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  1. ok i see where you're coming from tbh i didn't read the other replies at first, but you're right in that a lot of people are just jumping on the xenophobic hate train with a quickness that borders on racism. that said, it's not like these are specifically korean issues. men all across the world are violent due to hypemasculinity and the way they were raised. this male violence should be open for discussion. i'm interested in your analogy between korean feminism and communist propaganda tho. any examples? because as far as i've heard women have very little materialistic power in korea, and thus can't in any way oppress men like a totalitarian state can oppress its people. quite the opposite imo.... korean women are allowed very little bodily autonomy, f.ex. abortion being a long and difficult process that's only allowed under certain curcumstances, the purity myth that shames women for enjoying sex or not being a virgin till marriage, victim shaming in rape cases etc.
  2. ok??? the point isn't whether men or women do it the most. it's abuse either way. the reason we're talking about men specifically here, is because they were the subjects in this research. i don't doubt that some korean women also manipulate and control their boyfriends, but untill we have the statistics that support this claim, you can't just dismiss this entire data and boil it down to "korean culture".
  3. true but you can't dismiss how unsettling this is.... "About 71 percent of those who admitted to a history of dating abuse said they had control over their girlfriends’ personal activities, such as restricting them from meeting friends or keeping them isolated from others, including family members."
  4. good to see at least jaejoong is still as unapologetically gay as possible does anyone know the guy he's with? they have great chemistry together so i was wondering if they're close irl... how iconic would it be if that's his actual bf and he's just flaunting it in everyone's face
  5. if this isn't the perfect picture of gay solidarity, idk what is jimin saying no one in their team aside from tae would understand, pretty much confirms to me that they're the only gay members (which i already suspected) and probably not as "out" as most of yall would like to believe...
  6. Click here to view the Tweet lmao i know they haven't even debuted yet, but younghoon from the boyz (haknyeon's upcoming bg) kinda pings
  7. rip moonryu my first real kpop ship well to be fair, it's been dead for a long time now but hyuna's marriage really made me tear up a little because it reminded me of them
  8. i'm so shocked at the news of moon hyuna's engagement she was one of the few female idols that i felt 100% certain was gay and exclusively into women... i guess i just completely misread her and projected my own feelings onto her
  9. all these new interactions i'm crying omg seongwoo if you're reading this, i love you with all my heart!!! please give us a selfie with dani
  10. imo it's useless to try and fit ongniel into conventional gender norms and talk about "who's the girl" when in reality they're both big and masculine guys... it kinda just reinforces heteronormativity where it doesn't belong
  11. bro just say it's for the money..... it's okay we're all a shill for capitalism anyways
  12. wow ongniel is really dead in a ditch huh? this is how they're gonna treat us???? aside from me being an obnoxious ongniel stan, i really hate that ymc is lowkey trying to start ships between the eldest and youngest members like.... no one asked for this
  13. bye this is so triggering!! i just remembered all the "hyungwhore" (i just cringed typing that out) inside jokes from their early days... it used to be common knowledge that minho was gay af back then idk what happened that has everyone thinking he's some straight macho alpha male now but time to bring back this ICONIC fanvid from 2010 WAKE UP SHEEPLE! OPEN YOUR THIRD EYE AND SEE THE TRUTH! CHOI MINHO IS GAY!!!
  14. TEA!! honestly i think it's because a lot of people have this bias that an idol has to look like a pretty fem twink for them to even entertain the idea that oppa likes dick for example: minho has showed way more interest in men than say taemin, yet the consensus on here (and everywhere else) is quite the opposite
  15. i actually think minho is suspect af but i agree about onyu being the token straight friend (i used to think taemin was straight as well, but i've seen some convincing evidence in this thread that changed my mind)
  16. unpopular opinion but i think out of all 12 original exo members only sehun, tao and baekhyun likes men, with suho and chanyeol up in the air but leaning more towards straight. it kinda irks me when yall say every single member of a group pings you (unless we're talking about shinee) like...
  17. bonus: src this parc jaejung guy is so into mark lmao and mark is just the most shy and adorable angel on earth yall should really watch snowball project, it's so cute and so gay
  18. you must know A LOT of gay/bi korean men to feel this confident stereotyping them like that in my experiene bi guys are generally less confident in their attraction to men, because when you like girls as well it's easier to brush it off or repress your feelings, especially if you live in a conservative society that expects you to settle down with a woman eventually. so no, i don't really see your point about how bi men are innately more secure in their sexuality. i also don't think it makes much sense to automatically assume a guy who constantly talks about his attraction to men (a la jackson wang) is bisexual just because he's beefy. i agree there is some truth to stereotypes about flamboyancy and gay men, but my point wasn't even about personality or attitude, but rather appearance based stereotypes. using jackson as a further example, he is plenty flamboyant in the stereotypical gay way. but people are still like "nah he's too manly" because of the way he looks, dresses and the image given to him.
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