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Which male idols do you think are gay?
sergel replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
I saw this and was like “C’MON BOO JUST ADD THE PURPLE HEART!” -
concept Girls' Generation 소녀시대 The 7th Album〖FOREVER 1〗➫ 2022.08.08
sergel replied to neozone's topic in Celebrity Photos & Videos
Someone hold me it’s finally happening -
I’m not sure if they can, since it literally is just Girlfriend I’m Korean. Im really happy for them. I was expecting it to take years so I’m happy it was relatively quick. edit: though apparently people said they already did apply for the Korean name to be trademarked so there is that.
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Which male idols do you think are gay?
sergel replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
I saw this and one of the comments said they look like 2 trouples on their honeymoon -
Happy for Viviz and happy for Yuju’s new single! Btw anyone know if Viviz has concluded promos?
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Which male idols do you think are gay?
sergel replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
To further elaborate, I wonder if idols like Key or Hoshi would present themselves differently if they had been in different groups. Conversely, I also wonder if there are idols who have more stereotypical feminine interests, or would like to recommend LGBTQA-themed movies or BL shows, or have certain fashion tastes, but don’t share any of that because they worry what their group members would think. Many people would posit a situation like that is fairly common, given what we know and experience as gay and bi men. For a more common frame of reference for people, just imagine yourself and a group of coworkers, or peers in high school. If they are constantly making comments about your voice or looks, about your masculinity, would you feel more or less comfortable being yourself around them, let alone being honest? It’s an answer which will never be full elucidated to us, but it’s also something I can’t help to think about, especially when I witness situations like the ones with Sunoo. -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
sergel replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
While you do go a bit off-topic and psychoanalytical in your posts sometimes mEeEeEe, I do think you raise an interesting consideration at the end. I also disagree with lgbtxt slightly because those videos and paragraphs do somewhat support the question posed at the end, and users here have speculated before about the environment of I-Land, male idols and body image, Sunghoon’s treatment of Sunoo, and idols being bullied in their group, especially if they might be gay. Also sexuality and masculinity do intertwine a lot. To be clear, I don’t think the fat shaming is disguised homophobia (I think it’s just plain fat shaming which is silly and mean since they’re all the same size), and I do think the fact Sunwoo was chosen for the group by producers or whatever adds to it. Also, I believe that video of Jay and the fake man comment is taken out of context because I think in the full video it wasn’t directed at anyone, but rather a pun since they were covering Boy in Luv. I obviously don’t know what goes behind the scenes or how they feel, but the topic of how Sunoo is treated in the group is being brought up a lot these days. People in this thread seem very convinced of Sunoo’s sexuality and I do wonder as well if he seemed more “straight-passing” and “masculine” he’d be treated differently. I recall myself and others being treated negatively because we didn’t seem “masculine” enough in personality or looks, and guys who were out got even worse treatment. Comments like “you’re just an attention seeker” or “you’re not man enough” were not uncommon, and certainly didn’t help guys already dealing with issues like body dysmorphia. Also makes you think about the environment some idols are in. There are idols people here are convinced are gay or bi, and I wonder if their band mates were different, we’d see them present themselves differently. It can be hard enough for an idol to be true to themselves given the industry and societal norms, and I imagine that would only be amplified if their group members teased or bullied them due to harmless facets of their personality or their personal interests. This is, of course, all speculative. I don’t like to speculate too much which is why I usually just post about news here, but the bulk of this thread is about speculation. I think the overall point and topic is an intriguing one to think about, at least for me. Thank you for coming to my TED Talk. -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
sergel replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
It is also available on GagaOola. The site features pretty much LGBTQA stories and shows from around the world though it is a subscription based service. -
Skating Super star "Yuzuru Hanyu" announces his retirement
sergel replied to stan BISH's topic in Current News & Events
He really is a legend and I’ll miss him but he deserves a rest. -
KBS' Yoo Heeyeol's Sketchbook to end after 13 years on air
sergel replied to speedthief's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
This makes me really sad because there were so many good performances on it. -
The Lord of the Rings: The Rings of Power – Main Teaser
sergel replied to Moruk Laplamiz's topic in Hollywood
Ooh I didn’t hear about this. I wonder how it relates to the other lore and stories. The locales and music are gorgeous so I’ll probably check it out for that at least. -
Don’t forget the AMA for Viviz is in a few hours. also happy 5700 pages all!
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Which male idols do you think are gay?
sergel replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
Just curious, but every time I come back to this thread there’s always a lot of arguing. If certain users are bugging you so much, why not just block them so you don’t have to see every post? You could always click to see a hidden post if you want but don’t have to deal with the posts all the time. -
Well this is pretty big for international fans. Get your questions ready everyone!
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Do you prefer lots of relaxation or lots of activities on vacation?
sergel replied to deliriousness's topic in Random
A bit of both. My family goes on cruises a lot and it’s a nice balance, with days busy seeing towns and cities, and nights slightly more relaxed with dinner and a show. -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
sergel replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
This doesn’t mean much but since Hoshi is mentioned so much I thought this fit. Also the one comment is right, it’s the most replayed part of the video for me lol -
Okay Love Love Love is amazing. One of my top b sides from Gfriend as a whole.
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KARD members renew their contracts with DSP
sergel replied to Lee's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
Happy for them! I was unsure what was going to happen when J.Seph went to the military but happy they came back afterwards, no more enlistments, and their recent comeback has been one of their most successful. -
I like the song overall. It’s fun for summer.
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The song sounds okay so far, though very nice for summer.
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Part of the issue is how they vacation though. Like I’ve heard many natives don’t mind tourists form Japan because they don’t trash the place and are very respectful. Currently in Italy right now and it’s nice but not quite as awe-inspiring as I hoped. I think the amount of graffiti, trash, and counterfeit good sellers ends up detracting from some of the amazing parts in the cities, but the coast is nice. hmm I’d say either Hawaii because it’s so expensive or Paris for pastries.
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Excited for the surprise comeback. I didn’t think Viviz would comeback until August. I wonder what sound it’ll be.