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Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
out of curiosity: what are some unrelated factors that make idols pingto you guys? stuff that you can't really post here because it's such a reach, but as soon as you see it you're like "oh yeah she's one of us" like you just get this feeling -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
yeah this wasn't so much about bts specifically, but moreso just kpop in general. we don't know how aware they are about the implications of color use and its relationship with the lgbt community, but if they really DID intend to make some kind of statement i think they'd be a little more straigtforward. i mean the teaser image i quoted is literally just a blue and purple gradient, without the pink. these colors also aren't that unique to bisexuals, since they're analogous colors aka. next to each other on the color wheel, and together create a very pretty combination. it's often used in stage lighting to create a contrast between hot and cold, and you can see it used for the same purpose in art, movies, mvs etc... like you said: the colors don't mean anything on their own so we'll have to wait for some kind of context. -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i don't wanna rain on anyone's parade, but i think most koreans probably don't know about the bi pride colors. even in western countries people generally only associate the rainbow flag with lgbt people. jhope's daydream mv was suspect since it straight up looked like the flag (same order and everything), but in instances like this where it's really just a purple and blue gradient..... sadly i don't think it means anything. i've never seen this posted here so awestruck tae is the cutest! he seems to have a thing for the tall, dark and handsome actors -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
well she actually likes country music so her having bad taste is nothing new lmao -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
jungwoo is such a player (x) -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i11evn straight up said he was bisexual in one of his songs so there's that gray, simon d, zion.t and zico are all fairly suspect as well -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
gray has had his moments lol i wouldn't be surprised if he was bi -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
idk lovelyz or wjsn but here's mine: moonbyul, yeri, wendy, hani, chaeyoung, nayeon, jiho, mimi -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
welp that explains it.... this is why i don't trust men to write our love stories -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
is citrus really that bad? a friend of mine was gushing about how great it was and that i should watch it -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
sm is a spineless coward for not including that in the mv!! -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i guess under different circumstances a lot of the people who call themselves straight would lean more towards bisexual, if only it wasn't so taboo. it's fascinating to ponder about what could've been, but personally i have no interest in "what if"s or a hypothetical future. i'm more focused on reality as it exists today. the people used in this study are straight. they identify themselves as straight, they live a straight lifestyle and they have the ability to enact straight violence in the exact same capacity as any other straight person. their pupils dilating at the sight of same gender porn doesn't negate that. but i agree with you that especially bisexual men have long been underestimated by scientists. for years now they've tried to push the idea that women are just more sexually fluid in general, while men are either gay or straight. this is an extremely harmful idea, especially to bi men who are basically told they don't exist and also to lesbians who are told they're just not openminded enough. hopefully this study will at least put that whole mindset to bed. well, as a femme lesbian i DO actually think i have more social capital than my butch counterparts. i can more easily move in and out of straight circles without facing the same level of oppression. unless i say otherwise, people always assume i'm straight. this doesn't make me "more straight" or any less part of the community, but it does make me closer in proximity to straightness as an institution. that's a pretty big difference that you seem to have misunderstood in my original post. i never meant to insinuate that our gayness is somehow measured by how much social clout we have. our own identity is obviously just as important as the lables imposed on us by others. but like i said, i have no interest in what if's. the idea that certain straight people COULD have some gay tendencies under different circumstances is just irrelevant to me. by that logic the straight girls who bullied me in high school and wrote dyke on my locker are also Queerâ„¢ for making out at a party once. it's fine that you disagree, but you have no right to call my way of thinking wrong or problematic just because it doesn't match your own. you're more individual oriented and i'm more society oriented, both ways of thinking are perfectly fine. -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
related to that daily mail article: i actually think it's extremely redundant and meaningless when scientists try to redefine sexuality by saying that "no one is 100% straight" just because self identified straight people also have a minor physical reaction to gay or lesbian porn. honestly, that means jack squat. most people will have some kind of reaction to intimacy and sensuality, regardless of what gender the subjects are. that doesn't mean they're genuinely attracted to those subjects or would like to engage in the same kind of sex. maybe it's because i view heterosexuality more as a form of social capital, and the closer you are in proximity to straightness (or even just emulating straightness through hypermasculinity or hyperfemininity) the more you benefit from it... but i just can't see how this "We Are All Queer" bullshit will help us gays in any way. it's basically the same tired shit that asexuals and kinksters have tried for over a decade, and it's done nothing but to further polarize the community. if straight people didn't exist, we wouldn't have to hide ourselves in fear of losing our jobs, apartments, legal rights, friends, family and even our lives. heterosexuality is more than just a sexuality, it's a position of power. i also think it's worth examining the way we use words like "bicurious" and "heteroflexible" when discussing idols. the only associations i get from those words are those straight people who'll use you as their experiment out of sheer curiosity and then throw you aside as soon as they realize they aint about that life. please just say bisexual if that's what you really mean. -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
Click here to view the Tweet mark doing the typical dudebro handshakes before renjun fiercly tries to kiss him is what gets me lmao -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
Click here to view the Tweet chaeyu's height difference is the cutest thing ever i want a tall gf too... -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
Yeri is Joy’s prince -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i know i've said this a million times already but jungwoo is so POWERFUL like his gay aura is literally irresistible to anyone within a 5 mile radius Click here to view the Tweet i almost never believe in these "omg x is so jealous because x interacted with someone else!!" but gotdamn jaemin legit looks so betrayed lmao -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
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Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
you're right jdgdgffh why did they do that lmfao -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i'm living for the butch looks krystal is serving us in her latest photoshoot for bellboy magazine she looks so hot im SWEATING -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
wow doyoung really IS catching feelings huh jungwoo is so powerful Click here to view the Tweet -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
god i hate that so much.... and it's almost always some upper middle class guy who's lived a relatively sheltered life and thus thinks his experience is universal. not everyone has it that easy john! some of us live in places and sosioeconimic situations where being open about our sexuality is damn near impossible. it could threaten or jobs, living situations, family ties, friendships and even our lives. celebrities are especially vulnerable, and even moreso in countries like korea. like try some empathy maybe? -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
exactly! some comments are even along the lines of "he's such a liar and a coward. we already know you're gay so just come out already" like... they really think he's staying in the closet of his own volition just because it's SO MUCH FUN to live in a lie am i right!! -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
http://netizenbuzz.blogspot.no/2018/03/kim-heechul-reveals-his-ideal-type-has.html it's honestly sad to see heechul still having to play along and act like he's head over heels in love with sohee.... the comment section on this article is just a hot ass mess. i literally saw someone write "It's 2018 and there are still people who think heechul is gay?" and "he's denied the rumors himself so why would he be gay?" like BITCH HOW DUMB AND BLIND AND DEAF CAN YOU POSSIBLY BE i had to exit the page because it's literally so fucking infuriating how oblivious straight people are about the glass closet phenomenon... like do yall not know what happened to hong seok cheon? -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
this probably means nothing but it sure is cute Click here to view the Tweet