frozentear

Can somebody tell me why people are accusing Mew of queerbaiting? Like, what did he do?

18 hours ago, sureyeahiguess said:

Not just BL actors. Newyear and Both are legit enganged/married. And honestly this would be of interest to JoonDunk shippers being that they both liked TYs post, because TY is perceived as being MLM which bolsters their ship, and the TY fans can use JoongDunk liking his post as evidence of him being queer, and the Bible and Earth come along, its just a gay assumption clusterfuck.

 

Also MeEeEe before claiming any specific actor was bad or wrong, i'd delay my accusation upon receipt of specific evidence because Thai BL shippers and insanely toxic and distort and spread lies about opposing "ships" all the time. It's absolutely insane. It's all shit blown out of proportion by insanely online individuals fighting against other insanely online individuals.             

Apologies for the offtopic post

Lil smoothie

14 minutes ago, Sweetberry said:

 

what show is that pls? 

Old Fashion Cupcake. I need to watch it myself, been on my to watch list for a while.

I like BP, but I did not like this song. 

Poor girl. 

Her company needs to let her eat and rest. I know she's beating herself up because there's people that depend on her, but at the end of the day she's a human. She has basic needs like the rest of us.

Finally! Now I can stan the group.

I'm honestly shocked the did kick her out because they seemed really adamant on keeping her in the beginning.

I can't choose between Nintendo, Google, and Microsoft (because of Windows)...

Love this!

Well, congratz to the couple then. Man Jennie is on a role lol, dating men from the top 3 boy groups. Lucky girl 

The name is a mess. It should be "Loner's" not "Aloners", the latter is not even a real word. And yeah AA...is just not it.

20 minutes ago, Taecoholic said:

Jennie really has a type. Kai (rumored to be gay/bi for ages), GD (rumored to be gay/bi for ages) and now V (rumored to be gay/bi for ages) lol

Kai has never had gay/bi rumors, especially in Korea lol

Anyway, I don't think that pic is edited, but it's hard to tell for me if it's actually Jennie and V. We'll see.

36 minutes ago, Walmart Goddess said:

They have never created a boy band that is worth stanning imo.

And Aespa will not do good in America. They don't have an image that's relatable. And if they try to pay their way to chart again like SuperM, it will be just sad.

Yeah for you. But TVXQ and EXO were definitely worth stanning for many others.

FINALLY!! Soooo excited for this!

16 hours ago, Morgan said:

honestly I don't think anyone in EXO is gay other than Sehun. they're all super straight imo. maybe Baekhyun is bisexual. MAYBE. like a big maybe.

I think Sehun is the only gay member too (please don't come for me Regina). The members who I don't have a concrete opinion on are Suho and Xiumin. I don't think they are gay though. The rest are straight imo.

My opinion is susceptible to change of course.

I'm just going to say, the reason why some people don't think Heechul is gay is not just based on the Momo/Heechul dating alone. Around the time it was announced, Suju and ex-Suju fans pulled out some receipts on Heechul that honestly is kind of hard to ignore, even if you wanted him to be gay. I think he's definitely attracted to the opposite sex. Not saying he can't be bi or pan, but yeah.

15 hours ago, jeong jaehyuns boyfriend said:

Will smith was wrong, period point blank. Don’t @  me

They both were wrong tbh. Chris' joke was in poor taste, making fun of someone's baldness who has an auto immune condition that makes it so, is not ok. And as for Will, he should not have hit him. He could've just talked it out afterward.

6 hours ago, dododododododo said:

Once again in the name of transparency one of those skulls is mine
 

Very curious how you could possibly not mean this in a bad or rude way though
 

Didn't see this earlier, but eh, good for you I guess?

To answer your question, what I mean is that since they aren't cis gendered women (again I don't mean anything bad by this) it's more likely that the males dating them are somewhere on the spectrum because that's what it mostly turns out to be.

Like if say, a popular male idol came out dating a trans woman, people definitely would use it as a "receipt". Instead of being like "oh, another straight dude, next".

Also looking back at my first post, I can see now that my wording isn't the best. It's just how I speak (esp in a rush). Hopefully this is more clear.

3 hours ago, lgbtxt said:

Yeah, they wouldn't be gay. That's kinda the point i'm making. Gay men date men, and trans women are ... women. Duh. And i literally have no idea what you're talking about with gay men dating trans women, i've never ever heard of that happening outside of beard relationships tbh. Maybe older school gays but i've never seen it 

Ok, thanks for your input and @themistootoo. I personally see trans women as women, but I've seen gay men who date trans women and consider themselves gay. And a number of them are not older either...but who knows, maybe they're just figuring themselves out. And honestly the whole thing surrounding trans people and sexuality was a bit confusing, because everyone has their pov on what is what and who is what, etc. even some trans people have polarizing views on it.

I try to take LGBTQ+ people's views into account and there's lots of different views.

4 hours ago, lgbtxt said:

Think for a second about why it may be that fellow queer minorities could be more open to dating trans women than straight men. Then think about how incredibly rude it is in fact to say that gay men would be attracted to any woman just because that woman is trans. Then think about how shitty it feels to be treated like a third gender for someone who only wants to be seen as the woman they are. This is an issue of transphobia, not sexuality.

Trans women are women. Being into women includes trans women by default. Doesn't mean everyone will be attracted to every trans woman, or any at all, but trans women fall under the same woman umbrella as cis women. Same as thin women, short women, tall women, redheads, etc. Transness is a trait alike any other and everyone has their own preferences and/or biases. Attraction to trans women has no bearing on one's sexuality and you can not and should not assume that someone is automatically more likely to be queer because of it. 

And btw, with all the love in the world, do not say "biological women". Cis is correct, you got it the first time. 

Ok genuine question, if a man identifies as gay and they date trans women, would that mean that they aren't gay? Also another thing, why is it that when gay men are dating women, a lot of the time it's trans women? (and I'm not talking about guys who use cis women as cover ups). I'm genuinely curious.

Edit: Also Idk why so many people got clowned, like this thread needs to chill.

They should've just used the second part of the song as the whole song...

44 minutes ago, lgbtxt said:

specifying that he'd be into trans women as if they're separate from the category of "women" is so transphobic pleaseee

Let's be real, most men who are into trans women are gay/bi/pan. The majority of the time it turns out this way. Because trans women aren't cis women/biological women...(and I don't mean this in a bad or rude way)

Edit: Skull and clown me all you want, but the proof is in the pudding. 

I love everything about this. From the song to the visuals...everything.

4 hours ago, loveablejoy said:

 

I think this some misconception, idk. As much as I think it's creepy & werid he's dating these young girls. You think Leo spend time with her for these 10 years? Sure, he met her 10 years ago but was he constantly there with her. He would've met her only once???

From what I've read, he's friends with her dad, so he most likely saw her more than once and through the years...

It's beyond messed up imo.

@Kinn Go back to Twitter with that bullshit.

Anyways, as usual, Korean laws sucks when it comes to these kind of things. He should've gotten at the bare minimum 15 years for the things he did.

2 hours ago, Mist said:

 

@frozentearDo you have the source for Chanyeol and Kai? Because I only knew about Chen and Baekhyun.

I'm honestly too lazy to look them up, but Chanyeol did in an interview a long time ago and Kai's was when they were on an older show or something.