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  1. This is what confuses me. Urgh I don't know where to channel my anger seeing how they look like now. Honestly, they looked chained up.

    So what does this 'we believe that all members should stand here with us' mean....

    I want to know that too...

     

    After watching that ment my gut feels that there's something else going on. Idk why I'm thinking that but I just am...

    Suju are not that great of actors to manage to look THAT UPSET. I was freaking in tears seeing Yesung.

     

    Anyway I've decided that I'm just going to wait and see what's going to happen with this comeback.

    (Not sure if I'll support it or not yet though tbh)

    I am pretty upset about Sungmin but I know that personally I can't leave Suju.

  2. Wow my parents aren't even subtle with how much they don't care about me. I expressed to my mom about how I no longer enjoy reading (which has been omen of my favorite activities since I was in the womb) aka one of the symptoms of depression. I have a history with it yet everyone conveniently ignores that and now that it's coming back no one even seems to give two fucks. I can tell her night and day and she'll blame it because I'm always on my phone... lol. She doesn't take me seriously. What do I have to do for someone to take me seriously? I'm so tired of having my feelings being disregarded by everyone, family members and non family members. Not a single person cares amount me bruh...

     

    I'm really sorry that they are not listening to you.

     

     

    I myself don't have depression, but because I have a my chronic illness I was told to be aware that I am at risk of developing it if I'm not careful. I've been close before but thankfully I realized I was becoming down so I was able to work through things and I'm positive that you can too.

     

    The fact that you yourself posted here and are aware that you're not feeling great is excellent.

    I say this simply because you knowing yourself is the best weapon possible. It doesn't matter what health issue you have it still can help you greatly. 

    If you feel like the people around you are not going to help you beat this thing then screw those cowards.... you just stand firm to your feelings and take charge. Do not let them downplay you just because they feel it's bothersome or think you are over reacting.

     

    You know your mind & heart & A lot can happen once you decide to empower yourself with knowledge & action.. 

    believe me I've got first hand knowledge of this myself.

     

    Go out and find someone who will assist you with what you already know that you need so you can beat this.

    Look him/her dead in the eyes so they will take you seriously. Say to them something like

    'I know myself as a person and I am saying that I want this dealt with. Will you assist me please.'

    (literally this is what I said to one of my specialists)

    I may not know you but I want to say that from reading your post it brings me to believe that you are a strong person.

    You've got grit I can tell & I say f*** anybody who tries to downplay how you say you feel.

     

    If you were weak you'd not even bother having the guts to post about this in the first place.

     

     

     

    I hope what I've said can help you even a bit and if I'm way off base with this then feel free to just tell me to piss off ok. 

     

     

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  3. Yay, I will be so happy to see Siwon again. He's always held a special place in my heart.

    Me too he has a kind heart people are blind to see.

     

    Hi! I've never said anything here, but I've been ELF since 2015 and my bias is Kyu.

     

    Since k-ELF announced that they were going to boycott to Sungmin I have not been able to remain silent, that is why I made this thread to show international ELF support Sungmin and Super Junior.

    https://onehallyu.com/topic/530676-international-elf-with-sungmin-and-super-junior/

    It's a good thread. Welcome  ^^

     

     

    I just hope Heechul says something in his usual snarky way. I hope he says something and shuts everybody up.

     

    If any member could tell KELF to shut up he's the one.

    Korea likes him and it would be refreshing to see Knetz/GP give the KELF a kick in the butts if they attack Heechul.

     

    Eunhyuk too. I think it was right before they enlisted Eunhyuk was spending more time with his non-Donghae friends and EunHae shippers apparently thought he was cheating on Donghae. Just even mentioning it cracks me up. I love these two together but come on really.

    I remember that there were some die hard shippers upset at one point.  

    EunHae is my otp. They are such an entertaining and cute/dorky duo & seeing them happy or causing chaos together with whatever they do makes my day lol.. laugh.png 

     

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    They do have individual badges. But no OTP badge if that's what you are talking about.

     

     

    Hmmm ok thanks for double checking for me.

    I might look into maybe getting one made for them when I hit 400 posts.

    I wonder which other OTP combos for Suju are missing? There also isn't SJT or SJH badges either is there.

    5cF9Biq.png It's kinda odd to miss out some of the sub units don't ya think..

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  5. OMG I've been holding back so much from shooting people and their uninformed and stupid bandwagon hate in case I say something wrong haha. Now that we're getting closer to the comeback time I'm gonna let loose.

     

     

    Maybe they don't want to argue alone thinking other elfs are not there to defend them. so If we start making it clear that we are still here to defend our boys then people will think twice to attack our boys.. 

     

    Lets do our best to pull this fandom together guys. The more ELF smack back at the bandwagon haters the less these other people will join in with disrespecting and treating Suju like just some easy weak punching bag. datassplz.png

  6. I personally defend them on OH as much as possible,,  you go and kick those hater's asses . I am with u.

    It's understandable why most of the elfs are quiet now..  most of them have jobs or they are married now... so they can't spend time on internet.. I am now active on internet because I have got vacation from my university .I won't be this much active when my break is over ... but whether I am on internet or not i will still cheer for my boys 

    I understand that but sadly I do often see active ELF around online who I know see what's being said yet they never help at all.

     

     

    a more funny/positive topic:

    guyssssss for this comeback Siwon will be the "official" magnae of the group

    (i know Donghae is born 6 months younger, but Siwon's official birthday is listed as 1987)

     

    just imagine our Shisus as a MAGNAE of the group

    https://www.pinterest.com/pin/107734616063172225/

    I bet Siwon will only keep the magnae role for 3 weeks tops before Donghae gets all puppy eyed.

     

    Damn Donghae's puppy eyes are dangerous.. 

    tumblr_lk0t6cpPdH1qco4ai.gif just please stop hitting my feels ugh!!deepstareplz.png asurpriseblushplz.png

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  7. Can i just say that its looks ridiculas when a 5 year old loves also suju she loves sungmin as she puts it a little bit more and when i said he was married she said i can always be bff its show you that a 5 year old is way more grown up than most fans everybody has favs but she loves all suju she loves watching all of them.

     

    Sent from my E6653 using OneHallyu mobile app

    Thanks for sharing this. That is so sweet chuplz.png

     

    Everybody has issues it just seems suju are targets

     

    Sent from my E6653 using OneHallyu mobile app

    That's because to be blunt with you all imo ELF got too lazy to defend when it comes to smacking back haters who say BS. 

    ( oh sorry I mean to say that a lot of ELF decided to just ignore it because they are too mature to bother these days ) imstupid.png

    Meanwhile due to ELF not striking back on mass at the bandwagon hate it has grown to horrible level.

    Instead of smacking back together and showing the good sides of Suju or the receipts of how it really is the 'problematic' label has now thanks to haters & (KELFs) efforts become stuck to our group.

     

    There's a billboard lit up and it's become open season now for all the trash and it's saying 'Everyone come on down and take a good kick at Suju here coz ELF are too fractured and salty over things to care.'

     

    Sorry to be harsh but even though Suju has made mistakes they still wouldn't be such targets to hate if we all actually started working together again to protect them from the obvious mud which gets thrown that isn't deserved.

     

    We also wouldn't have so many potential new fans changing their minds about being ELF or being chased/ scared off because of all the bandwagon hate. warstarplz.png

     

    I really hope all of you would be willing to help me get more serious with squashing the asshats on OH.

    I'm not asking it so that we can change the haters minds they can choke but it 's for the fandom outsiders and new Kpop fans who didn't know the good side of Suju unless we show it in equal strength that the antis do.

     

    I've typed probably the most I ever have on this thread in OH today... sorry if I'm coming across too strong. I'm just frustrated with things

  8. i love Kangin, i really do ~ i always thought he was the "father" of suju in the early days

    but the damage he has created and chances he has wasted is such a disappointment to elfs, to members, to the general public, and even to himself

    the only thing I can say is that: I still wish him best of luck in his personal life but I don't want him back in the industry

    I'm actually quietly hoping that Kangin (if he doesn't ever come back onto the stage in the furture) takes on a role in Label SJ behind the scenes. He could still make up for things and try to do good for Suju.

    He can be a support to the others in such a way..

    Idk I can't help but think that t probably may be the best path for him to take if the decision is that he will remain in Suju.

     

    I love his voice but I don't think he can come back this time (if not a few more years/ever) without making things worse...

  9. There are honestly many individuals like that on this forum that only support Kyuhyun and not the rest of the members - I'm not saying it is wrong to bias Kyuhyun, but these individuals take it too far by bashing the other members and praising Kyu to the heavens in comparison to the other "trash". Many of them like to justify as well that the other members treat Kyuhyun badly, that Kyu should leave ad go solo, etc. Now, I'm not going to say that there aren't fights in Suju and all that stuff, but I think anyone who goes so far as to claim that Kyuhyun wants out and should get out is clearly blinded by their own dislike for the other members. I have most of those akgae fans on ignore tbh, I don't need to see them attacking others or attacking me for no reason. 

    Well said.

    Even if you are a bias only stan there is nothing to gain from being ugly with it. Can't say something nice about another member then it's best not to say anything at all.

     

    What gets me is that ELF know that Suju are active ob social media. How do they think their bias would feel about them being nasty about the members that he himself cares and supports? He's not going to turn around to them & thank them with love hearts is he... if anything he's think they were stupid or rude. idontthinksobetchplz.png

  10. Hello everyone ilikeitplz.png

    I'm surprised, for me, normally JELF are supporting Sungmin. Only KELF are in full hatred toward him. They supported him during concerts in 2014 just after his marriage (in december and january) Or i miss something? 

     

    Also, the rumor Sungmin blocked some elf was said since 2014 with the news of his marriage. At the beginning KELF shared the info they asked him to cancel his marriage before the news was released and he blocked them. Just after some International fans pinpointed they would do the same against them because who the fuck they think they are to ask someone to cancel their marriage and criticised them. So now, of course, kelf deleted the part of the reason why he blocked them but continue to spread Sungmin is nasty he blocked some of them rolleyes.gif rolleyes.gif rolleyes.gif

    ^^^ Yep that too

  11. hey do you know anything about sungmin blocked a admin of chinese/japanise fansite or he neglect some fans on purpose or sometthing? I read somewhere kelf saying stuff

     I've asked a few KELF since it happened about things and some have been happy to tell me all about how horrible Min really is.... idontthinksobetchplz.png  BUT every single time after their rant when I have ask them for some receipts suddenly they like to go quiet. They tell me either not to worry about it or some even suddenly act like they couldn't understand my request....

     

    PLEASE don't quote me word for word here or anything because basically I'm really racking my brain to try and recall stuff ok... to be blunt the whole Sungmin thing is an unconfirmed clusterf*** of rumour and hearsay.

     

     

     

     

    Some stuff may be out of order but it may help you piece some things together....

     

    Some KELF were claiming at the time news broke that they already knew of the relationship before any announcements, which tbh contradicted a lot of what was going on at the time so imo they just said it to seem like they knew everything (KELF ego idk)

     

    A lot of this he's is bad came about iirc because of this one fansite master who was exchanging emails or something with Min.

    If I remember there was something about her being nose out of joint coz she wasn't involved in his wedding or something ( might have been photos or something idk)

     

    Anyway after it was done she supposedly did this big rude vent thing. I think because she was a bigger fansite master who had been a supporter of him for a long time no one even bothered questioning what she was saying.

    No one I know has seen these supposed emails/ messages to confirm it's true. ( I just think personally she was really butthurt that he had decided to marry and when she realised it was going to happen she wanted him to hurt for it)

    I do remember reading that he did also block some people because of the negativity he ( & possibly his wife) were getting from certain ELF. 

    From what I know there is no confirmation about the KELF trying to reason with him / or other members about anything though they have said they were trying to get Suju to listen to them. I think some said they were approaching other members about it at a fan sign before the wedding but even that doesn't seem right since they got so mad over the news........yet they said they knew of it..

     

    There was also issues because Sungmin was given gifts that his wife was obviously being with him was also using.. some ELF didn't like that (which is so stupid considering he never asked for the gifts anyway and lbr how is he going to remember where every item he owns comes from) 

     

     

    THERE IS A LOT OF UNCONFIRMED STUFF THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE WITH WHAT KELF SAY. dave.png

     

    Anyway the news and timing of it was handled poorly by Sungmin ( that I do believe and agree on) BUT all the stuff KELF say about Min being rude or neglectful to ELF I'm calling BS on.

    I don't see Sungmin getting angry or rude to any fan (or anybody at all) considering the fact he's had martial artist training & control. Only way I see him being at all rude is if he's really either had his privacy invaded badly or some ELF have crossed over the line and hurt the person he loves.

     

    I'd rather put my trust in what I've seen of Sungmin's personality over the years than with KELF's wonderful past record of kindness any day.imstupid.png

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  12. Based on what I've seen, the three main reasons for SJ hate from other fandoms are 1 Shindong's comments about overweight girls 2 Kangin's DUIs and 3 "Super Junior are old irrelevant perverts and my faves have one-upped all their accomplishments tenfold so they should just disband already." Someone correct me if I'm wrong. I've seen some other old, minor stuff get brought up too. It was pretty bad around the time I started posting but everyone loves Heechul so that's why I think SJ needs him on Knowing Bros.

     

    I just direct my attention to other members and not let the one or two bad apples ruin the ELF experience

    The Suju members who have done something not good in the past have all apologized for it themselves. They didn't hide behind company statements like other groups do. Those younger fandoms are going to get a wake up call once they start seeing the masks on their idols crack away. Every idol that has lasted in the industry has screwed up with a scandal or two in varying degrees in their career. They are people too not dolls.

     

    The only bad thing that really in my eyes that I can understand people not liking a Suju for is Kangin's DUI thing.

    The rest when something wasn't cool they'd admitted it wasn't right, they acknowledged their fault, apologized sincerely themselves (often multiple times) & have repented/ tried to improved themselves as people.

    How any other groups/ idols when they make a mistake even do this?? The answer is VERY FEW (which is why I've stuck with Suju all this time. I like seeing that they are real with flaws like the rest of us) 

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    The only reason Suju gets dragged so much is because they are Suju and thus an easy target. It doesn't matter what good they do because the haters like their bandwagon. Suju could cure cancer end world hunger and they'd still be called 'problematic'

    The ones throwing the hate around at Suju instead of focusing on their favourites are normally just jealous about Suju's longevity anyway.

     

    sorry to rant...

  13. i think they will most likely go on knowing bros ~ i kinda want Yesex to go on & explain the part about kang hodong ~

    Same

     

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    k-elf at it again

     

    SJ are in a funny position because if they bend to the will of korean and japanese ELF and get rid of sungmin, they'll lose all of their international fans, but if they keep him in the group, they face endless harassment from K-ELF and J-ELF. i don't know why they can't take a few xanax and dial it the fuck down.

    AGAIN!!! OMG THEY REALLY PISS ME OFF SO MUCH UGH LIKE SERIOUSLY!! THEY CAN DO THIS CRAP YET WHERE THE HELL ARE THEY WHEN IT COMES TO ACTUALLY PROMOTING SUJU MEMBERS FOR ANYTHING POSITIVE THESE DAYS!!!  twitch.gif 

    They are being nothing but poison these days for the fandom. Every major drama in ELF was made because of KELF and their egos. Hoe can they not get the fact that they make us all look BAD to every other fandom. All the other parts of our Global fandom get along and do our best to help Suju even with the language and social barriers. 

  14. That's so right ... calling eunhyuk my num 2 bias makes me guilty .... but I can't also call him my num 1 ultimate bias that makes me guilty towards donghae.. I guess It makes eunhyuk my num 1.5 bias... 

    1.hae

    1.5. hyuk 

    2. kyuhyun (I love love his singing)  (hey what's with some kyu stans on OH who talks bad about other members... ? I have seen some not so good comments of them on OH)

    3.ryeowook (he is a cutie pie)

    4.siwon (he is the most handsome idol of entire kpop imo)

    5.the rest 

    harharplz.png so exactly how I feel but just the other way around.

    btw when I say everyone else is my 2nd that's because I just like them all too much to break it down further. I tried but it just kept switching around too much depending on my mood or what content I was looking at / listening to. I can literally fan girl over all of them due to different reasons. 

  15. heechul now call eunhyuk his best friend in his intagram .. lol laugh.png  

    yeah eunhyuk is really a bias wrecker,,,  when I got into suju I didn't like him very much ,,, but now he is my number 2 bias ,,, I think between hae and hyuk if you like one you ultimately have to like the other. and hyuk is such a sweetheart ... 

    Too right ( for me anyway) 

    Hyuk is my ult kpop male bias but Hae is like his matching sock so not having him there so close to Hyuk's level feels wrong ya know...

    I still don't know if Hae is also my number 1 as well in Suju (which feels wierd saying coz I know Hyuk is my ult overall), my number 1.5 (aka bias wrecker) or my 2nd bias (this doesn't feel right either because everyone else is basically the same level under him..

     

    Plus EunHae are my Ult Kpop OTP too so lol I'm a mess. dave.png

     

    I'm like 

    1 Hyuk

    1.5 Hae I think he's my wrecker idk lol

    2 Everyone else rotates here including Henmi

    3 Hangeng

    4 Kibum

     

    It's tough having 15 members to choose from so I gave up with the 1 - 15 bias list idea. ohdearplz.png  

  16. since Yesex (gosh i love this nickname chuplz.png ) brought this topic up ~ i was wondering who do you guys think are close to each other within suju?

    (first of all, i don't know if it's appropriate to start a topic like this in the thread? i apologize beforehand if it's not, i will delete it!) 

    I think there are 2 pairs of best friends: EunHae & KyuWook (i guess being the same age helps)

    83line seem to have a special relationship because i don't think their personalities get along 100% but they truly care for each other and got each others' back

    Siwon seems to get along with everybody (he's all over the members during super show hurrplz.png ) but i think Wookie & him "the high five couple" are kinda "meh"

    also i don't quite know his relationship with Sungmin because they don't interact often during super show, but Sungmin's wedding pictorials had him & Heechul so i got kinda surprised of how close they are

    Sungmin is an interesting case because he's really quiet during concerts ~ but i think he's most close with Shindong

    Kangteuk used to be very close i think, but after what happened, i think they kinda drifted apart T T

    i'm curious about Yesung & Sungmin because these 2 really don't interact much~ mysterystudmuffinplz.png

    You're perfectly fine here.

    Yep this I can see.

     

    The thing is with Suju is that they've all had various exposure to each other over the years, so it's natural for some of the closeness they have towards each other to be different in levels. Plus they all have very distinct personalities and often seem to have opposite opinions when it comes to personal stuff. It's amazing that they handle it all well tbh.

     

    I'm not going to dig into who I think are not as close because we honestly do not know enough about it or their private lives. 

    What I'd like to see though is more member interaction

    Suju members x Henry & Suju members x Zhoumi (I'm worried for themwith the future of SJM being ???)

    Something from Leeteuk x Sungmin (curious over how they arethese days tbh) - has anyone seen if their mothers have had any interactions?

    Kangin x pretty much anybody from Suju (desperate like all of us are for some info on this situation)

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