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  1. I seriously wish I could stay awake to hear it, but I'm afraid I'll fall asleep on my computer again. Just a few hours before the MV, though.
  2. I fell asleep on my computer, I wake up and I see the video teaser I had just woken up and I started cheering out loud. Then I had to see Showtime clips, though I hope I can see it subtitled later. Somehow I wish I had been able to resist longer awake.
  3. I don't know if I should stay up to watch showtime, since it's already 1 am where I live. How many are left before the broadcast?
  4. I couldn't stop seeing the teaser when it came out! I'm pretty sure the song in it is the intro, but it would be cool if it's actually the title track.
  5. Hi buddies! I think it's my first time writing in this thread since I have been a silent lurker for a long time, but I just felt the need to talk here because I'm so excited So far, the teasers have been great and I just can't wait for it to come out, or at least to get a title track teaser, or a medley! I'm hoping we do well this time too.
  6. Congrats on the first win! I'm so happy that this album is getting recognition, specially since it's obviously important for LE! Let's keep supporting them.
  7. I'm not really keen on commenting about this discussion, but since most commentors here don't seem to follow many girl groups, focusing rather on few, I'll try to put it a little on perspective. Be aware, though, this is just my opinion. I don't follow male groups at all. However, I have seen a few videos of Super Junior at concerts where you could say they do "queerbaity" things. But when you think about it, who are the people that you can hear screaming qhen this kind of interactions happen? Gays or fangirls? All of this is done as fanservice, but not for the LGBT crowd, but for the fangirls that like to ship or have fantasies about it. When thinking about girl groups, I think it's more or less the same. While no one does the same things boy groups seem to do in this kind of fanservice, they still do it, but in fewer doses. I'm sorry for not providing links since I'm on my phone. For example, on TWICE'S elegant private life, on the episode where Nayeon, Mina, and Momo are eating ice cream, Momo asks Nayeon for a kiss. The latter tries to kiss her, but Momo backs out of it. Is Nayeon queerbaiting, or was it simply Nayeon being playful combined with knowing that fans would like to see that? Then I think about Girls' Day, specifically about Hyeri and Yura. Are all their interactions (that I have seen posted here) queerbaity? Another example could be Gfriend's Yerin, who can also be very touchy with her groupmates. For the most part, they do this kind of interactions, not only because, as some korean users have said, skinship is normal, not just between idols, but between ordinary people, but because they know their fans will like it. Could some of those fans be gay? Probably, but I find it ludicrous to think that all the fangirls and fanboys that encourage this are gay. In the end, this is a marketing strategy, but I doubt it is focused on LBGT fans, who are a very small niche, and is instead focused on all k-fans, citizens of a country where skinship runs rampant.
  8. Well, I hope so, since liking her would lead me to nowhere. Thanks  :)
  9. You're welcome!  :) And yeah, I can kind of understand you since I have gone through more or less the same conflicts. I told my mom (with bad results), but even then I feel better with myself after everything. I hope it gets better for you!   I also have a dilemma with something that is confusing me. I have known my best friend since we were 12 yo, and I have always seen her as a great (thought not so much lately because of some 'ideological' conflicts between us) friend. However, today, when we were at our school's talent show, and I was waiting with her for her mom to pick her up, we were supporting our heads on a table there, so our faces were very close. I don't know why but at one moment when our faces were the closest, I felt the desire to kiss her, and it kind of freaked me out.   I have felt this about her before, specially at moments when we are physically close, but I always shook it off, even more now that she has been acting in a way that annoys and angers me.   Do I like her? Or am I just curious about kissing another girl (since I've never had a gf)?   I also must add that she is the best friend that I've talked before in this thread. She is super religious.
  10. Don't worry and don't feel alone in this.  :) I was the same even after I realized I liked girls, which drove me to self harm and fear. Your fear is there because you are used to hiding your sexuality because you knew you would mistreated. Don't force yourself to tell someone right now, just ease yourself into the thought and first feel comfortable about yourself. I say this because even when I finally admitted to myself that I liked girls it took a while for me to ease myself into the idea of not being heterosexual, and lot more time it took for me to finally talk about it with someone.
  11. Be strong, you almost finish school, so hang in there. Don't let your parents dissuade you from looking for that scholarship! Follow your dreams!
  12. Has anyone here speculated about Lovelyz? My gaydar is almost non-existent, so I want to know what do you guys think.
  13. https://twitter.com/yerinbeinggay/status/724594451679719426
  14. -Link of the picture/video/gif : 1 2 -Dp/Sig/Other : Sig -Your request: I just want them to be resized to fit in my sig. Thanks
  15. I'm sorry if I use thread to occasionally vent, but since I have no one to talk freely about this, this place seems just about right. Right now I feel hurt, very very hurt. A few hours I tried speaking to my mother to see if I could get her to kind of understand me. Now, if you have seen my previous posts, you'll know that my family is highly religious and think badly of lgbtq, so the task seemed alomost impossibl, but I wanted to try. The run down of the conversation is me explaining how I've felt for most of my life and how much it has influenced my entire personality, likes, and dislikes, and she answering that I'm not like this and it is probably their fault for letting me have male friends when I was a little kid, and that they should have done more so I should have resulted more girly. She basically told that the correct thing to do would be to change myself entirely. I feel destroyed, since at least I thought my mother would have an ounce of understanding of my situation, but it seems I was wrong. I couldn't even face her afterwards. I was and I still am filled with anger and sadness at her words.
  16. When I said I sometimes thought they weren't cousins was just because I thought that Vivian came out of nowhere, and, as far as I know, never have they been seen together before they started appearing everywhere together recently. However, as it is, I do not condone incest. Maybe I wrote without thinking.
  17. I know I'm so delulu, but sometimes I doubt that Yulviv are cousins... I know, I know, they most probably are, but I can't when Yuri posts so many pictures of them on insta.
  18. I'll miss you. I wish you could have stayed longer to see me drive. You always asked me about it. You're in peace now, I know that, but it still hurts. My heart hurts so much because I won't see you again. I guess I took you for granted. I love you.
  19. You feel so secure in your own bubble, but if you continue like this, it will cost you. Don't be so afraid of people. Don't isolate yourself. If you want to live alone, you need to stand in your own two feet, including emotionally speaking. Fight for what you want, and stop fearing about what others will think of you!
  20. Then nope, it's not working  :rlytearpls: I haven't played many games, since I got myself a wii u (bad move), but hopefully I'll get a xbox soon. Clearing watch dogs for the fifth time gets boring.
  21. May I be added to the list? After some time of pondering, I have finally been able to say out loud what I feel, so I feel identifying with y'all would be another step  :)   Also, I have been reading some time, but I seriously don't know what to ask or answer since I'm still a fetus in all this. I'm still wondering a lot of things (like if my gaydar works), so I don't know anything, but I still want to give my support.
  22.     Thank you :) I know that things will get better, but sometimes I feel so hopeless. Maybe that's why I am aiming to study at another country. I'm trying to get into new hobbies to pass away time, and though sometimes I wish I could have a girlfriend, I'm ok.
  23. I'm sorry if I use this thread as a place to dump my feelings, but sometimes I feel I have no one to go to.   A few days ago, we had a society class in which we reviewed the different kinds of families that exist now in society and one of them was a family with homosexual parents, but since I am at a Christian school, many of my classmates (including my best friend, who doesn't know about me) said remarks like "gross, disgusting". Since them I have felt depressed, thinking that no one can accept me, and that I can never open myself to my friends the way I want to. I have tried to distract myself by reading yuri manga, but everyday I'm feeling worse. Why can't I just be the way I am? I never chose to feel like this, and yet...
  24. If we're talking about Taeyeon, I remember that like four days ago I found a page that had translate some q and a she did before debut, like in 2005. And I remember seeing a question that said, "Do you feel dissatisfied with being a woman/man?" and Taeyeon answered that she was dissatisfied in being a woman. This is telling.
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