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  1.  Thanks  :chu:   Edit:   I know that I wrote about a month ago about me entering university, and, tbh, it has been better than expected! Found myself much more comfortable wearing whatever I want without feeling anybody judging me or anything. I fastly became friends with two girls. However, since I had already decided to have no pretenses about who I was (read: I wasn't going to hide I'm a lesbian), I had decided to tell them someday. Well, today was the day I told one of them about it.   I was really nervous, since here not everyone is accepting (though I know in most places nobody is), and I didn't want to be left alone with no friends, but today my friend and I had just come back from the opening ceremony at the school's gym, and we were at the classroom. I don't know why, but I felt that that was the moment I should tell my friend, as it would be better to deal with just one rejection rather than two.   "Can I tell you something, and you won't be weirded out by it?" I remember saying,my heart beating out of my chest. This was my first telling anybody else other than my parents that I liked girls. She told me, "Sure", and I could only prepare myself.   I didn't know how exactly to say it without sounding too out of the blue, so I just said that I didn't like boys at all, knowing that this would be very easy to understand.    Her reaction was seriously what surprised me the most. She didn't act disgusted, not even surprised. She told that she was totally okay with it, and that she thought that it was totally normal, that I just had a different preference. She talked about a gay friend she had and how inhuman it seemed to her that most people wouldn't accept somebody they love for who they are.   In that moment, I opened myself with a honesty I had never even had when talking about it with my parents. She listened to me attentively, and at the end of the conversation, she told me, "thank you for telling me. I know this kind of confessions are very hard to make, and I'm grateful you trusted me enough to tell me."   I seriously felt like crying, you guys. I was shaking badly, and I could only think of crying in relief. She also told that whenever I wanted to talk about anything, problems, crushes, etc., I could talk to her about it.   After our last class, I confessed I had an eye on someone from theater class (I know, I know, I get crushes real easy), and she seemed eager to know who she was. I felt like a fourteen year old girl, going for the first time to talk about my crushes with my friend. For the first time, I could talk honestly about liking someone and being attracted to someone. I gave her a (platonic) complement, and she didn't care! In fact, she was a little flustered!   I'm so happy tonight, I feel like crying.    Sorry for the wall of the text, though.
  2. Don't put those kind of mental images in my head Seriously, they are adorable together. I'm kinda sad that IOI is just a project
  3. The reason that I said what I said in my previous comment is that I felt that you were being a little defensive. That's why I explained what I had wanted to say in the first comment that I made about Jungyeon. I'm not saying that she is not gay, rather, than using a style (that she herself has said that she doesn't feel entirely comfortable) as a reason to label her as gay is, well, a flawed way of thinking. Sorry if I was wrong. Thanks for the gifs! Lunber has been giving life these past days
  4. Yeah, in general I think that because straight girls don't see anything they do in another light rather than platonic, it seems easier for them to do skinship, though I would say that some could be just very shy or someone who really likes their personal space, specially if they aren't best friends with the other person. What I meant about Jungyeon was mostly that many people target (I'm not saying it's you) her or say that she is queer because of her oppa, Amber-like image. If that was the only reason that some people think Jungyeon is queer, then what I'm saying applies. She is not someone who completely likes her image as of now. Still, I wrote in the previous comment that despite that, I thought that if she was queer, if it was up to her, she would be a more feminine one. And about Tzuyu, what you said could also be true.
  5. I honestly thought Chaeyoung was straight... until now. Thanks to her seeing Carol, I think she might at least be curious. About Jungyeon, I'm still a little iffy, more than anything because I feel she has been a little bit forced by JYP to have the girl crush image that she has now, at least, appearance wise. Though that could also be that she might be bi, but she would, if it was up to her, be more feminine. Tzuyu to me has always seemed either ace or bisexual, mostly ace. Idk, it's just that I can't see her being interested in anyone romantically. Maybe it's just me.
  6. She is very gay If you see the last week's showtime episode, she was the same with Sinb.
  7. Hmm, I wonder why My Seoljeong heart is broken rn. But congrats to the couple! I'm telling y'all. If in the future there are news of them being the first lesbi couple outed, I won't be surprised. Hope that doesn't happen, though. Also, something about your last paragraph made me 'aww'.
  8. Honestly, I also think the same specially when I consider people like Hong Seok Cheon, who are now welcome in the industry and have lots of idol friends.
  9. Hey everyone! It's been a while since I have posted here (remember when I said that I have zero experience when giving advice? It is still the same now?) After a while of figuring myself out I think I am more of a lesbian. I thought before that I was okay with having a romantic relationship with a guy, but as time (and some experiences) went by, I finally understood that I finally feel more comfortable with a woman, romantically and sexually. I know it doesn't sound like a big accomplishment, but finally figuring out what I feel is pretty nice, as a little cub in this whole thing.   Also, in two weeks I'm finally starting university, and I can only hope that since university in general is a more open-minded space where you can meet different people I will be able to get friends who I can feel comfortable with, specially being able to be out to them, and to my classmates in general, though I'm a little afraid word would get to my parents, and it would cause problems between us. I have been talking to them as well about getting a scholarship abroad and they are all for it. I just hope I can actually get it and be able to at some degree feel freer about having people know about my own sexuality without shame.
  10. I think the same. When I first saw Seulgi, I thought she was gay, but as I saw more of her interactions not only with her members, but with other people as well, I came to think that she seems mostly straight, but that the vibes that she gives are those of a girl crush.
  11. I'm really loving this drama I don't know if I'm delulu (I probably am),but I hope that they do a love storyline between these two girls. Since the first posts about them watching the Handmaiden I have suspected them as a real couple, and this evidence really doesn't help to their case. Please be a couple!
  12. I already saw it I couldn't understand a lot of it, but the scenes made up for it
  13. Thanks ---- Also I was wondering if anyone suspects Sana or Nayeon. To my disappointment, Sana seems pretty straight, and Nayeon, though she is playful, I also think she is straight.
  14. I can barely wait for tomorrow's episode to see TwiceFriend interactions!
  15. Haha, I personally expected Yuju's reaction to it. Sowon's reaction was the best. She looked so ready to receive the mission. Sinb is the one that surprised me, since I usually wouldn't see her so excitable about romance.
  16. Imo, Gfriend is like: Sowon: She pinges me a little because of her low interest in males in general. Yerin: Super gay Yuju: Straight (?) Eunha: Straight as a pole (sad for me TT) Sinb: I am not sure Umji: Straight When I see how Yerin interacts with everyone in Gfriend, she is way too touchy for me to think it's just skinship. It's the way that she does it (especially with Sinb).
  17. Hey y'all, do you know when the Weekly Idol special is going to air? I hope I can see it when it airs since I've waiting for it. Anyway, I'm so happy Gfriend got their first win! Let's go for the next one!
  18. I don't think it's because of the rumors, but rather because of their comeback. The articles that came about their rumors don't have as much attention as most people think.
  19. Agreed. It's weird that because they have no proof for the bullying rumors, they are grasping at whatever they can to criticize them, passing themselves off as fans. Fortunately, as of now, the article's most upvoted comment doesn't reach the 1,000, so it's irrelevant to public.
  20. I saw it and it made me angry. I know we shouldn't pay much attention to hate, but it makes paranoid to think about what happened to T-ara because of bullying rumors. I don't want any petty attack at them to become something more widespread.
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