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Which male idols do you think are gay?
Sitara replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
I know I'm contradicting myself by saying Kwanghee isn't gay but Jo kwon is but hey, its just a feeling. Oh the reason why I think that a true gay would avoid skinship may be because they may feel shy, awks or embarrassed? Lol. I'm just throwing in my thoughts. I don't know why people get so anal -
Which male idols do you think are gay?
Sitara replied to cold soba's topic in Celebrity News & Gossip
I haven't read through this entire thread so I'm not sure whether or not my following insight has been stated. First of all, its not fair to assume a male idol is gay due to their interactions. The ways in which buddies interact in the west and east differ tremendously. Here in the west, if guys are touchy feely with one another, hold hands, kiss, etc they are labelled as homosexual.. So many guys stray away from that in order to avoid mislabeling. However in many Asian countries, African countries or especially middle eastern countries, skinship between males aren't stigmatized because homosexuality is (generally) tabooed. Yes, homosexuality is practiced in these areas but its not as widely accepted as it is in the west. So assuming male idols may be gay due to skinship or their flamboyancy is a stereotype. For example, some people especially believe that Kwanghee of Ze:a is gay...just because he's flamboyant? Nah I don't think so. We can't use our Western paradigms of what we think is gay and apply it to idols because the stigma and stereotypes just isn't there. People think Sehun is gay? Definitely not. Come on now, he's the maknae of exo. I don't know how to explain it..but I have a feeling he isn't. Since skinship between males isn't seen as homosexual...I feel like the true homosexual idols would shy away from skinship maybe? I feel like Jo Kwon (2AM) is ghey. I don't think Tao is gay. I just think he's extremely extra and attention seeking. -
Nine. Mind blown right friggen now holy shit!!!!!!!!!! Currently on episode 5 but I'm taking a freaking breather
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Lmao! Add me up~ I'll be the first April baby on that member list :P
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My love from the stars. At first, I totally judged the synopsis and dismissed it but when I decided to give it a chance...love. Also watching Golden Rainbow but viki subbers are taking their time with that drama. Up until the adult cast came in, I cried in every single ep. The child actors were phenomenal. I really hope UEE doesn't ruin this for me.