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  1. Hi guys ~ I've been anticipating black pink's debut and lurking here since I saw the teasers. Thanks for updating this thread with their activities (praying for a reality show to get to know the girls' personalities better).

    I have a question though, how come this thread has almost 4K pages when the girls just debuted a few days ago O_o

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  2.  Yep ! I don't like soompi's forum personnally. And I am french and honestly, I think people in their 20's are okay in english. Like not perfet but they understand most of what people say.I met a lot of people at KCon, we were a group of 10 and all of us understood english (we were all parisians though, maybe there's a difference between areas of France).

     

    Kpop fans are usually okay at it since all the subs are basically in english. French people in general do understand it but find it hard to speak and express themselves in that language, that's why my friends are too intimidated by international forums. 

    I don't like soompi either, the website isn't well made and it's not as diverse as OH ( the almost non existence of trolls there is the main + point).

  3. Hey ! thank you ! I might unlurk more to fangirl a bit (I mean Amber is onto so many projects right now !)  and also it's summer vacation so I have some time x)

    Yes, I know most french MeUs use a french forum. A lot of us are shy to express ourselves in english even though for the most part, the young generation understands english quite well (thanks to  subbed american tv shows).

     

    Yes ! JusticeforLuna2016

     

    Welcome to the thread ~ 

    I absolutely agree with everything you said, and yes french people usually use soompi's fench forum. Also, unlike what everyone might think, french people are quite bad at english lol (especially the young ones), I know a few f(x) fans who would love to join international forums but can't because they're not good at english.

     

     

    I was at Kcon too! I was in cat4 and my sister in cat1. (I wrote a long ass post about the whole night and f(x) performance in the main thread for those interested)

     

  4. This part though : 

     

    Q: f(x) has surely had a big change. It’s down to 4 members, with which you had your first solo concert in January. 

    During the month of preparing for the concert, the members, dancers, staff members stuck together everyday. Ah, I suddenly really want to see my members. Lately I contact my members a lot. Not too long ago Krystal suddenly told me that she’s sorry, that she didn’t feel her member’s gratitude when she was young. It made me think, ‘Wha, we’re all grown up now’.

     

    This is why I love this group. :rlytearpls: 

  5. really? i'm a depressed person so everything i say comes off as depressing or funny in a very dark twisted way, but honestly all our former thread regulars who left hav said that they feel relief lol 

     

    Lmao, that's funny but... sad at the same time?, guess you really are funny in a dark twisted way, reminds me of someone I used to have a crush on lol.

    I can understand why they felt relief, people can be really mean here and at some point you just give up defending your fave and prefer leaving and saving the little sanity you have left.

    It's silly but I cried a couple of times before because of how mean people were here, but it's been two years now and nothing gets to me anymore  I'll defend my faves against the trolls and haters till the last day of my life ! lol.

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    Yes I know I should have thick skin and I do but I got so feed up with the disrespectful comments. It's also irritating that f(X) has all these fans but only the same few defend her. I'm thankful to those few. Lol I need to join the Amber protection Squad.

     

    Most MeUs only care for Vic and Krystal. I mean Luna and Amber's solo showed that. The support Luna ( and Amber) got from MeUs was pathetic.

     

    Beautiful did really good though, she sold much more than everyone expected, and Luna's album was so flawless I'm so frustrated that it didn't get the attention it deserves. But it doesn't mean amber and luna have less fans imo (people screamed so loud for amber during Kcon Paris I was really surprised), I think they're just broke compared to Krystal and Victoria's fans lol ( Chinese individual fans $$).

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  7. honestly everyone feels better after leaving so i wouldn't blame you lol so do what's bet for you! we all abandone this place for months and  then come back and then leave again anyway, i still feel bad every time new fans find this place and expect to have a good time and not even a day in they feel dosappointed... but oh well if amber ever comes back and you need somewhere to fangirl with no shme this place will stay here and who knows maybe by then there will be a bunch of new people making it more fun 

     

    Lmao your posts always make me feel depressed for some reason lol, CHEER UUUUPP

     

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    it's just a forum after all, she's leaving to focus on college which is a good thing ! I'm sure she'll come back on her holidays. And she can keep supporting Amber and f(x) from outside OH too. 

    That last sentence was good ! There will be bunch of new people and the old people might come back too ! (or not lol), but hey, amber is working on new music and she'll always surprise us with good stuff, let's be excited about that and keep supporting her. Make sure to keep watching her new videos on youtube DC3 (but don't look at the comments :derp:).

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  8. In my rant I always leave shit it out, I fucked up there not gonna lie . Also, I'm upset I offended people even if it's just unintentional and the gaydar thing it's mostly the yt comment section where it's used as fact (never read comments on yt it's more toxic than here)

     

     

    I'll still post on the main thread b/c even tho Amber is my UB I love spazzing about the rest of the girls. I love talking to people with a different bias b/c you get to see why this person chose krystal or vic or luna as a bias and why they love them so much. It's actually cute to see, and how special their bias is to them. I'm corny I know

     

    I'm thinking about leaving OH soon tho, it's not good for my sanity and I'm starting college, I should focus on that.

    I think two to three more weeks maybe sooner

     

    I never read YT comments, I actually don't read comments anywhere outside of here, on twitter and IG and all that stuff, too messy and mainly just kids fighting, not worth wasting energy on them.

     

    Aw it's too bad you're leaving OH ( I tried to do that when it got really messy with Jessica's antis but I failed lol, I'm so addicted to this shit and I don't have twitter so the thread is my only source of f(x) news, I post much less than I used to before though), but if you spend too much time here it's probably the right thing to do, you can always lurk.

    Good luck with college ~ ( I feel so old lol ...wait, I actually am).

  9. I'M BACK, SLUTS!!

     

     

     

    Oh, I'm sure they just meant that some people (particularly lesbian fans who get...militant about Amber's sexuality) can get really nasty. When Amber says she likes guys they call her a liar and stuff. Or they disrespect her by disregarding the fact that she wishes to be perceived as a straight female just because they figure they have the right to say what they want about and post it as FACT bc their ~gaydar~ told them so. 

     

    At least, I think that was what that user was getting at.

     

    As for the main thread, like nicole said, we got dragged for posting stuff here only, but no one gave a damn when we posted it in the main thread. Not to mention the fact that when threads go up about Amber and people shit talk her, a lot of the ppl on the main thread either go mute of join in on the dragging. So this is our safe place where we can enjoy Amber to the fullest w/o feeling like we're annoying other users who don't even like her. 

     

     

    Exactly. Maybe this is just me, but from the perspective of an Amber biased person...there's just a real lack of interest in Amber on an individual basis. 

     

    I gotta admit, that gaydar thing is quite absurd to me too but the people who used that word in the lesbian thread constantly make it clear that it's all just speculation. 

    I honestly have never seen someone from the main thread drag amber in a seperate thread, but I believe you, although I'm sure it was one or two people and they're probably individual stans (those are usually the ones who create a mess in the fandom imo). But I've seen a few amber stans do the same on the other members' related threads. I'm not saying it's fair but unfortunately, there are always good and bad fans in every fandom and we should not focus on the minority. 

     

     

    most of our regulars used to go on both threads and discuss group related stuff or general amber updates there and more deep discussion here but you see most ppl left because everyone go tired of the negativity i don't mean in the main thread i mean it in the forum as a whole and many feel disappointed and tired of being the same small group of people doing all the deffending and getting targetted by troll users for doing so.

    stans feel safe here and i know ppl feel good for having a place where they can interact with other stans and not feel like they are bothering others nor having to be fighting trolls or haters all the time.

     

     

    I understand because that's how we feel in the group thread too.

     

    Sorry I didn't I should have made so much more clearer I'll edit it, but people use it insult her (which isn't right). But, People also use it to justify the nicknames like manber and how she's butch, b/c apparently lesbians can't be feminine which is utter bullshit b/c I know super feminine lesbians 

     

    It's okay, I'm glad you apologized because some people who lurk here got offended by it. And don't mind those haters anymore they're everywhere, they call krystal horse faced, they call victoria the forehead talentless queen, luna the ugly unpopular member and amber manber, if bringing down people who are better than them makes them feel better about themselves then whatever makes them sleep at night. There are more supporters than haters and that's what matters.

     

    Anyway, this was just an invitation for those interested, hope to see more of you in the main thread and keep posting amber threads!

  10. no one feels comfortable using the main thread for bias discussion bc it feelss like shoving your faves on everyones faces. one time the main thread called us out for only using this thread during her promos so we went there but ppl didn't care about the things we would post because no one replied so we were like oh whatever and cameback here, even most of our regulars left OH for the same reasons and we used to be the most active individual female idol thread...

    still i only feel comfortable here and i'm not planning to move

     

    I remember that and I remember replying to Amber's updates, a lot of people there, including myself follow that thread only, and that's where we get all f(x) updates, so even if we don't reply to every single post, it doesn't mean we don't see them and appreciate them. And that is a GROUP thread, every member's activities should be posted there. So yes, shove your fave in their faces because that's what a group thread is there for, the majority of users there stan the whole group so I'm sure they'll appreciate it, and if they're not happy they can go elsewhere.

    I'm not asking you to move, just post in both threads and interact with other f(x) fans and not just amber stans, I feel like you guys are isolating yoursleves and it's just a shame because we all share the same love for these girls, unless you're an individual stan, in that case I can understand why you would prefer staying here only.

  11. Ya her in any ship that isn't with a female is negged and there are those types of comments. 

    My thinking is lets say hypothetically she is lesbian, then how the hell are we people to force her to say something as personal as that. Like people don't want to think she's straight because it doesn't go with the narritve they've built in their head. People believe what they want to believe, but until she says other wise we go with what she says. We have to respect her as a human being. Someone who was lesbian once said that that they just wanted representation in kpop and that's why they believe she is, and I'm like  :omgwtf: . For your sick pleasure you insult her. I had a huge argument on yt as well with a bitch who believed it b/c she had a gaydar ( Can I say how stupid a gaydar is b/c it isn't real). There is a reason we are one of the most active and replied to individual threads and that's b/c if we take to the outside of this thread, Amber will get insulted and shredded to pieces by the idiots of OH

     

    Didn't know being gay was an insult ... but I'm sure you didn't mean it that way.

    I don't like to talk about her sexuality topic, because to me, it is none of my business, she can love whoever she wants as long as she's happy. And I think both sides don't have enough proof to assume whether she's straight or gay. Those who say she's gay are just speculating, and those who say she's straight are basing their statment on what she said in interviews (that she likes men), which totally makes sense but can also be debatable considering she lives in Korea and she is a celebrity. So I'm just gonna ship her with whoever I feel she has a chemistry with regardless of the gender.

     

    PSA:

    never bother making amber related threads on OH, this site doesn't care about her and the threads either go ignored or filled with insults and fights and f(x) fans will never bother defending her or will even join the other side..

    the only "successful" amber threads are the ones that other female idols' stans make claiming that amber desperately wants ther fave's V bc she said hi to them once, and all the comments are fans of those female idols circlejerking over how much of a godess their fave is and how amber obviously wants them or she wouldn't say hi 

     

     

    I feel really sad that you guys feel that the only safe place where you can talk about Amber is here, how about the main thread ? I know there was a certain user who didn't like her that much but he's not even active anymore. 

     

    I understand how frustrating it is when people assume they know someone else's sexuality or judge them from the way they dress or behave but I hope you won't stop posting threads about Amber, the ugly comments should not stop you from doing that, the forum is full of trolls and haters, they hate on all the famous idols, whether because they're jealous of them or because they know they have a lot of fans so they'll create a mess by bashing them, which is what they want.

    Usually those comments get negged a lot, like the first two in your thread NaCh5 (got about 15 negs), let them say what they want but you too have the right to say what you want too. Our fave is flawless, she's a beautiful talented and kind-hearted person and we should be proud of her and show to everyone that them hating on her is not gonna make us unstan her. So I might disagree with you die pony die ( I actually disagree with a lot of things you say :ninja: ), and I invite you guys to keep spamming the forum with Amber related threads and piss those haters off.

    So POSITIVITY GUYS !! Amber is like the most positive person I know we should learn from her, there are a lot of people in the forum who love her music, her personality, and know how insipring of a person she is without even being a fan of f(x), so let's stop seeing the bad sides only and be more positive.

     

    And please post more in the main thread too, there are users here who never posted there before. I almost never post in individual threads because I feel like it just encourages the division of the fandom more than it's already divided.

    Sorry for the long post, I think I beat you on that one LiuEunyoung lol

     

    *goes back to lurking*

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