Bel.

I have been here since such a long time, it practically defined my early 20s. I wish that, in some way, we could have this place memorialized forever as there is such a huge amount of content that will just simply be lost like it never existed.. It pain me to think of it. Maybe It's just from my nostalgic nature, but it has been taken a toll on me since I heard the new.

I didn't know quite how to put my feelings in words, but I'm very grateful for my time here. I actually learned so many skills that, like Nelkoya, use in professional setting as well. I joined this site when I was in a really dark place and it basically held my head over the water, thanks to the friends I made here, you guys are wonderful people. Thanks to all the staff who have been there giving their free time for nothing in return just cause they were passionate enough to see this place thrive, you guys are gems.  

It's been real. 

On 9/14/2023 at 2:09 PM, angy said:

Tea, Margoddess delivered. Barbenheimer did NOT disappoint

Interesting, i don't remember saying that but i'm glad it works. That does read like something I would say, though, i agree with myself. Best way to assert dominance is to make other people more anxious than you rsrsrsrs it's like when you rewind a sex scene you're watching with your parents (no i don't do this but i think the effect is similar) 

Summer was... meh

But Fall will be 10x better, i'm going on vacation with my oldest sis on my birthday week u see 

What about ur summer and plans for fall?  

Did u go camping to a remote location with no internet again? 

It was like a year ago or something  I know I have been lagging behind
 

how long your vacation? have fun 

Yeah I did I wasn't online for a few weeks maybe months at this point and I kinda like it that way? Idk I might just cut being online a whole lot in general. Not that I dislike it here or anything, but sometimes you got to do things that make you a lot happier in the long run. I'll be having new projects for this fall, currently going to finally visit my brother (the way I went to see him once since he got his house like 8years ago help).

Also I started being a bento making girl for some reason I just really enjoy cooking these days and make aesthetic stuff ( its the gfx passion) or just try to make more deserts cause I suck at it but I love making cute creations. Maybe I should start a food insta 

Mushroom season this year was so disappointing like where tf did my porcini go its the 20th and they are nowhere to be found?? I switched to berries hunting this year ig

I still am a sunwoo stan, some things never change tho 

Very late but Barbie was good!!!

Also @angy I'm finally using your trick you told me about staring at strangers and keeping eye contact to fix my painful social anxiety it's... interesting what happened to me that way but it does work. 

Hope everyone here had a good summer! What are your plans this fall?

also why tf is my dkb badge not updated yet

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it lagged 

Isnt it just sitting tho? That's like 95% of the way I sit

On 7/19/2023 at 4:02 AM, johnnyrose said:

hola 

 

how u doing rosita

hi 

To me this is such a normal concept, because that's how it always works where I'm from? Like people just ''date'' and at some point move in together. Most of the time they don't even marry until way later in life like when they are 30-40+ just because they want to. Hell most people don't even marry period. 

I know a guy that proposed to a woman 1 month after meeting her and it was the worst shit show of a divorce I have ever seen. Getting to know the person and how they function by day to day is just a very important part of knowing how compatible you can be in the long run. 

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him

Not only think but also I did it when I turned 17

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I don't have a lot of songs liked actually, there is a lot more that I listen that aren't there.. for some reason I just tend to be difficult with my likes.

I AM RICH

yes time to go to the theater for the first time in ages 

sesame oil

Being the weakest one

Your favorite song atm?

just do it and pull it off regardless 

Something deeply nostalgic to you?

2 and 6 (without the handle)

1 minute ago, Moodz said:

we stan 

whatcha doin dis summer sis 

My summer is a lot more boring than yours regardless 

Have a lot of plans to get around the country, visiting ppl in the capital, going to some amusement (and water!!) parks with old friends 

getting lost in the wild for a good 3 weeks at least also... increasing each years
watch me in 10years with no internet, no electricity in my witchy cottage in the middle of the wood foraging what I find to sustain myself
well that's right you wouldn't be able

Anywayyyy I might have actual plans this summer  

Slowly getting back my life after so many years of pretending I'm in a cryostasis just suspended from time and space yk, the usual 

7 hours ago, lovesound said:

year is 2023 water is wet who else isnt poor

trash 95% sounds fine to me okurr, how many pieces are designers

if u trash 95%, can u or can u not survive wearing/rotating the 5% left

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That's already what I do basically rotate what fits me which leave me with an okay amount of shirt\tops but no bottoms unless I start washing clothes every 2 days which I won't do cause saving water!!!
 

6 hours ago, Cheese_it said:

Weew closet clean out time. Can you go thrifting for cheap clothes that will fit you? Then wait till your weight is consistent before you start shopping for more clothes? I don't have much experience because when I lose weight, I tend to gain it back haha

I'm also the same. I tend to gain and lose the same weight over and over again but this time I didn't (mostly cause I changed a lot of things for good and just overall am an happier and more diligent person) so I get what you mean but also it is drastically different from before, I made my whole wardrobe absolutely unusable. I already thrift as most as I can, but I fear this is what I'll have to do  again...

This sounds like such an non-issue but I rlly don't have budget for that... sigh 
and I like fashion so much too like there is no way I'm gonna be happy just wearing whatever it has to fit my identity for sure

I have a problem
Well my problem is kinda a solution but it created a problem 
 

I fear I have lost too much weight but because of that none of my skirts\shorts\pants fit me anymore
I have to wear my damn belts everyday and a lot of the stuff even with belts just won't fit right
Beside that one pair of pants I literally just bought this month , its over for all of them literally unusable

Now the solution would just be ''well just buy new stuff'' WELL IM POOR
so I was hoping if anyone went to something similar.. what's a solution u did cause this is getting ridiculous? I would have to trash 95% of my wardrobe.. that sounds extreme.

I miss the nicest user of all time @lusci  

4 hours ago, Moodz said:

@Bel. ...sometimes I can still hear her voice