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  1. Hi, I came here whenever the thread comes up in my search result :P

     

    Taemin as confusingsexual reminds me of this opinion

    http://everyoneisgaypop.tumblr.com/post/53903049377/do-you-think-taemin-is-gay-or-bi-i-was-wondering-about

     

    Well, I guess a more accurate answer would be maybe. I get the impression that he feels like he has something to prove about his masculinity. I have probably answered about him before, but I’ll try to explain it again.

     

    For a long time, Taemin was the cute one, the baby, and he was always said to “look like a girl.†I think that bothered him a lot, and recently, he seems to be trying his hardest to be seen as a man. BUT! I think he’s still a bit of an innocent, and I think he’s still finding himself. I think he would like to think of himself as straight… but I think there’s a strong possibility that he has had attraction to other males. I don’t think he’s necessarily conflicted about that, but rather that he doesn’t know, yet. In the sense that he probably doesn’t really have a handle on his own sexuality, which is probably why it’s so hard to read him.

     

    Keep in mind that he’s still young. While he’s exiting his teens now, not everybody knows for sure what their orientation is in their teens. A lot of people don’t come to terms with it until their college years and beyond. Some people never really know for sure. And especially if he’s bisexual, it could be a confusing thing to navigate for him. 

     

    I don’t think he really knows, yet. However, he doesn’t physically seem repulsed by the idea, and he does really like getting attention from his hyungs, which is why I leave it open. I’m sure as the years go bye, we’ll be able to get a clearer idea about Taemin, maybe when he learns himself better.

     

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    Maybe he's the type who doesn't feel strongly about his sexuality and be decisive early? He seems to hold dear to his Catholic faith so he maybe has ideal type of sexuality he wants for himself but I was a good Catholic too until I reach certain age and give no ef to whatever standard it has so he might be like me too later? :derp:

    Taemin in wgm to me seems like a try hard. Trying hard to put front a stronger, manlier, funnier, extrovert charms. It seems exhaustive to him sometimes but I see fair amount of fun times too :)

     

    lol I always go back and forth on Taemin.  He's very hard to read.

  2. I think a lot of people think lipstick lesbians are not real lesbians because a lot of girls fake being lesbians/bisexual for attention or the stigma. Like for example, Erica Mena from Love and Hip Hop is clearly a fake lesbian even though she claims she is "bisexual".

     

    wait wat.  If she says she's bisexual how is that being a fake lesbian.....

     

    Anyway, to destined2bebossy.  People are so fucking ignorant when it comes to lesbians, especially the really femme one's.  It's so damn annoying and stems from patriarchal bullshit and a whole lot of other mess.  lol this topic raises my blood pressure from the amount of stupid shit I read/hear people say.

  3. Does anybody else think Tiffany -Nichkhun is 99% sure to be a couple? From all the fancams i saw of them, their interaction and couple items they have, i am convinced they are dating.

     

    Unfortunately he is an idol , and they are never gonna officially announce it. His image would be affected and Tiffany would get a lot of hate.Yoona and Sooyoung are dating actors and Hyo is dating anonymous guy so it`s not such a big deal. :._.:

     

    I don't know much about 2PM stans, are they as psycho as boy group fans usually are?  If so then yeah, it will never get announced.  And looking at the other rumors, Jessica and Yoo Ah In?  lol wat, isn't that the guy even netizens think is gay?

  4. The spam tho kpoplover.....

     

    Anyway, y'all better be used to being disappointed, same with the people in the gay thread (like with GD).  Even if an idol is gay they will never, ever come out and will marry the opposite sex.  That's just the way Korean society is.  Hollywood people even do this and that industry is supposedly way more liberal (tho that's a crock of shit tbh).   

  5. I understand your thoughts, but I'm conviced it's not a choice. I see myself as lesbian and I don't think I could be with a guy. I sometimes think about this and what would be if I found the right guy and sometimes I even wish there was a nice guy next to me and I could lean on his shoulder and stuff like that. but when I think about kissing or sex with a guy I feel uncomfortable. these are things I can only imagine wih a girl. so even if I met a guy who is personality-wise 100% my ideal partner, I still wouldn't be with him in a romantic way. that's why I think it's not a choice (at least not for me). I think you are born to be attracted to both genders, that's why you probably think there is a choice.

     

     

    yeah, but just my opinion. :)

     

    Hit the nail on the head.  Perhaps for you junglove, you feel it's a "choice" because you're already attracted to both genders.  Technically you can choose between a man or a woman.  However, you can't choose who you're attracted to.

  6. I feel like most les/bi people in media are actually super femme now and it kind of annoys me. What I'd really like to see are more characters who really break the mold and are neither. 

     

    Silly you, how can straight guys jerk to them then?  Really tho, so many people still have the mindset that if you're not completely stereotypical then you can't be gay.  I like that a lot of shows show that's not the case, though obviously those aren't the reasons they do it.

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    I don't like comments like these I hate it when guys think that hot women can't be lesbians or bi. 

     

    http://onehallyu.com/index.php?/topic/36769-girls-day-fanservice-lesbian-fantasies/page-2&do=findComment&comment=2054999

     

     

    "The fan service is interesting but they all seem very hetero and probably love cock a lot.

     

    I would guess that maybe 2 of them kissed or felt up another girl before out of curiosity. However, it was only one or a few times and barely much of it."

     

     

    Straight men are the most deluded and entitled beings on the planet tbh.

  8. I am not denying the lyrics were girly and in parts embarrassing but the gay fangirls

    were out for blood since knowing the title of the song. After hearing the song and reading

    the translated lyrics there was no mercy for the song or anyone who said , "I like IGAB",

    which it was a problem because they are a big part of the fandom who buys albums/merchandise.

     

    P.S : I want a dark concept too.

     

    Yeah, the fans obsessed with idol's sexuality tend to be psychotic.  I mean idek what the hell they expect, it's Korea.  To not support them over that though is just absurd.   :wth:

  9. Good try but no, this were comments from gay fangirls, I read them in the L chat and basically they were angry

    since the moment they knew the name of the song was " I got a boy". :lol:

     

    um ok, but I'm not a gay fangirl and would like something different for a title track like Run Devil Run.  ia tho those comments are ott but the lyrics for IGAB are terribad regardless.  I just think the girls can do better.

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