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Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i think this is the case in most bg fandoms, but it's true that it's extra prevalent among nct fans. a lot of them just have no sense of respect for the boys whatsoever. they have this creepy sense of entitlement, where they think openly talking about the boys theorethical sex life, kinks and bodies is completely ok. it's as if they forget that nct has a lot of members who are fluent/near fluent in english, and how johnny even said that he reads everything the fans write. at times it kinda reminds me of armys ca. 2014. i remember being really uncomfortable back then with the way a lot of fans would talk about them, especially maknae line. some of the fandom jokes were literally just dehumanizing and cruel, for example jimin being framed as this thirsty, slutty power bottom, and let me not even get started on the jungkook jailbait comments. i feel especially bad for jungwoo who just debuted and is already the butt of so many lowkey homophobic jokes... -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
if someone wants to use that word about themselves, then i'm by no means stopping them, but i don't think anyone has the right to impose it on someone else, which is exactly what's happening in all those articles. journalists (a lot of whom are probably straight lbr) who don't know her on a personal level, are calling her by a word that has a long history of violence and prejudice. as far as i know, hayley has only ever referred to herself as gay and lesbian, never queer. it's disrespectful to then force that word onto her. i've come to accept queer as an umbrella term in academics (though i still cringe when i hear it in real life), but if that was me and everyone kept calling me a "queer" after i'd specifically referred to myself as a lesbian, i'd be furious. -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
girl then how come i've literally NEVER seen you post in the lesbian thread??? yet somehow i see you quite frequently in here?? -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
exactly! specificity really doesn't hurt and it sounds so much better in this situation! also ctfu @ "lesbian siren" cause that's always been my dream aesthetic i wonder if it's partially because "queer" and "gay" are used as adjectives, whereas "lesbian" is almost always used as a noun for some reason??? either way it's fucking annoying -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
a little off topic but uhhh -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i'm not trying to change your mind or anything, since i actually agree about him being straight, but what you're saying is just wrong. many bisexual people, and especially in conserative countries, will oftentimes only date the opposite gender and repress their feelings of same-gender attraction, because it's not socially acceptable. lucas was really young in all those predebut pics and reports. most lgbt people (and especially bi people since it's a lot easier to deny your own emotions when you're still "half straight") don't have all their feelings sorted out when they're 15 years old. hell, a lot of people only first realize it when they're well into adulthood, and married with kids. -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
you know bisexuality means someone is attracted to both men and women right? of course you're entitled to expressing your diagreement, but how tf does that picture negate the possibility of him being bi??? yes, he likes girls. we all know that. that doesn't mean he CANNOT like boys as well (though i personally doubt it). -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
no one here cares if you think lucas is straight. in fact i, and most others, agree with you that he probably is straight. it's HOW you're going about this by attacking anyone who thinks differently and making problems out of thin air that gets on people's nerves. -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
everyone laughing and hugging him afterwards makes me really happy! it takes a lot of guts for someone who's had so many ugly rumors about him and has been called pretty much every homophobic slur known to man, to speak so openly about it and just OWN it. i can't wait to watch the whole episode once it's subbed. -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
so many fanaccounts are saying ten and jeno were inseparable during the whole dubai concert.... what an unexpected yet powerful duo -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
personally, i tend to assume most straight people are homophobic to some degree... maybe not in any intentionally malicious or hateful way, but they still do a lot of microaggressions that make everyday life so much more tedious. sure, only a small percentage of straight people actually enact real physical violence against us, but what about all the people who just do nothing? those who think that as long as it doesn't affect them, it's none of their business. take holland's situation for example - there's no way the other students were oblivious to the bullying. lets say around a dozen kids ACTIVELY bullied him, and a couple of them are now promoting, then how many more do you think just turned a blind eye? in my opinion passive indifference is just as bad as active malice, and a bystander is just as guilty as the perpetrator. -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i know this is 100% pure fanservice but LMFAO the way sunwoo just nods dead ass serious reminds me of the "yeah we gay keep scrolling" meme Click here to view the Tweet Click here to view the Tweet -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
hank you both so much!!! hsddgfd the way kyungri reaches back to grab erin's hips closer in a few of them.... -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
does anyone have a compilation video of this move??? i think it's from one of 9muses older songs.... asking for a friend Click here to view the Tweet -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
to me the most suspicious thing about that little love trip taehyung and bogum went on last year is the fact that literally all the other members chose to spend their vacation with their families. but not tae. i think that says a lot, both about his relationship to bogum and to his parents. if stigma aint about him being gay, i literally have no other possible explanation... i mean why else would he be the only member to not elaborate on the meaning of his solo song?? and namjoon saying something about it having a deep and personal meaning to tae -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
what's the opposite of masc4masc? twink4twink??? anyways that's what this is Click here to view the Tweet Click here to view the Tweet -
THE OFFICIAL NCTVELVET THREAD NCT x Red Velvet
where my hood unnies at replied to peachy.'s topic in Couples/OTPs
there are so many cute nctvelvet moments, i can't believe this thread hasn't been made before now smh you should add this legendary stage to the op!! mark really popped off and seulgi looks fine as hell 💛💚💙💜 tbt when wendy almost introduced herself as part of nct- 46 replies
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Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
sorry i thought you were referring to the discussion that was had a while back in march. SadDoctor was the first i've seen to bring it up and it was then discussed a little further. i mean it's pretty self-evident why gay idols wouldn't feel the dating ban as much of a restriction as straight idols: they wouldn't be able to have a public relationship even if there was no dating ban, so they're not exactly losing out on anything they can literally just hide in plain sight without raising suspicion, since heteronormativity makes the general public turn a blind eye to any same gender relationship you can be gay and asexual, or gay and aromantic, but not both at the same time, since then there's no attraction. also since we're on the topic, i feel the need to point out that an overwhelming amount of lesbians identify as either aromantic or asexual because of internalized homophobia. i used to think i was ace when i was 15, but i was actually just repressing my real emotions due to shame and self hatred. -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
well, the topic actually came up after i asked "what UNRELATED factors do you consider a hint that an idol may be gay?" so it was never intended as a definitive, undisputable proof of anything, moreso just a clue. obviously you have to look at these clues as part of a bigger picture, kind of like a puzzle. lesbians can also be aromantic or asexual though, so i don't really see your point. -
Who do you think is a lesbian in kpop?
where my hood unnies at replied to Pyo Hyemi's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i know someone already posted this but it's even funnier in gif format hsdhsfdgdh she really said "what's men???? in this house we only stan pretty girls" yerin loves pretty girls 🌺🌸 -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
jaemin has definitely toned down on the campiness a lot since debut, but i don't think kfans opinions on whether he's straight or not has anything to do with this. i'm pretty sure they just see it as him "growing up". otherwise it doesn't really make sense for them to think jeno is gay since he's the definition of masc, both in appearance and personality. in fact lots of twitter stans were furious because kfans' interpretation was so different from their own "jaemin is a confident gay while jeno is either a repressed closet case or the straightest guy on planet earth" headcanons. for the record i think both of them are suspect as hell, and that there's probably a mutual attraction between them, but it's nice to get a different perspective on these things. i'd love to see this discussion between other fandoms as well (k-armys please come thru!!) -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i know this organization has been posted before, but if you have a little extra to spare, this would be a really meaningful birthday present in jonghyun's memory. it's definitely something he would've wanted. Click here to view the Tweet -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i hope this isn't too shippy but uhhhhh,.. taeyong sis.....that last gif.. wyd (x) -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
while jaemin isn't seen as suspect, many of them think jeno is. it's funny because people here have said they think jaemin has an unrequited crush on jeno, but a lot kfans apparently think it's the other way around and that's why jeno gets so nervous at his flirtin, while jaemin is just oblivious. a lot of kfans also think doyoung is gay, which surprised me since i've never really seen anything remotely suspicious from him other than his reactions to jungwoo. maybe that's exactly what they find sus tho... the absence of any tangible proof. -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
where my hood unnies at replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i can't believe THIS is what made korean and int. nctzens come together... powerful indeed i always find kfans opinions on this topic very interesting, since there's obviously lots of nuances that are lost in translation and/or that we might not be able to pick up on because of culture differences, so i compiled a few tweets. under a spoiler because this is LONG.