's not what someone would do if they found something "weird", honey.
hell no
he was practically giving soft/lowkey bedroom eyes to the camera. i guess that sounds more intense than i'm trying to say...but you could tell he liked it. it made him excited and he was obviously interested and more engaged in performing (for the fanboy).
honestly, as someone who used to stan the maknae of BTS very intensely for many years, he definitely enjoys attention from males.
I don't mean in a "he likes the attention of hyungs" way, bc he likes attention from males that are total strangers too
he is similar to Taehyung. they react differently to males: Male coworkers, male fanboys, male idols, male staff, all that. they just seem to light up and they pay extra attention to them almost subconsciously...they get a very "little kid seeing a present on Christmas morning" vibe to them whenever they run into males, be it male coworkers on variety (like the time Jungk**k got the number of a male fitness trainer), male idols (him checking out GD), male fanboys (see fancams above), they just....treat them differently in a very sus way
it is clear that the maknae did not find it weird. seeing that it was a male made him perform extra well and specifically, performed for the camera/fanboy especially.
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can someone explain why they think Moonbyul is gay? Let alone the gayest?
Outside from the ship of her and solar, and her doing girl crush fanservice...I would like to know things she has said or done to make her suspect. Outside of her ships and fan service, especially since she and Mamamoo are marketed specially as girl crushes.
Also how is Wendy not considered the gayest? Her and Taeyeon are basically a glass closet Case
Just curious
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I find Mina, Sowon, and Solar to have really plain faces. I just don't consider them stunning or attractive. They're pretty but they either have a very bland beauty, or just don't make me want to look at them twice.
I just flat-out don't consider Lisa, Nayeon or Rose pretty.
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i'm so sick of living
i am so sick of going back to the same classes, same people, same damned white walls and plastic chairs and bricks and the smell of alcohol and burning plastic
i am sick of my professors, of the people who are supposed to be my friends
the one thing i'm not sick of is my girlfriend
but she has plenty of other people she loves, plenty of other people there for her
she doesn't need me, won't even notice if i'm gone. no one will. it's going to be so easy
as long as the right technique is used obviously
i'm such an idiot i screwed up last time, it's honestly almost funny, to me at least
but even then no one really noticed or cared so i guess it will be the same this time
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finally out of the fucking hospital
the co-payment was over a hundred dollars, WHAT THE HELL IS INSURANCE FOR? I basically paid for most of my treatment. You'd think they wouldn't put that financial burden on a 19 year old girl after she was hospitalized, but fuck, no, this capitalist ass country just wants money.
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bye bitches
It's been a sucky ride
have fun living your tragic ass lives ✌ðŸ»
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Rose's vocal tone is not very pleasant, it's unique but honestly I'd much rather listen to Jennie
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Hello, I am the mod that banned you from the the thread. You were banned for not bashing a fandom but linking to a specific thread to bash a fandom. Doing so came across as bashing the user who posted the thread, as the link was an example of why the fandom is arrogant. If you wish, you can appeal the decision.
would appealing actually help me or would it be disregarded
I mean it was unintentional since i was not attempting to bash the user and I saw other posts linking threads before, but even if it was unintentional, would it matter?
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can a mod explain why i got banned from bashing thread?
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This! I totally agree. I'm done to read all these fans who claim that XX idols is unhealthy just because they are thin/skinny. A lot of them have full cheeks and have great skin! The face to me indicates if XX is unhealthy. Some people might have a gaunt face but are not thin at all and you can be skinny and still have fat cheeks. Plus, I'm pretty those people are jealous.
I don't get this logic
Idols flat-out talk about their insane and unhealthy diets.
Laboum Solbin: Ate 240 calories only to lose weight. This is EXTREMELY unhealthy and could lead to death and various other extreme health issues.
IU: Ate only an apple, a protein shake, and a sweet potato for weeks before comebacks. Under 800 calories. Again, considered starving yourself.
DIA Chaeyeon: Starved herself, only ate tofu sometimes for months to lose a shit ton of weight. Now has blood pressure problems.
AOA Mina: Starved despite already being extremely skinny, didn't even drink water during her diet.
Nine Muses: Their 'paper cup' diet is also a form of starvation that could lead to immense health issues.
That's only a few I can think of.
Oh my girl member Jine has anorexia, and she always had "great skin and fluffy cheeks". But obviously, if she was hospitalized/treated for anorexia she wasn't healthy, even though she looked like this:



Again, Laboum Solbin's diet is ridiculously unhealthy, and she still looks glowing:

Not to mention Chaeyeon who downright admitted to STARVING and having blood pressure issues because of her unhealthy diet, and yet her skin is among the top in idols:


Sorry, but starving and extremely unhealthy diets are the norm for Kpop idols. They diet in ways that would count as eating disorders in other countries. And yet very few of them ever look gaunt in the face or have bad skin. Only UEE and Lizzy and sometimes IU ever showed signs of gauntness (but not bad skin). Idols go through great lengths to protect their skin so that's not a sign.
I agree that they should not be body shamed for being skinny and people shouldn't automatically assume that every thin idol is extremely unhealthy, but it's a fact that Kpop idols use drastic, extreme, and ridiculously unhealthy methods to lose weight and remain their thin bodies.
I mean, the fact is that some of them only eat one meal a day (if that), and they exercise, practice, and move around constantly all day because of their careers. That's definitively not healthy.
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please ban me permanently in 10 minutes
please try to do it in exactly ten minutes from now.
i know there are temporary bans, but it needs to be permanent, no one will ever be able to use this account after 10 minutes.
i don't have much to say...i guess mods do their best in their own way...i guess...mods never gave me shit, so....thanks....even if i know what some of u think...it doesn't matter anymore, thanks...