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  1. Very interesting comments above 💭 

    18 hours ago, Cheese_it said:

    lmaoo you like your solo time?

    Yes indeed, we're opposites rsrs. I'm more similar to your bf tbh, so I can kinda get why you 2 had an argument 🏄🏼‍♀️ Mr. Cheese just has different social battery

    I see you've got good advice wew

    15 hours ago, Bel. said:

    Woah somehow I can't imagine you in any scenario going to a club that is fascinating indeed
    less surprised about the Karina part tho, you somehow remind me of each others, in a distant way
     

    ik u didn't ask for MY opinion but I felt compelled to say it anyway 😇

    But what Angy said is the best course of action. Communicate with each others on the matter, we don't know the extend of your relationship nor dynamic so it is pretty hard to judge anything based on our narrowed view.

    However, I have been like you in the past. When I clicked with someone I would constantly bombard them with messages and just overall attention and noticed the lack of response was mostly cause I came off as too intense, too soon. It does feel pretty shitty cause you think it's a problem with you and maybe they do not like you and then you start to be insecure about it (it is not). But also, when you put yourself in the shoes of the other person, you then realize it might be tiring to constantly have to answer someone when you have other things going on in your life, especially if someone you are not that familiar with yet.

    Not everyone has the same energy level and needs. Some people prefer a lot of peace of mind, or just doing their own solo stuff (introverted individual right there). Some like to be constantly engaged or stimulated so they fulfil their emotional need. You need to look internally to see how much you need the attention but also, why exactly you need that attention? Is it because you fear that if they stop responding they will suddenly forget about you? Is it because they are the only one you want to pass time with? Start by reflecting on it first.

    By knowing the root of the issue, you can understand more about yourself and be more mindful of it in the future. For instance, after I realized I was ''overly aggressive'' at first and would push people away instead of drawing them closer like I wanted, I started to take it more relaxed, with the kind of mindset that could be explained as ''What happen will happen''. If we're having a conversation: great! If they don't answer meI won't bother them and do something else. If there is a constant lack of interaction\interest: leave them alone. You don't need to be a people pleaser and be everybody's friend! Not everyone is a match to you. When I talk to someone, I match their energy. If I don't feel like answering, I simply won't (and stop feeling guilty about it like its not that serious). You tend to form friendships that are more genuine this way even if it has to grow overtime rather than overnight. Most importantly, I started to meet this ''emotional need'' from myself instead of relying on others.

    I know this is kind of vague and probably not that helpful considering you are probably asking for advices for a romantic relationship, but I think this can also apply to most relationship you will have in your life.

    To continue on Angy's wise wisdominous wisdom 🧙‍♀️, You need to ask the other person exactly what's their level of communication\affection that they need. They might not have the same love language as you as well, so you should be mindful to love them in the way they want to be loved\and vice-versa. 

    I've been to clubs before though ahsjbsa

    It's funny because they're a mix of things I dislike: alcohol, loud funk music, bad remixes, smoking, sticky floors, flashing lights, too many people... you have a point because I'd never lay a foot in a club if not for my friends

    But me reminding you of Karina in a distant way..  now THAT's a compliment, idgi but I take it rsrsrs

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  2. 19 minutes ago, Cheese_it said:

    Y-y-yes.. 

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    Had an argument with my boyfriend regarding this topic. Send advice thanks angy

    An argument hmmm

    Idk m8 i'm the type of person that likes at least 20cm distance rsrs i wish I could help but i don't think I'm the most appropriate person to get advice regarding this issue rsrs 🏃🏼‍♀️ hope things will get better with your bf, I think listening to him and get advice directly from him might be the best since it's a couple problem 

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  3. 10 hours ago, eunheart said:

    uhh kinda but I'm lost in the midst of this transition ottoke 🫥

    the only damn thing you need to do is to loop that whole damn album :dave: 

    Well... as long as they pay you enough for your role everything will be fine, you'll get used to it yup 👯‍♂️

    2 hours ago, Cheese_it said:

    this is my life

    Rip Do Not Want GIF by nog

    Is cheese a clingy queen

  4. 3 hours ago, Bel. said:

    need to elaborate on it sistren im hooked 

    Idek on what to elaborate because I can barely remember what the dreams were about... I'm not like you miss bellatrix, I don't have post dream perfect memory rsrs 🏄🏼‍♀️ 

    But from what I remember, the first one I was hanging out somewhere at night with some random people that I can't remember. A club perhaps? And Karina was there, just chilling looking fab and smiling at something. I was like "wtf? What is she doing here?". So I just spent the rest of the dream staring at her because she was too pretty and had a majestic aura. The impression was strong. I woke up and decided that she was a legend

    In the 2nd dream, I was having dinner with some random people (again, idk who) at a restaurant. One of them was Karina. I remember we were leaving and I saw her standing up to leave, saying something to two of the randoms (not sure what but I thought she was really cool when she said that) 💭

    Both dreams were quite long but once I woke up, after like 10 seconds I forgot everything BUT Karina

    Fascinating rsrsrs

  5. On 5/6/2023 at 9:09 PM, eunheart said:

    why does this sounds interesting to me hmm hmm

    i was blown away with my job too. they said to monitor and support but i ended up planning and organising shit damn we love something out of job scope

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    CHAEWON OBVIOUSLY

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    that is some now thing to learn heol

    King of being assigned to more responsible tasks tbh 🏄🏼‍♀️

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