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  1. HI! yesterday i came across some videos about baek and bomi shipping i clicked and watched 5 videos. in those vids creator were saying that he/she respects taeng&baek dating but that he/she can see that baek is crushing on bomi. i could give links to these vids if you want to see and pls dont mock me for posting this. i know that this is not related to baekyeon but i wanna know your opinions about this  :unsure:   :._.:

     

    As far as I know, the member dating BoMi was Chen, and it's kinda "a big rumour" same as BaekYeon before they were confirmed. But Chen had to breake up with BoMi after YiFan's departure from EXO 

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  2. No, i think who you are sexually attracted to is what defines your sexuality. It is more about your sexual orientation rather than your romantic orientation. To many people get it confused and mislabel themselves because of it.

    Being 100% straight or 100% homosexual is so hard that, if we follow your opinion, like 98% of the human population would be bisexual. That's why it's not sexual orientation what defines your sexuality. Every human can feel sexual attraction towards the same gender, if we delete religion or cultural hate against "gay" relationships. 
     

  3. Experimentation doesn't equal bisexuality, and while most humans are on the extremely sliding scale of being bi, I would say that Tiffany Hwang is a very unlikely candidate... *sips tea*

    I'm talking about just sexual attraction. But, as I said, I think she prefers romantic relationships with men. So, because of that, she's mainly straight so you're right. But in specific terms, she's bisexual. The thing is, is not your sexual orientation what defines if you're straight, bisexual, pansexual, etc. It's your romantic orientation. 

    If a girl feels sexual attraction towards both men and women, she's bisexual. But if she can fall in love only with guys, she's hetero-romantic. And at the end of the day, that makes her straight. I think that's Tiffany's case. 

  4. Okay... (?)

    Moving on, I think Tiffany is bisexual. Like, she likes girls and fantasies about that, maybe kissed one in the past, but I don't think she's the kind of girl that would have a serious relationship with another girl. I think she's bisexual, bur hetero-romantic. She only dates men, and she doesn't see herself in a long relationship with another women. 

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  5. I dont understand this "platonic thing",

    I have friends, and Its CLEARLY different from the feeling you get when you liks someone, not just sexually, but you love when they speak, when they move, you get jealous, you get happy. And these are feelings that you get when you like/love someone. And you know it because thats not just friendship. And when It happens between two males thats called being GAY! or at least BI! I dont know why you have to be so defensive and get so hypered up just to not let it fit in the "Gay Spot". It has to be "Platonic super friendship" "very close love" "another level bromance"...That's just being gay and there is NOTHING wrong with it.

    Stop with this bs already.

    If two guys love eachother they are gay.

    If it is the world gay that you dont like then ask the dictionary to change it for you!

    I think you're being defensive trying to make everyone believe that certain Idols are gay when we can freely discuss it, I think that's the whole point of this thread(?). 

     

    If two gays love each other they can be bisexual, pansexual, demisexual, etc. Not only gay. 

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    That would be so fucking petty of SNSD if they did that. They of all people should know how fake that show is. And i'm 90% sure Khun was not into Vic. It's really obvious they both were merely on coworker terms with eachother

    IS JUST A THEORY.

    I know we can't assume things.

    Maybe NichKhun cheated on Tiffany with Victoria. And if that was the case, well, Tiffany is stupid for forgave him but is not "strange" if she now hates Victoria. 

    But again, is just a theory. 

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  7. nah, im upset that im actually on the edge of getting mad

     

    I like you more now let's hug and make up  :hurr: cheers for two stubborn people. idek what we were fighting for lol

     

    Sometimes I like to argue about the most silly things o/ 

    Yeah let's make up and that won't be offtopic because the is a lesbigay thread  :chu:

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  8. im sorry if i sounded mad, but i just found your words quite out of place/topic since we are on a lesbian speculation thread not on a random one.


    But I'm not bringing the Jessica/Victoria topic out of nowhere.
    Why can't I talk about it? You will find really random posts in this thread, bit mine is not one of them.
    You can say you don't like my opinion or don't agree with me (and that's fine) but is not "random"
  9. texting is both interaction and communication of two people. our topic is by far of why jessica and amber's 'alleged issue' has something to do with krystal and amber's situation and u jump to victoria vs ot9? idk what's the connection of jess and vic "war" to lgbt, but this is a lesbian speculation thread so idrk where this conversation's going


    Hey, why so mad? People here were talking about Jessica/Amber awkward relationship in order to proof some points.
    I just share my point of view and clarified that Amber isn't the only f(x) member that has an awkward relationship with Jess.
    They're obviously not facts, is just my theory.

    And I really believe that Sulli/Jessica interaction was made to promote f(x) comeback.
    But you might be right, maybe they are close to each other. Idk.
  10. Some corrections;

     

    During JeKry show(Red light era), Sulli actually texted Jessica and thanked her for the food she bought for f(x). Victoria is pretty much okay talking about Jessica in JeKry house. That 'enemies' though, it's so exaggerated, and too fanfic-like. I'm sure SNSD and Victoria are 'professional' enough to consider that WGM was a part of their work. They're adults already. Knowing Tiffany and Victoria, they're definitely not the type to act immature, especially Victoria who lived alone in Korea for years.

     

     

     

     

    I want a Moonstal badge.

    Is just my opinion and what and the whole SNSD/Victoria things is kinda suspicious to me. 

    You can't assume things either, you don't know the girls and maybe they're immature in a lot of things. 

    PD: Sulli texting Jessica is not really an interaction... 

  11. Why people are just pointing out Jessica's awkward relationship with Amber? She doesn't get along with Victoria either. The only f(x) member I saw her talk with (that wasn't Krystal) is Luna, and because they were in the same variety show. And it's been more than 5 years of the last time we saw Jessica interacting with Sulli. Also, Jessica said she's jealous of Victoria and the time she spend with Krystal.

    Because KhunFany were in a relationship, Victoria wasn't close to any SNSD member, because in korean culture girlfriends/boyfriends are very jealous. And I think NichKhun was into Victoria, and that created chaos between her and Tiffany. At the time, Jessica was still a really good friend of Tiffany so maybe every SNSD member became "enemies" of Victoria. 

     

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  12. Suga be sending so many people to Hong Kong :hurr:  and you know it's already a very densely populated city

    As a pansexual person (not that that makes my gaydar any better) I have to say he gives me a pan vibe too,

     

    but i'm curious--what do you think of Jhope's sexuality? i mean his infatuation with Jimin is so obvious (to me) and it's hard to not realize that attraction himself right? i mean even Jimin's realized that :omg:  but he seems so comfortable inserting the word "girl" in so many instances (like when they're asked of their future plans for family etc) do you think he's bi or pan or gay but decided on getting married etc?

    V too, could he simply be a straight guy who simply isn't homophobic (or even supportive of gay rights)?

    Oh... Actually I like BTS but I'm not a fan, so I don't know a lot about them. I know a lot of Suga because a friend likes him(?). 

     

    But... I think J-Hope is just "funny" and sassy. He never acts "gay" in a serious gay, he acts like that just to make people laugh and I think JiMin is just playing along with him(????). 

     

    But I don't know tbh 

  13. sorry I'm only responding to this one point, but translations from korean are already spotty so kpop translations from japanese (likely to korean first, or at the very least interpretedby koreans/kpop fans) are even more spotty. if i remember right, when i read the source japanesefor it, that one comment wasn't particularly anything one way or the other.

    Yeah It can be, but also in a Suga's rap he says "Like you all know, my voice turns people on. Whether it be men or women, my flexible tongue movements will send them to Hong Kong with my raps."

     

    But you can be right too about bad translations. 

  14. Suga of BTS kinda admitted he's pansexual in a japanese interview. 

    JaeJooong also has a pansexual art piece in his penthouse. And he's that kind of person who seeks love and affection. 

    YunHo seems masculine but he has an inner Diva(?) and I think he's gay/bisexual or something. I don't think YunJae was real, actually I think YunHo's boyfriend is Son HoJun. They are just really close to each other and have been friends for 10 years. 

    Key and JongHyun from SHINee. I think Key is bisexual and JongHyun is homosexual. Key showed attraction towards girls before and It wasn't fake to me, but he has a special type of girl that he likes. JongHyun just give me that vibe that he's completely gay(?). 

    Kevin from UKISS... I love Kevin, he's my bias from UKISS and I watch every ASC episode because of him. I know he doesn't seem straight at all, but I wouldn't say he's homosexual either. I think he can be asexual as well. He has realy high expectations on relationships and doesn't like sex-related conversations, topic or concepts. He knows people say he's gay and he directly responded these comments in several interviews, and he doesn't look awkward saying "I like girls." I don't know, I think is just so easy to think he's gay, but he's also a complicated person to read. 

    EXO: I just think Tao is gay or bisexual and SeHun is "girly/diva" sometimes, but just that. Or maybe he hasn't figured out he's gay(?). 

     

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  15. I want to say something. I didn't called anyone here "delusional" because my first post wasn't directed to anyone in specific. In fact, it was my first time here and I didn't read any page on the thread, I'm new in the forum and I was speaking of my experiences in other debates, in other forums, Facebook Pages or Twitter, etc. In this kind of debates, there's always shippers defending their OTP. That's something always happens, you know. For example, Some shippers think TaeKai is real, like TaeMin is kinda gay, and that JongIn really likes him, etc. And some shippers will say the exact same thing about KaiSoo. And yes, they will post "proofs" like gifs or things that happened backstage. But in my eyes, is common and friendly skinship, in front of the other members, perfectly knowing they being filmed by their fansites and actually with people of staff of the concert working around, etc. And, they will think KaiSoo is real, but if you observe Kai interactions with other member, is kinda the same thing. Kai is like that with SuHo too. 

    I agree with Meet Requirements: "I'm not insulting anybody, just hoping for more critical perspectives."

    PD: English is not my 1st language so I make mistakes at writing. Sorry. 

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  16. This is just my opinion:

     

    This thread seriously seems to be reachng. From reading it , you could assume that 78% of male idols are gay. There are some people that even I can say seem gay, but a lot of this seems like people are reading way to much into simple things. When people want to believe things, they find evidence everywhere lol. This is Korea, Same-sex touching and affection is common, not just between your oppars.

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    http://www.cracked.com/personal-experiences-1324-the-6-strangest-things-nobody-tells-you-about-life-in-korea.html

     

    And it seems weird that girl groups show the same amount of affection, but one of the only ones people say are gay is Amber. I have two theories:

     

    • Amber is one of the few androgynous girl group members, and her being more boyish makes her one of the only suspects, while almost every boy group member is extremely androgynous, so people think there are more likely candidates.
    • Fangirls reallly want their ships to be real and will ignore any evidence proving otherwise. Reading cringeworthy mut of their ships, saving images and gifs of their OTPs looking at each other, touching, or hugging (Ignoring that it may be fanservice, or that people who live and work together probably have tight bonds, and the whole commoness of skinship in Korea)

     

    Not denying that there are some gay guys in kpop (there definitely are), but most of the people in this thread seem extremely eager to call someone gay. At this point I'd want to know who they think isn't gay, because it seems that Flamboyant = gay, Non flamboyant=bi/closeted gay, and that is really weird. Don't say I'm in denial please, I get nothing out of male idols being straight, gay bi, pan, whatever,and I'm fully in support of the LGBTQ community,but this just seems to be going a bit far at this point.

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    Is so true... 

     

    I remember when I watched "SNSD and The Dangerous Boys" back in 2011, it was a Variety Show of SNSD and some "problematic boys" and they were like teachers for them. The thing is, the boys started to live together in a dorm and in the second night they were already sleeping together, hugging each other and watching tv like that, making a lot of skinship, and they weren't Idols or cute, so it wasn't because they wanted to be shipped, they were just random guys and they did make a lot of skinship in a way that, to us (occidental view) seems gay, but for Korea is kinda common and nobody pays attention to it. 

     

    Even the MCs for a lot of programs (Running Man, Strong Heart, whatever) have that kind of skinship and they are married "old man" and I know they don't have shippers and they're not gay(?) but when the fandom see 2 cute boys just looking at each other or whispering things in each other ears (sometimes is really necessary for Idols in concert) the shipper get all crazy without thinking deep in the situation. 

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  17. most people just ship "canons" that look nice together, like for example one less feminine + one more feminine member. they kinda don't care about dynamics, tend just to scream how tru the ship is. in some communities really questionable relationships don't get that much attention as "compared together" ones. it's like that with hunhan and chanbaek (no offence ofc)

     

    speaking of most suspecting members in exo - i guess it's tao and sehun? they ping ppl's gaydar a lot, together and separately, they did a lot of kinda strange stuff, idek even. for me they're ones i can really at least suspect

     

    also, there were something about Suho - 

     

     
     

     

    i kinda feel the same but, the thing i noticed about him - that he's a very open-minded person. i like it.

     

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    ^ haha this one is so cute ;;

     

    Yes! He is! <3 

     

    I know he has a fansite (La Noblesse) and the Admin is a boy and he actually gave SuHo a red scarf and he wore that in the airport once, so maybe that's why he's so open minded. But sometimes people think that supporting gay rights means that you're gay and that's not really the case everytime... I don't know about SuHo tho. But my gaydar pings more on SeHun an Tao, they are the only ones in EXO for me. But well, SuHo maybe is pansexual, bisexual or gay. It's so hard to say really!

     

    PD: And also you're so right about the first thing you said. I don't a ship in EXO, but I think HanHun and BaekYeol always was an SM product, in HanHun's case we can clearly see it in the debut teasers, SM gave them the exact same hairstyle so they would look alike. They also tried to sell us D.O x SuHo but that didn't worked that much, idkw. 

    I'm not saying LuHan isn't close to SeHun, but I think people exagerate that fact, LuHan is much closer to XiuMin and Lay, and with SeHun was the same level as Tao or Kai. And SeHun is basically close to everyone, specially Tao, ChanYeol in predebut, SuHo and BaekHyun. 

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