Holstello

It must be tiring. Good luck!

Good luck!

I will stick to the kaisoo thread probably since there I won't offence anyone.

Thanks for your advice, I messed up badly without meaning to I guess. (But they are still aggressive and could've handled things better). Even though I don't see how I was insensitive and not considerate to them, I think it's a lesson for the future. I appreciate your advice and your kindness. I think I can ask your advices in the future if it's won't annoy you ofc. ^^

I am so so so sorry you have to deal with me whining (tho it's hurt to see staning mates attacking you for a dump reason) I am sorry that you had to talk to me. Thanks for listening to me, I promise to not annoy you again.

Now many kyungsoo stans hate me because I said "bff?", what a joke :'(

I didn't even say they are not friends and everyone jumped on attacking me and getting upvoted for that. I loved going there but they ruined it.

I am scared that I can't be wise, I really want to learn how to be wise, I guess one of the wise attitude is to avoid going to some places

including the main threads.

I don't think I will join there any time soon. It's full of sensitive, toxic and ignorant stans. I didn't mean to make a mess, but they are so dramatic.

Say anything offensive. Fanservice proofs nothing. Unti kyungsoo say that chan is his bff then I will acknowledge it. Still it doesn't excuse their sensitivity and aggressiveness. You are right tho. I should probably learn how to ask questions without getting their poor hearts triggered. I should hold back more, and avoid arguments with them as much as possible.

I was not arguing over a ship. I actually wanted to know if ks ever said that and he didn't. The "they act so" doesn't really mean that they are bff. I don't see why they will not mention "we are bff" if they really was, just like TK. And let's not start with how chan was going to mention it everywhere. But this didn't happened. They are good friends and that is that. I thought I was in the main thread where people should be more chill, and I actually didn...

Apparently questioning chansoo "bff-ness" is against the law of the thread

I didn't mention kaisoo or kai at all, but ofc chansoo biasd users (who happened to be most of the thread) got botherd because how dare I a user with a kaisoo badge saying something about their holy chansoo that is not worshiping. Then whoppp I got cursed. And then being dramatic about how it is a "shipping war" *because I questioned the 'bff' part*. Oh man it's a mess

I posted 12 posts that got people negging me to hell because I basically said "bff? Did kyungsoo said that chan is his bff in an interview or something? Because I don't remember, please tell me I don't want to be a flop stan". But apparently I did a crime by daring to say that.

No you didn't. I was pissed off and kind of wanted to tell someone. Sorry really

They are biased, and their hypocrisy is really strong. They don't hate on kadi /kadi shippers for tagging x or y only, if you backtracked the thread, the kadi hate has been there wayyyyyy before kai's dating news, the tagging thing happened after the dating news (and most of the shippers now learned to not tag other idols), so it's such a very weak excuse. But I think you are right!, shipping kadi won't be fun without a balance of hate and love.

Don't worry, I try my best to be kind to them :D. But seriously, most of the ships have shippers like that, like 'for example' baek+yeol, yunjae etc (I love them, it's just an example), yet those people don't mind at all to talk about them there, it's only a problem when it's kadi, but I noticed most of these people who get bothered and salty are kai stans, krystal stans, and kyungsoo stans, so I think the "bad shippers" are not the (only) reason.