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Do u think it’s rude when people never invite the new friend to hang out when the new friend just them for the first time? Like Korean American churches I went to, they never invited to hang out with them after I met some people there. They should’ve asked about my hobbies and common interests. It’s too late now. They should’ve asked me that when I first met them, not wait for me to ask them about it I think it’s rude when people never invite a new friend to hang out when the new friend just met them for the first time.
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I know BTS RM is an Ambivert and I can’t find other Kpop idols that are Ambiverts. So who which Kpop Idol are Ambiverts?
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Koreans' obsession with Mother's love, mothers and moms
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Why are Koreans so obsessed with Mothers and Moms? they act like their dads and fathers don't exist. Kpop idols always only mentioning their mothers and never mention their fathers. Every time they see someone causing trouble, they would say " I will call your mom" "Can I talk to your mom?" its so annoying Back in high school after I was tickling my 3 male Korean school mates, they got their mothers threaten to sue my mom and want to talk to her. That tickling wasn't non of my mom's business. they finally talked to mom in person in my class and that's when I got my former teacher fired for giving out my number to them and making them blowup my home phone telling my mom to tell me to stop calling their house. I feel like I want to get someone to beat the crap out my former teacher, those 3 korean male school mates and their parents. They should've called my dad. He and his family are the ones didnt give a single crap about me. They only talk to me when I cause trouble or want to fix my hair. That's why I don't talk to them anymore. they only care about my two very mentally challenged cousins who don't even talk that much and they don't do anything. what's with this obsession with mothers?
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So this girl I used to go to middle school with name Geraldine. Last year in late October or Early November, I was happy to hear from her and asked how she doing. Then in late November, She kept asking me for money and I told her I don't have any. I tried many excuses like "Sorry, I don't have any, I'll send it to you when my mom gives me money" "sorry my mom had to pay her bills" she gonna get all mad at me for making excuses and told me not to text her phone and said “BYE!! I don’t want it. Don’t text my phone!” Like WTF?! So I apologized to her about it. So she told me that shes not going to respond If I don't send $20. So I guess she doesn't want to talk to me. since February, she kept asking me for $30 or $20 and kept requesting me $20 on cash app. I just told her a thousand times I don't have it. She doesn't get it. What is it that she kept asking me for money. I'm not her wallet or her ATM. She acting like this is some rent-a-friend program. My online Marie told me that Geraldine is using me, taking advantage of me, she just taking my money in order for me to talk to her, she's evil and she's a bad friend. I don't associate with people who keeps asking me for money. All she thinks about is my money. she said "if you don't cash app me $20, don't text my phone" so preposterous. My other friends don't do stuff like that to me. I ignored her since April and let her get the hint that I don't have it. I'm not gonna keep making excuses not to give it to her. I haven't talked to her since Middle school. I thought maybe she wanted to talk to me about any thing, not to ask me for money and I know she has a job. I told her that a thousand times and she's not listening. She's acting like a 12 year old. I gave her like a dollar twice and she got mad at me for giving her $2. I’m gonna block her every where. I hate it when people keep asking me for money When I don't have it or need to buy important things. If I give it to her, I feel like my money is gone. She just ignoring me until I give her $20. I thought she was nice and mature enough to talk to me. Not just ask me for money like a 12 year old. I thought she was nice now since she's in her 30's and she still acting childish. I thought She gotten over that middle school past and still thinking about how I treated her in middle school. We’re grown ups now! She needs to just get over it. That’s was soooo stupid of her telling me not to contact her and not talk to her until I send her money. I’m never gonna send her money! she so rude! I can’t believe she called me funny looking-a** and ugly. I was just being nice and friendly to her and she gonna cuss me out and call me names for not sending her money. I contacted some of her friends on Instagram about this and some of them read it and didn’t say anything She’s is kind of weird to me. Like d***! I haven’t heard from her since middle school and I’m a nice person now and she’s still thinking about middle school and acting like a 12 year old it’s just weird. She thinks I’m rude and mean. I realized that she thinks I’m stupid and treats me like I’m stupid I never seen someone who would do that to their former classmate from middle school. I know other people don’t do stuff like that to their former classmates from elementary, middle or high school. Do your former classmates do stuff like that to you like Geraldine? How do your former classmates treat you after you haven’t seen them since elementary, middle and high school?
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I found out back in September of this year that Jewel Brangman from AHL died in a car in September 2014. Im not sure if the BTS members know about it because they never mentioned it. I never seen them talk about it. so did BTS knew about this?
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Hi This girl name H didn’t wanna talk to me anymore all because I tickled her and her mom and she told me to stop tickling her and I keep doing it. I can’t believe that she would say that she don’t want to talk to me ever again over that. So preposterous. I guess the ticking is stealing my friends and ruining my life. I wish I can tell her mom to stay out of my life but I can’t. Her mom is too nice to me. I can leave a letter to her mom in my Evernote and not send it to her. I’m not talking to my dad and his family members ever again they should’ve took me to see a counselor now I’m planning on going to see my social psychologist or social counselor K. H. I think I was ticking H too much idk. Idk what does she want me to do. She better not be talking about me at church. She better be talking about someone at her school. idk what’s wrong with her. I asked her is she talking about someone at school or talking about me at church and then she blocked me. That tickling and touching has nothing to do with me being friends with her. Well I guess I need to stop tickling and touching people then if they can’t stand it. Even after I haven’t seen them in person in a long time, they still think about how I acted around them and tell me that they don’t want to talk to me anymore so stupid. She better be talking to me!!!. I’m not talking to my dad and his family members ever again they should’ve took me to see a counselor. I hate being lonely and people are just so rude for not contacting me to see how am I doing. That tickling thing has nothing to do with me talking to her. So ridiculous H’s sister G doesn’t want to talk to me all because I asked her for her mom’s number. So stupid. People just end friendships with me over everything I do or everything I say. They just cut me out of their life and block every where without explanation I met h, G, their brothers, J, J and their mom at a Korean language school back on 2010. I just want her number just to be friends with her and her kids. That’s all. It not like I would report her kids to her over something they did wrong. I know they’re very good kids. I hate being lonely and I hate being by myself. I’m not gonna sit here and fantasize all day about hanging out with friends and making memories with them when they’re not thinking about me, when they never contact me to see how am I doing. Then after a long time no contact, they would tell me they don’t remember me. They weren’t even thinking about me, that’s why they don’t remember me. So over sensitive. I think the tickling is ruining my life. In 2014, when I was happy to go to the Fall Festival, a few days before , I tried calling my friend all week until the fall festival and she ignored me. And then I tried calling her and few other friends, and they ignored me. I didn't go to the festival at church . I was at home waiting for them to come pick me up. Then the next day, two people apologized that they didn't have the time to pick me up. My friend never called me all week and I was upset. I guess they excluded me from the festival and started making dumb excuses. She avoided me all week. At church, its mostly Asian or Korean, so I guess she wanted to only hang out with Koreans, maybe because I'm not Korean or Korean American, which is annoying. I guess they don't want to hang out with non Asians or something. I would, therefore, rather go to a multicultural church where I can feel welcome and have real friends who want to hang out with me every day when they get off work or on their day off. It doesn't have to be on Sundays. Its mostly Asian and there are cultural differences. People at church were never my real friends. They never invite me to hang out with them during the week and they kept telling me that they're busy as an excuse not hang out with me. I seen Snapchat stories and instagram stories of them doing nothing watching tv, eating and hanging with other people They think I’m stalking them when I found their Facebook account or Instagram account without asking them for their social media account right after I just met them in person and then when I send them a friend request on social media, they would block me right away and think about not wanting to talk to me. So stupid. next time I’ll just wait until I get to know them first and ask them to send them friend requests on social media. Every time I tried to talk to Y who ignored me for a week before the fall fest, she would keep staring at her phone and texting someone ignoring me. So annoying. And every time When I havent talked to them in awhile like for a year or 2, and when I try to message them, they just ignore me and block me. That’s it. Then they gonna tell someone that they didn’t wanna talk to me. For what? For nothing! I made a fake account on fb call nightyfive nightyfive and I wrote to some of them this: Stop hanging out with a bunch of Koreans or Asians. You just wanna hang out with them cus they’re Korean or Asian. They didn’t say they want to be friends with you. Some of them are not really your friends any way. You just don’t want to associate with non Asians. You don’t appreciate a non Asian being your friend. You don’t appreciate a non Asian’s friendliness and kindness. Every time a non Asian tries to make you laugh, you get angry over it and end a friendship over it. So stupid man. Like you’re sooooo happy around Koreans or Asians. Like they’re your favorite people or something! I hate it when people didn’t want to talk to me after I haven’t seen them or talked to them in a long time. They would respond and say rude and harsh things to me I’m an ESFJ-A and My Enneagram number is # 7 the Enthusiast. I like to have fun. My main wing is # 6 The Skeptic. I like to volunteer and help people. Sorry if this is a long post but thx for reading.
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I tried to do some research on "You will become what you worship" or You become what you worship" means and I found some articles that confused me. can you tell me what does it mean? Have You Become What You Worship? Have You Become What You Worship? - Credo Magazine You Become What You Worship You Become What You Worship | pursueGOD.org You Will Become What You Worship | Idols #3 You Will Become What You Worship | Idols #3 | pursueGOD.org You Become What You Worship You Become How You Worship You Become How You Worship You Become What You Worship | Shepherd Thoughts
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I talked to my friend on my other Snapchat account and I copied and pasted her messages about me and I think this Kpop obsession and obsession with Korean men is ruining my life. It's stealing my friends. She has a mental condition. I don't think it's anyone's responsibility to make sure she's not lonely other than her family or her health care provider me: she goes to fkbc Oh wowww okay and I don't think she goes to church bc of her faith. She finds korean churches bc she's obsessed with korean culture and not the whole culture but the good looking/pretty side of it She goes to korean church to look at korean boys But I don't think we should feel bad bc she feels entitled to some kind of attention from us And I could tell her that straight up but I don't think she takes my word very seriously. I don't have that kind of relationship with her. I think that’s the reason why People at harvesters don’t wanna hang out with me. So stupid. they should've told me about it instead of ignoring me
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How do you ditch someone who don't care about you?
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ok in the future, if they contact me on facebook or on other social media , ill just ignore their phone calls and leave them on unread. All they think about is want to call the police and press charges on me for harassment. They're the one who keep ignoring me, not answering my calls and not responding to my text via phone and social media. If they contact me and ask for my parents' phone numbers, I will keeping ignoring them until they stop contacting me. I would be happy to make new friends who care about me. -
its rude when people dont respond to my message or answer my calls when they're not that busy. People just contact you when they need something. Its make no sense. How do you ditch someone like you family members or friends who doesn't care about you? source: 10 Signs Someone Doesn't Care About You 12 Signs Someone Isn't Really Your Friend
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idk I thought maybe they were nice and cool to hang out with
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I tried to get them to call me or me to see how am I doing and they ignored me. Every time they see me, "I'm very busy" "im just busy" as an excuse to avoid me and not to talk to me. I didn't do anything wrong to them. The ticking and finding their personal info online has nothing to do with me talking and hanging out with them. I don't care if they're busy.
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I don't have any close friends. I only talk to some on social media. They never invite me to hang out with them. I never get an apology from or nothing. They just don't want to hang out with black people. they're mostly Asian and they just want to hang out with other Asians. if they ever contact me, lets see how long I would ignore their calls and texts.
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its been a long time since 2017, They never answer my calls or respond to my text messages ever since I met them in 2014. Maybe I made a mistake for attending Harvesters then. They only message them uncomfortable or for being aggressive for not answering my calls or responding to my text and then they just tell me they're busy as an excuse not to hang out with me. After they ignore my calls or text messages for a long time, they contact me and say rude and harsh things to me. I don't say rude and harsh things to them. They don't say anything to me in person or contact me unless I say something, call and text them first. They're just so lazy. another friend from my church on instagram said that close friends answer your calls quickly. She told me I never spend time with them and Im not close to them. Do your friends ever done this to you?
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I asked my church friend, B's friends about her on instagram and then she got mad at me and said "don't contact me, my family and friends ever again!" after she haven't answered my calls or responded my texts in 2 years. then she told her friends to block me. like damn! I thought she was nice and cool to talk to .I didn't speak evil of her or gossiped about her. I just asked them how she was doing, how come she's not updating on instagram anymore and they told me she was taking a break and wasn't talking to anyone. She thought I got mad at her for waving at me but I got mad at her mom for telling her not to wave at me. her mom needs to leave B alone. B was just being friendly s=and interacting with people. Her friend told me that B has a history of mentally Ill, has a hard time communicating, gets compulsive and get sick easily. Do you have friends like that?
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hey guys I saw a video of Beakhyun's Aunt and Uncle's restaurant https://www.soompi.com/article/947111wpp/watch-restaurant-owned-baekhyuns-aunt-uncle-gets-featured-new-food-variety-show Can you tell me where it is and what's the name of the restaurant?
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heres my story: i sent my high school mate Minho this letter To Minho: hey when i first met you in 2003, i didnt know that i was cussing at you in Korean. i didnt know what shirr baa was i thought it was a funny word to make u laugh. You didn't care if I found out or not. WHY DIDNT YOU TELL ME THAT?!?! you shouldve just told me! you said nothing and you just didnt want to tell me, LIAR!!!!!!!!!!! Why are you telling other people what i said to u?! They're not me! if you get mad at me over something, just tell me next time!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you acted like i knew what shir baa was. you just think im stupid. thx for not telling mute mouth. you were just waiting for me to find out. I cant believe you didnt tell me that!!!!!! That was so ridiculous when you didnt tell me that!!!!!!! Thats problably the reason you u kept telling me to stop bothering you and kept saying "f*** you" IM NOT STUPID!!!!!! YOU SHOULD'VE TOLD ME RIGHT AWAY!!!! DONT JUST IGNORE ME AND WAIT FOR ME TO FIND OUT AND FIGURE IT OUT!!!!!! To Minho: Lets how u would like it if I do that to you and see how long you would find out, leave you hanging like that and see if you figure it out why did I get angry with you over something I didnt tell you about. lets see how long to be left hanging for a long time.*** *Slams door on Minho with a very loud bang and walks away* i just found out on March 5th that morning and he left me hanging all confused for 17 years. I hate it when people get mad at me out of nowhere and not tell me about and leave me hanging and confused for a long time. they don't care if I found out or not. They just wait for me figure it out myself. they should come up to me and tell me about it instead of telling everyone what i said or did to them. I thought Minho was acting crazy or somethin. He though i was cussing at him in Korean. sshi bbal=씨빨=F*** you. i cant believe he didnt tell me that! so rude! Proverbs 10:18 says hiding hatred makes you a liar and slandering others makes you a fool. he doesnt sound like a real Christian to me. He sounds like a hypocrite idk if I ever want to see his face ever again because he shouldve told me and explained it to me. not go around telling everyone what I said to him or did to him. he's such a liar!!!!! hiding hatred for long time. pretending to be nice to me. im turning 34 in May i was 17 when i met him.
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I been at Wake Tech for 8 years because I keep taking the same over and over and the teachers are just ripping me off with bad grades. I just want to pass my class. Is there any way I can get the teachers to give me good grades and let me pass my class?
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Have your siblings read your journal and spread your personal thoughts all over the public at school and in your family? what would you do and how would you feel if they did it?
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Hey I'm just curious why do people look at others with an angry face over wearing thick lens on their glasses? Is the thick lens insulting them or something or something? I mean what is it? What part of the thick lens that's making them feel angry, insulted, and offended? Why are they doing that to others wearing thick lens?
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