This kind of debate are always full of fangirls who reads a lot of fanfics and have this special OTP that they love, and they think is kinda "real" in a gay-platonic way, but most of the time is a "famous" ship. Like, in EXO, most of the shipper would say that XiuHan, HanHun or KaiSoo is real but they don't really see the other members interactions. Like, if you search "SuHoxSeHun" is way more "gay" but well, is not a famous OTP so no one gives a shit about how they interact with each other. At the end of the day, inside the group we have a lot of "couples" and FRIENDLY interaction and shipper misunderstand and get kinda delu delu.