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  1. Why are NCT fans on Twitter so obsessed with putting the members into the top and bottom category and using that as some sort of character/joke thing? I'm sick of gay culture being appropriated by these shut in girls that have probably never took a dick anally ever.

     

    tl:dr - girls u will never understand the power dynamic and narrative between two men with one man allowing the other to dominate him. so stop trying and get a job.

     

    i think this is the case in most bg fandoms, but it's true that it's extra prevalent among nct fans. a lot of them just have no sense of respect for the boys whatsoever. they have this creepy sense of entitlement, where they think openly talking about the boys theorethical sex life, kinks and bodies is completely ok. it's as if they forget that nct has a lot of members who are fluent/near fluent in english, and how johnny even said that he reads everything the fans write.

     

    at times it kinda reminds me of armys ca. 2014. i remember being really uncomfortable back then with the way a lot of fans would talk about them, especially maknae line. some of the fandom jokes were literally just dehumanizing and cruel, for example jimin being framed as this thirsty, slutty power bottom, and let me not even get started on the jungkook jailbait comments. 0u0plz.png

     

    i feel especially bad for jungwoo who just debuted and is already the butt of so many lowkey homophobic jokes...  

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  2. yes and no. It's kind of been reclaimed now so it's not as much of a slur as it once was (however random straight asses can def not use it and perhaps using it in a headline is inherently problematic) and the reclaiming use of it is meant to be inclusive to to all women who are into women but don't necessarily ID as gay/lesbian. THAT BEING SAID. Agreed that lesbian is seen as dirty and tbh women have this weird societal pressure to not be a whole raging lesbian because then your entire life does not include men!! I love some real LESBIAN ASS SHIT (men please leave me alone, like don't even talk to me) but also love all the other ladies who are into ladies so having some type of general term is nice in some contexts

     

    if someone wants to use that word about themselves, then i'm by no means stopping them, but i don't think anyone has the right to impose it on someone else, which is exactly what's happening in all those articles. journalists (a lot of whom are probably straight lbr) who don't know her on a personal level, are calling her by a word that has a long history of violence and prejudice. as far as i know, hayley has only ever referred to herself as gay and lesbian, never queer. it's disrespectful to then force that word onto her.

     

    i've come to accept queer as an umbrella term in academics (though i still cringe when i hear it in real life), but if that was me and everyone kept calling me a "queer" after i'd specifically referred to myself as a lesbian, i'd be furious.

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  3. Lets be honest with ourselves. Theres a reason the lesbian thread is full of queer girls and the occasional bi/gay man and the reason this thread is full of queer girls and a few bi/gay men. Im.not saying all of you fetishize but some of yall need to revaluate why you post here and why so often'

     

    girl then how come i've literally NEVER seen you post in the lesbian thread??? yet somehow i see you quite frequently in here?? 

     

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  4. Lmao, the word Lesbian sounds so much better

     

     

    Just imagine the headline 

     

    The Sexy Lesbian Songstress Haley Kiyoko...

     

    The Lesbian Leader We've All Been Looking for Haley Kiyoko...

     

    Lesbian Siren Haley Kiyoko ...

     

     

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    exactly! specificity really doesn't hurt and it sounds so much better in this situation! also ctfu @ "lesbian siren" cause that's always been my dream aesthetic hurrplz.png

     

    i wonder if it's partially because "queer" and "gay" are used as adjectives, whereas "lesbian" is almost always used as a noun for some reason??? either way it's fucking annoying

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  5. a little off topic but uhhh

     

     

     

    am i the only one who's sick and tired of seeing the word "queer" everywhere??? like this needs to stop:

     

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    SHE IS A LESBIAN!!! JUST FUCKING SAY LESBIAN!!!!

     

    the fact that these cowardly journalists would rather use a homophobic slur to refer to her rather than her actual identity.... they really think lesbian is a dirty word that's solely reserved for pornhub huh 0u0plz.png

     

     

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  6. the picture doesn't negate the possibility of him being bi, but (combined with the confirmed reports of him having consistently dated girls) it makes it highly unlikely. it doesn't mean he CANNOT like boys but it means it is likely he DOES not like boys.

     

    i'm not trying to change your mind or anything, since i actually agree about him being straight, but what you're saying is just wrong.

     

    many bisexual people, and especially in conserative countries, will oftentimes only date the opposite gender and repress their feelings of same-gender attraction, because it's not socially acceptable. lucas was really young in all those predebut pics and reports. most lgbt people (and especially bi people since it's a lot easier to deny your own emotions when you're still "half straight") don't have all their feelings sorted out when they're 15 years old. hell, a lot of people only first realize it when they're well into adulthood, and married with kids.

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  7. my first response to the "bi legend" post said "r u kidding me" with a photo of lucas being kissed by girls

     

    how is that different from someone asserting key is straight, and a post responding to that saying "r u kidding me" with a gif of key acting flamboyantly.

     

    if it was the second you'd have given it a thousand upvotes by now.

     

    you know bisexuality means someone is attracted to both men and women right? 0u0plz.png  of course you're entitled to expressing your diagreement, but how tf does that picture negate the possibility of him being bi??? yes, he likes girls. we all know that. that doesn't mean he CANNOT like boys as well (though i personally doubt it).

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  8. How does my opinion about him being straight affect you? In no way, so where's the issue for you?

     

    no one here cares if you think lucas is straight. in fact i, and most others, agree with you that he probably is straight. it's HOW you're going about this by attacking anyone who thinks differently and making problems out of thin air that gets on people's nerves.

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  9. talented. brilliant. incredible. amazing. showstopping. spectacular. never the same. totally unique. completely not ever been done before.

     

     

    everyone laughing and hugging him afterwards makes me really happy! rlytearpls.png  it takes a lot of guts for someone who's had so many ugly rumors about him and has been called pretty much every homophobic slur known to man, to speak so openly about it and just OWN it. i can't wait to watch the whole episode once it's subbed.

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  10. personally, i tend to assume most straight people are homophobic to some degree... maybe not in any intentionally malicious or hateful way, but they still do a lot of microaggressions that make everyday life so much more tedious. 

     

    sure, only a small percentage of straight people actually enact real physical violence against us, but what about all the people who just do nothing? those who think that as long as it doesn't affect them, it's none of their business. 

     

    take holland's situation for example - there's no way the other students were oblivious to the bullying. lets say around a dozen kids ACTIVELY bullied him, and a couple of them are now promoting, then how many more do you think just turned a blind eye?

     

    in my opinion passive indifference is just as bad as active malice, and a bystander is just as guilty as the perpetrator.

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  11.  

    I know it won't happen but I really want those idols to be exposed, especially since I stan a lot of groups so it's highly likely some of those idols could have been the ones that bullied Holland. I still get angry when I think about how some people tied a rope around him and dragged him around on the floor (even though I think this happened at his high school). I was talking to my other friend about this and she said lots of Korean netizens already hate Holland so it would be even worse for him if he were to ever release the names.

     

    Also this Jo Kwon discussion reminds me of when I got into an argument with someone in the Youtube comment section because they refused to accept that he was gay asfhfjsl

    These are the receipts there are for him:

    • Possible feelings for J-Hope
    • Possible relationship with Park Bogum – they went on holiday together (see video of the two of them)
    • Possible feelings for Kim Minjae
    • Friends with Baekhyun, who is speculated to be bi
    • “Stigma†lyrics could be interpreted as showing the struggles of being gay. Namjoon also would not talk about the meaning of this song despite speaking about the others, as he said it is personal to Taehyung
    • Was comfortable/happy dancing in heels
    • When Jimin first came into the dorm, he suggested that they sleep in their underwear with Jungkook. They were also “tangled upâ€
    • He danced while rubbing his body on Jin despite them barely knowing each other
    • Said that he likes the smell of J-Hope’s bed and sleeps in it a lot
    • Made a gay drama with Jimin in a hotel
    • Wrote a letter to Jimin and said “thank you for accepting me who I amâ€
    • Said “when I was in elementary school I participated in a drag competition and I passed the qualification so it became a good memoryâ€
    • Interesting imagery in the BST MV with Jin’s character. Also interesting MAMA 2016 performance
    • Kept on calling Hyungsik “handsome†in a Hwarang interview
    • Comfortable with girls
    • Was acting flirty with Ansel Elgort, who then followed a few Taehyung accounts afterwards
    • Flirty with Hwarang costars: “[Taehyung] has a lot of aegyo and toys with our heartsâ€
    • Fanboy: Taehyung! Let’s get married! Taehyung: Okay! Let’s really do it!
    • Fanboy: BTS I love you! Taehyung: I love you too!
    • Likes LGBT artists (along with the rest of the group)
    • His kakaotalk picture was a picture of Hari Nef, a transgender model OR a picture of a male Gucci model (sorry, I have conflicting sources)
    • At a fansign, he said he really likes Alessandro Michele (who is gay) and Ryan McGinley (who is gay)
    • Friends with Moonbok, who is speculated by some to be LGBT
    • Could have fallen out with his family because he came out to them – there was a period of time where he stopped mentioning them, even though he mentioned them a lot previously. This could also provide an inspiration for the “Stigma†lyrics
    • Sang a Sam Smith song (who is gay)
    • When asked who he wanted to be on Halloween, he said he wanted to be the main character from “Cardcaptor Sakuraâ€(the main character is female) (no source)
    • Said “I want to be Batman’s girlfriendâ€
    • Said “I recommend the Bridget Jones Diary series. Colin Firth…â€
    • Possibly references Moonlight, a gay movie, in “4 O’Clockâ€
    • Friends with Sungjae from BTOB, who is speculated to like men
    • Enjoyed dancing with some shirtless male dancers
    • Is friends with and admires Ante Badzim (who is gay)
    • Dressed up as Syaoran for Halloween (who is bisexual)
    • Winked at a fanboy who screamed out his name
     
    I don't think he really pings in terms of mannerisms (at least for me), and in terms of receipts I think Namjoon, Yoongi, and even Jungkook have more but he still pings for me, especially after Stigma.

     

     

    to me the most suspicious thing about that little love trip taehyung and bogum went on last year is the fact that literally all the other members chose to spend their vacation with their families. but not tae. i think that says a lot, both about his relationship to bogum and to his parents.

     

    if stigma aint about him being gay, i literally have no other possible explanation... i mean why else would he be the only member to not elaborate on the meaning of his solo song?? and namjoon saying something about it having a deep and personal meaning to tae 

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  12. there are so many cute nctvelvet moments, i can't believe this thread hasn't been made before now smh amgplz.png

     

    you should add this legendary stage to the op!! mark really popped off and seulgi looks fine as hell 💛💚💙💜 

     

     

    tbt when wendy almost introduced herself as part of nct

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  13. i'm not sure what topic you're talking about but I wasn not referring to that 

    ahh I see, fair enough

    well they can't be both. That's what I meant

     

    I'll take my leave now..........

     

    sorry i thought you were referring to the discussion that was had a while back in march. SadDoctor was the first i've seen to bring it up and it was then discussed a little further.

     

    I take notice when like, a lot of idols talk about dating bans as a burden, but there's other girls who really don't seem like they mind a bit, and that always kinda pings me.

     

    Not like it necessarily means anything, cuz plenty of straight girls are career-minded, or just not interested in romance, or simply fine with dating in secret.  Buuut I still notice it.

     

    i mean it's pretty self-evident why gay idols wouldn't feel the dating ban as much of a restriction as straight idols:

    1. they wouldn't be able to have a public relationship even if there was no dating ban, so they're not exactly losing out on anything
    2. they can literally just hide in plain sight without raising suspicion, since heteronormativity makes the general public turn a blind eye to any same gender relationship

    you can be gay and asexual, or gay and aromantic, but not both at the same time, since then there's no attraction.

     

    also since we're on the topic, i feel the need to point out that an overwhelming amount of lesbians identify as either aromantic or asexual because of internalized homophobia. i used to think i was ace when i was 15, but i was actually just repressing my real emotions due to shame and self hatred.

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  14. I see people bringing up that idols not dating or not being seemingly interested as a reason someone would ping. It is, but do keep in mind aromanticism and asexuality exist

     

    well, the topic actually came up after i asked "what UNRELATED factors do you consider a hint that an idol may be gay?" so it was never intended as a definitive, undisputable proof of anything, moreso just a clue. obviously you have to look at these clues as part of a bigger picture, kind of like a puzzle.

     

    lesbians can also be aromantic or asexual though, so i don't really see your point.

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  15. The gag is Jaemin has only kissed Jeno on cam once (excluding the kissy face he did at him in the bg of a vlive) but at a fansign they both said it happens often (off cam).

     

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    Interesting. I think they both like eachother ("Stop liking me" "You liked me first") but Jeno doesn't want to act on it maybe because of internalized homophobia/his religious family. And Jaemin definitely isn't oblivious lol that smirk when he made Jeno flustered while staring at his lips said it all.

     

    Something I noticed: Jaemin's mannerisms before this comeback did really really ping, but since this cb he actually comes across (and I don't like this word lol but it might explain kfans' viewpoint) as pretty "masc" (by korean standards). Like, he's got the deep voice, his baddass rap in Go, the confidence, the extreme fanservice (just like Haechan, which kfans coincidentally also think is straight), if all someone knew of Jaemin was just from this era I could totally understand seeing him as straight, but when I remember how much he used to ping.... nah lol. I wonder if it was a conscious decision or he just grew up and became more secure and calm.

     

    Isn't Ten's dorm near/with the Dreamies? Hopefully he takes the baby gays under his wing so they follow in his confident gay footsteps. hoplz.png

     

    He seems to have already done that tho  

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    "But Ten just laughed". This is Ten trying to set the baby gays up as an emoji: za5g21G.png  

     

     

     

    jaemin has definitely toned down on the campiness a lot since debut, but i don't think kfans opinions on whether he's straight or not has anything to do with this. i'm pretty sure they just see it as him "growing up". otherwise it doesn't really make sense for them to think jeno is gay since he's the definition of masc, both in appearance and personality. in fact lots of twitter stans were furious because kfans' interpretation was so different from their own "jaemin is a confident gay while jeno is either a repressed closet case or the straightest guy on planet earth" headcanons.

     

    for the record i think both of them are suspect as hell, and that there's probably a mutual attraction between them, but it's nice to get a different perspective on these things. 

     

    i'd love to see this discussion between other fandoms as well (k-armys please come thru!!) chuplz.png

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  16. So, who is perceived as sus? Ten, Taeyong, Jaehyun, Jungwoo as already mentioned or there are more? I wonder if they heard of any gay rumours

     

    while jaemin isn't seen as suspect, many of them think jeno is. it's funny because people here have said they think jaemin has an unrequited crush on jeno, but a lot kfans apparently think it's the other way around and that's why jeno gets so nervous at his flirtin, while jaemin is just oblivious. 

     

    a lot of kfans also think doyoung is gay, which surprised me since i've never really seen anything remotely suspicious from him other than his reactions to jungwoo. maybe that's exactly what they find sus tho... the absence of any tangible proof.

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  17. The gay so strong it ended homophobia. Skinny legends only. ohpressor.png

     

     

    i can't believe THIS is what made korean and int. nctzens come together... powerful indeed hoplz.png

     

    i always find kfans opinions on this topic very interesting, since there's obviously lots of nuances that are lost in translation and/or that we might not be able to pick up on because of culture differences, so i compiled a few tweets. under a spoiler because this is LONG.

     

     

     

    this is a modified version of the original alignment chart that went viral (they just drew arrows to indicate where they'd move certain members) and LMAOOO they really pushed haechan and mark all the way to the left huh.... at least they think jaehyun is sus too.

     

    whoop the tea has been served ðŸ‘€  this thread is already in agreement of him being straight though, it's just twitter stans that need to Wake Up

     

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    rip they deleted.. but this seems to be the overwhelming response to ten our unapologetically gay king hoplz.png

     

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    now this is interesting, because it made me realize how i might be looking at jaemin through a western lense and reading too much into skinship and flirty behavior. (these are all queer fans btw so please don't try and come for them just because they have a different opinion!! they're already risking being subjected to cyberbullying just by voicing their opinions)

     

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    "prisoner of korean style denial" LMAO i might have to reevaluate my stance on doyoung

     

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