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  1. I've seen so much discourse about whether ace people are a part of the community lately. honestly? I have mixed opinions about it, but eventually I'd rather want to accept them as a part. I still do feel iffy about e.g heteroromantic asexuals calling themselves queer, but maybe I'm wrong, and should learn more.

     

    what do you guys think?

     

     

     

    it's nice, but it's Eastern European, so... a long way to go homophobia-wise. but could be worse, I guess! and thank you, it is quite pretty.

     

    I definitely consider them part of the community.  I believe our community is full of people who have been discriminated against/don't fit in the "normal" world.  Aces definitely have had their share of discrimination because they're also "weird" for not wanting to be sexual.  To exclude them because they're "kind of normal/straight" would be the same logic that certain LGBT communities used to exclude bisexuals. 

     

    One day, I hope we won't be apart of an "LGBT community" because everyone will just be human and be loved as a whole community.

     

    I also believe that how you identify is up to you, and you alone.  Queer isn't equivalent to gay, and may be just how someone identifies.  This is of course my view and I would love to hear any other perspectives.  

  2. That Episode of The 5 Show, that featured Jessica was really cool, since it was like 30 minutes well mostly anyway, of Jessica just speaking English. It wasn't until a recent-ish Instagram live she did that was like 40 minutes or so, of her speaking just plain English was honestly amazing. I feel like I really got a sense of the international side of her personality. It was very interesting, to say the least! ;)

     

    omgosh I need to find these. I miss her English 

  3. Its the valley girl cali accent. It comes out naturally but she doesnt have it during professional interviews and such. (Her korean used to be the same back in soshi days, yall all remember her voice during Gee)

    I have some friends from cali and dang.... if youre not used to the accent it can be a bit much ... though personally Jessica could have any accent and it sounds like an angel to my ears if that angel was from cali lol

     

    I never actually considered her accent to be a valley-girl accent.  I always thought Tiffany had more of a valley girl accent and Jessica's accent was slightly Korean since she grew up in Korea.

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  4. Wow I just discovered this thread,had no idea there was something like this on Onehallyu.I have been confused about my sexuality for a long time now.I find women beautiful.Most of my daily crushes are on women.In a movie or anime it's the female characters that grab my attention first.

    I like guys too but there is no instant attraction.I tend to find men attractive after I've know them for a while and this is exact opposite with women.I find them attractive instantly but once I get to know them it ends.

    I mostly label myself as bisexual but idk really.

     

    Hey!  Labels aren't important, but I believe you would be bisexual but heteroromantic.  You're attracted to both genders, but can only form a romantic relationship (dating, love, etc) with males.  Does that sound about right?  I'm very similar to you!

     

     

    Wow this thread is not as active as I thought it would be but I really wanted to express myself somewhere... and I think this is the right place to hehe

     

    Well for context I'm a 21 year old gay guy

     

    Anyway what I wanted to say is that I've been closeted my whole life... well still am somewhat, but anyway the thing is...

     

    I used to be scared of people judging me on every aspect really not just being gay.... I feel like I really grew up hating myself there's a lot of stuff I used to "hate" back in 2015 and I would be vocal about it A LOT, why? because it was "gay" and it's funny bc it's some of the stuff I like the most now, I used to hate on drag race, pop music, gay people... and honestly even latinxs... and I'm one... I really couldn't really make long-lasting friends irl without thinking they would eventually change their mind about me because there's a lot I was hiding and keeping as a secret.

     

    I'm sure there was this one guy during highschool I used to "hate" because he was openly gay... maybe I was just jealous... I would always talk shit about him with my friends I would judge gay people and generalize them with the usual gay stereotypes... which is another thing I learned about... I stopped putting all gay men in the same category because we're all still people... I just didn't like the fact that I was nowhere close that stereotype...

     

    A lot of hs friends had asked me if I was but I kept saying no, I really saw it as if it was wrong, even my closest friend was like "don't worry I know you're gay and I still love you" and just kept denying it... also I feel like this wasn't as great with my uni choices either... I'll let you know I spent 3 years in majors that I dropped... I was happy the first time because it was something I liked a lot and honestly went to the side that people don't think I am... usually people are shocked by my choices when I do them by myself lmao... I was studying architecture. After that I went for computer engineering bc I thought I wouldn't be judged there... I always say I chose it bc it was safe... and maybe it was for me during that time... but ended up dropping out again because honestly I didn't feel like myself there it was something I actually knew I didn't like...

     

    During last year I honestly liked attention a lot and clinging onto people online and had to learn the hard way how immature/inexperienced I've been my entire life when everything went downhill, after I felt so judged by people irl and stayed away from everyone... I had to learn to love and embrace myself for who I am... and I want to thank all my ups & downs for the person I am today honestly... I feel like I'm behind on everything for keeping this as a secret my entire life... 

     

    That's when I realized and decided... 2018 is going to be MY year. I'm still the same shy guy I've always been and I think that's never going to change... but I've been more open about myself, I actually express myself I let people know who I really am and honestly it feels great, I've reconnected with a lot of irl friends too I've made a lot of new friends irl and honestly it feels so great to say "I'm gay" at any time I want it feels like I'm finally free of what's been tormenting me for years I've been telling a lot of friends that I'm gay and honestly sometimes it's not even necessary at this rate considering I just openly talk the way I feel about guys it feels great... I even became friends with the guy that I used to "hate" during high school and he's helped me a lot actually lmao he was one of the first person I told directly that I'm gay and he was like yeah cool and we've been talking a lot honestly...

     

    This year is also the year when I decided to study Psychology... something I've ALWAYS wanted but was scared to pursue bc it was usually seen as a "major for girls" but I said fuck that and finally decided for it and I honestly love this major so much and I'm glad people around me notice my love for the major everyone says I seem SO excited about it every time I talk about my classes and everything...

     

    And well during this year there's still a lot of stuff left for me to do but that I'm definitely going to do, it feels weird so far bc I'm learning a lot about myself this year and I'm experiencing A LOT of stuff for the first time in my life... but hopefully I get to come out as a whole and with that I mean coming out to my family ♥

     

    anyway that was it I feel like I didn't say everything I wanted to but I'm kinda tired rn

     

    I'm amazed you were able to pull through, improve yourself, and find yourself.  Good luck on all your future endeavors.  Hopefully one day all stigma will be erased and we won't have to hate ourselves anymore just to feel like we fit in a bit.

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  5. I would totally watch a cf of Jessica drinking that water .... it feels so random even saying that lol

     

     

    I wonder if coridel would have bought the entertainment company if it wasnt for Jessica, because thats actually the most random thing they have done tbh

     

     

    I feel like it was definitely a Jessica thing

     

     

    Honestly in the beginning I felt like he was kind of the reason for pulling her away from the group (but then again, Sica's a big girl that can make her own decisions) but he did SO much for her after 930.  He helped her accomplish her dreams, and for that I'm thankful to him!

     

  6. Hey all, the new OP is UP!!!!! Wooooooot!!!

     

    I hope that you all like what I came up with, I worked really hard to give this thread an OP that would reflect that last 3+ years that this amazing fandom has had. There are still a lot of youtube links and such I'd like to add, but I wanted to get this up because I couldn't wait any longer. 

     

    Thanks!!!

    -KNED

     

    also, all links are clickable, including the mv/ig/weibo images ahmagahplz.png

    IT'S GORRRRRRRRG.  LOOK AT ALL THE UPDATES/LINKS.  AWESOME JOB!

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    finally a confirmation.... Moonbyul's solo will drop on the 23rd...

     

    LOL

     

    so shocking...I didn't expect it at all imstupid.png

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I love our spoilers queens hurrplz.png

     

     

     

    and talking about spoilers 

     

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    uhmmm RBW staff and PWS seems pretty shook that Moonbyul spoiled so many things... and here I am waiting for more cleaver moomoos to decipher them because really the only thing I thought was that the album title has something to do with being selfish...but alas everyone had the same thought while looking at the self + fish LOL

     

     

    only things that I know atm

     

    "In my room" is soooooo good imho

    and isn't even the Seulgi collab song.. so I can expect only greatness from the collab bc IMR standard is pretty high and still Moonbyul seems unsure about it being good enough to make it inside "something"

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    ooooh 07/07 Taipei concert for SBS

     

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    there are only 2 GG and still our girls are included, that's really amazing!!!!..."Fantastic 6"... Taipei have good taste studmuffinplz.png

    This has been said so many times, but we're so well-fed this year rlytearpls.png

  8. Im ready to lock myself in my room to cry. But honestly those lyrics are relatable af. Also seems like Byul also drinks when shes feeling down like Wheein. I mean they have said before that they ussually meet up to drink and talk about thier problems. Saw a few ppl worry that theyre alcoholics? What do yall think?

     

    I think it's honestly just a korean culture thing.  But it definitely makes them susceptible to alcoholism.  Especially in Wheein's case since she goes up and down 

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