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Hi there!! Welcome to OH :lol: :lol: :lol: That's so great that your bf was supportive of you ♥ It's important to have people you can trust by your side. I wouldn't be too scared about your family just yet- being bi (in comparison to gay or trans) is something you can keep on the dl for a while as you fish around in your family for their opinions on queer people. Work on your poker face: you can say things like "my classmate XX has a boy/girlfriend! I was surprised, i didn't know they were gay" or "I read this thing on the internet from some internet user named topaz ;) that her dorm is gender neutral. I thought it was co-ed but actually it meant for transgender people" and then you can ask them/your mom what she thinks about LGBT people. Do you trust your parents? If your family loves you, please dont lose hope because there are people out there who, once they came out, forced their fam to change their former stance. Being bi might help you too because at least you still like the opposite sex. Bi erasure kinda sucks balls sometimes but I guess it helps that people dont really take bi people seriously bc there's less homophobia/aggression/rude af people. If you are ever in danger of being kicked out or hurt, please dont be afraid to lie your face off and say you were just kidding, or that you're straight, and you were just confused for a moment because of all like...the gay propoganda. Once you grow up and move out you'll be safe and nobody can touch you. You can do it! Hang in there, love. You can always come back to this thread whenever you want :))) bruh I'm sorry but your reply was pretty insensitive. :wth: I slashed out the parts of your reply that made me literally cringe irl. Like, I'm not gunna neg you or anything but next time please use more tact
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That's cool! From the sounds of it, you're still in high school right? :lol: My high school had those stickers too, and I think my uni's offices have them too if I remember right. My university has gender-neutral housing and bathrooms; I just googled it and there's actually a lot! For those of you applying for college this year, I found a list of colleges with gender neutral housing~~ ♥ (link) LOL my school isn't even on that list tho :rlytearpls: wtf The last part of your reply, honestly now that I think about I've never seen that irl? It's prolly a good thing lol means I'm around good people. I'm affiliated with the arts department in uni now too lmao 90% of the queer folks are in here with me :lol: :lol: The dorms I was in last year also had a high population of liberal folks and several LGBT floors so people like us are very normal lol. I'd say the only con was that there was also a ton of ignorant tumblr users that only consumed bits and pieces of social justice without bothering to learn about shit further than "Tumblr says this Thing of the Week is Important"
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BTS - 💜 아포방포 💜 - WE ARE BULLETPROOF -Beyond The Scene - Official Thread
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Haha I know right?? I'm glad we can at least buy lightsticks in the marketplace! That way I can show all my fandoms w/o having to give up a spot in my badges Your badge arrangement is so pretty though! I love it when people match the colors- 367,108 replies
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tysm!!!♥ omg I just logged in and saw I just flailed a little bit ahHHHHHH all the emoticons in the world cant express me rn hahahaa it seemed like I'd never reach 400 posts fast enough;;; I got myself a new sig too! I feel downright spiffy the jungkook badge is sooo pretty I hope it never changes- 367,108 replies
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I AM SO EXCITED because I am finally getting my badges!!!! I was holding back from getting them because I didn't really like how it looks with only 2 or 3 awards but!!!! I made 400 posts the other day and I spent some time looking at the BTS awards in the marketplace and I finally!! made up my mind and requested them just now ♥♥ The arrangement I asked for is going to be Certified ARMY- Jungkook VMIN Shipper - BTS Maknae line so I hope it looks pretty- 367,108 replies
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[spoiler]All I wanted was to have ONE FREAKING DAY out of the entire fucking summer to spend a few hours at the goddamn zoo with my mother and I cant even fucking do that. Not to mention the bitch who must not be named got on her high horse after my supposed "attitude" like shit I'm not even allowed to have my own emotions- if I get mad I need to have time to myself to calm down and any fucker that gets in my way is gunna get attitude whether she likes it or not. I hold myself back so much every day jesus christ. like no, the only female allowed to tell me what to do is my mother and all my other siblings besides you because you are a fucking c.u.n.t.w.h.o.r.e. and I hate you. [/spoiler]
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BTS - 💜 아포방포 💜 - WE ARE BULLETPROOF -Beyond The Scene - Official Thread
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I just saw this on tumblr- 367,108 replies
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Which male idols do you think are gay?
topaz replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
if you type myungjong into the search bar for this thread, you can scroll through all the posts in this thread mentioning them. There's been a lot of discussion about myungjong here ^^ -
I kinda wanted to reply to EnergyPear, but I'm a few days late and the reply above^ is on point anyway so I dont really have much to add. It's times like this I realize how lucky I am to live and go to school the places I have. Some of the people visiting this thread may be havng a hard time right now...maybe, like EnergyPear, you think nobody will accept you. I just want you guys to know that that is definitely not true and not only are there tons of people out there that will love you, there are tons of people that think it's a given. Where I went to school, people didn't even bother a coming out because it wasn't considered a big deal. Any sort of coming out was super casual, something like: "Hey did you do the homework?" "Yeah but my girlfriend is copying it right now, you'll have to wait" "Oh I didnt know you have a girlfriend, I thought you were single, thats cool. Tell her to hurry up I have to turn it in next period" The high school I went to was one of the most diverse schools in the US and it was ranked within the top 5 for most diverse in California. My HS had tons of religious, ethnic, class, and sexual diversity and at the time I took it for granted, but the entire student body was very accepting of one another. There was no bullying as far as I know, and cliques were blurry: nobody discriminated against one another because eveybody knew each other. The one time soneone said something racist during class discussion he was dragged by 5 different people around the classroom and the teacher scolded him too. Don't get me wrong, there was still teasing, because teens are jerks, but from what I know it was never because of something that person was born as or couldnt help. Even my gross mysognistic trigonometry teacher congratulated my female friend on her first girlfriend. At the university I go to, at one of my tutoring groups, a student told us their preferred pronouns after their name, and my tutor's reaction was literally just "Ok sweet, I'll make sure to remember that." so, idk if I did a good job trying to explain it but basically I'm trying to say you dont need to go to San Francisco to find a community that will welcome you. There are tons of places that think you are normal and awesome and dont get why it's a big deal to be accepting of your sexuality or gender. Just keep hanging on, I know it's so fucking cliche but it gets better.
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topaz replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
yeah i try to give gdkiko and baekyeon the benefit of the doubt since in the end it's all just speculation, but once u actually spend 5 minutes looking into the relationships or individuals themselves it it's just...fish everywhere. fishy fish swimming around merrily -
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topaz replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
I was surprised how touchy BI is! I think it's rlyrlyrly qt cus my initial impression of him was super cold lmao idk about lee hi- is it only her in particular or does he freeze around all girls? It could also just mean he doesnt know how to treat girls. @ the bolded omg please? I'd rly love it if u did I realized the more I thought about it, how little I know about ikon hahahaha ^^it was ka-talk iirc As for baekyeon &gdkiko tbh I have no idea I kinda sideeyed the whole baekyeon thing from the start tho cus it felt weird. I think both relationships are equally possible to be genuine or a set-up. -
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topaz replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
i love binhwan and golden trio their dynamics are just so... tbh I thought Jinhwan was gay right when I first saw him but then he was dating Jimin so I was like...ok he's prolly bi then. As for B.I, I think it's likely BI has a semi-platonic crush on Jinhwan? Kinda like "i love hyung so much he's the greatest and he's so cute/" Like I get the vibe BI is a very emotional/obsessive person- he blatantly favors Bobhwan and seems to put Jinhwan on a bit of a pedostal...? ??? question mark because I dont follow ikon very hard this is just the impression I got from youtube ahhhh omfg that bit you linked about the contract I feel just like #confirmed that idol contracts sometimes? forbid inter-group dating or at least that Seventeen's contract does. (with 13 members I guess the chance of 2 members going out together is higher) I'm going nuts bcos u made me remember this time VIXX Ravi was asked about either Hongbin or Ken and he said "it wasn't allowed" which I remember pinged me cause the question was something like if he thought they were handsome. BUT IT WAS SO LONG AGO I CANT REMEMBER AND CANT FIND IT I have failed as a starlight. /sobb I think it was from VIXX TV or VIXX Diary bc the question was asked by a fellow member holding a fake mic -
BTS - 💜 아포방포 💜 - WE ARE BULLETPROOF -Beyond The Scene - Official Thread
topaz replied to Winter Bear's topic in Groups
haha I love every new little dance Tae does during his solo part. For this one...I'm not sure at first it reminded me of the choreogrophy in EXO Growl but when I googled it again it looks totally different! I think it might just be our sweet V freestyling- 367,108 replies
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^^^^ yea I'm a little sad about it bc lately I keep seeing anti-BTS threads and comment but it just means BTS is becoming more and more popular. With popularity comes new fans, with new fans come new childish arrogant fans, trolls and antis. People like to bandwagon so many people are ignoring all the nice ARMYs and focussing on the bad apples right now. We just need to ride it out When I was an EXO-L it was during the time EXO-L's were constantly criticized for being "arrogant" and "annoying" and there was a lot of ill will, kinda like right now. I think it's more common when a group's gains popularity very rapidly? idk. We just need to set good examples for imature ARMYs and with time the fandom will chill as well as any hate.- 367,108 replies
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can someone please tell me the source of this gif?
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I always forget that kkapHobi is a mega babe- 367,108 replies
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http://taetaetown.tumblr.com/post/128701680275/bts-i-need-u-prologue-timeline oh my god guys this is getting so meta I love it there's 5 parts in total and her theory makes a lot of sense and she pointed out some things I hadn't noticed before! (ofc theres some parts I disagree with, like her DOPE theory bc I remember Jin saidhow when he asked the director the meaning of their outfits he said the costumes were random) but for the most part I think she's on point- 367,108 replies
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damn the water is so high :o if you cover the bottom part it almost looks like theyre on a boat in the waves- 367,108 replies
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everytime I visit this thread I spend 15min debating on sharing my own pic and then I can never work up the courage aHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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YEAH I'm glad I'm not the only one that heard it he'll yeah I know the credits part is what confuses me idkidk I'll just be hyped for the full audio to come out- 367,108 replies
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BTS - 💜 아포방포 💜 - WE ARE BULLETPROOF -Beyond The Scene - Official Thread
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^ Yea! When I was listening to Butterfly I noticed near the end at 2:01 or 2:02 there's what sounds like either Yoongi or Hobi's voice, saying "like." I have several theories: Butterfly has a few verses for rapperline and it's a slow song like JOD this verson is the slow jam remix (like the one in the INU teaser) they forgot to edit that bit out when they were recording over the guide or i am thinking too hard about this after listening to it on repeat edit: I'm such a flop I forgot to link to the audio https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yf6eLnVNJb0- 367,108 replies
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^you're a genius that's gunna be my headcanon until bighit tells us the real title next month- 367,108 replies
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hiya!!!! welcome to OH Hope u like it here ♥ My ub is V but I love Suga too; What is your favorite track from Bangtan? *whispers* Tomorrow or bust- 367,108 replies
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