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Apologies, but kindly allow me to share my views and feelings because, I think, this is the place right for it.
This will be the last from me, I promise.
TL; DR.
I would like to settle this issue within myself & see it as conflicting of priorities that went miscommunicated b/w the girls. Despite them being SNSD and their desire to put SNSD in the forefront of their priorities, those are not just possible anymore with them having individual plans.
I feel bad for Jessica because she feels betrayed by the people she trusted. I, however, also feel bad about Taeyeon, Sunny, Tiffany, Hyoyeon, Yuri, Sooyoung, Yoona, and Seohyun because I know that it was also not an easy decision for them and I believe that they have valid reasons why they needed to resort to the decision they made.
I feel bad for the fans who feel hopeless watching the very thing we've admired, valued, and became the source of unmatched happiness crumble down like that. Like the girls, we all wanted a graceful fall down, and I know I'm not the only one looking for the next 3 years for that graceful exit to happen
I won't be hypocritical and admit that, yes, I'm angry. I'm mad at Jessica, and I'm mad at Taeyeon, Sunny, Tiffany, Hyoyeon, Yuri, Sooyoung, Yoona, and Seohyun. I'm hella mad at SM but I don't really care about that company in the first place. I'm mad at the girls for different reasons, but it all boils down to the fact that, as a fan, I am very disappointed. But when trying to decipher what really goes on and what went on, I need to keep my emotions at bay because there is no way you can see things rationally and logically if you are on a rollercoaster-wreck of a ride. I don't put the blame on one party, because there is no way only one party got to play a hand in situations that led to this.Call them selfish all you want. Jessica was selfish for wanting it all and trying to get it all and wanting the members to deal with it and live with it. The rest of the members are selfish for wanting the group more and trying to impose the same set of priorities to Jessica. They are all selfish, okay, but we are also being selfish in trying to believe and enforce that our idea of what's best for them matches with what they--and each member--have in mind. There's nothing wrong with Jessica wanting it all, there is nothing wrong with Taeyeon, Sunny, Tiffany, Hyoyeon, Yuri, Sooyoung, Yoona, and Seohyun wanting another. But when plans, goals, and priorities no longer meet, there will always be one thing needed to be sacrificed and in this situation, it's the group as a whole.
It's sad that things had to end this way, but I'm still hoping that this is not the end for them. They may no longer promote together as nine--to be honest, I don't care anymore--but all I want is for them to be able to settle this conflict because it will be devastating to just watch more than a decade of friendship go down the drain. Don't tell me their friendship is not real and just for delusional fans because what happened just proves that it does--or did, whichever way you want to take it.
Conflict of interest, different priorities, different goals, different lives, different people. For more than 7 years, they coexisted and became the greatest girl group K-pop has ever known. SNSD as 9 is not lost, but it has definitely changed.
I hate being so emotionally invested in this but I can't deny that these girls have given me so much happiness for the last 2 years I've seen them stand together. My love and support for them has not budged a bit, but I'm also allowed to get angry because I'm hurt in a way that only a fan would. Yes, it's ridiculous, but there is nothing ridiculous over hurting after you've watched something that made you happy crush in front of you and all of a sudden.
Time passes and things move on. I will still be a SONE who will support the group and the girls in their individual endeavors. They will always be OT9 for me because I can't see them in any other way, even without Jessica on stage. Like I said, all I want for the girls is to settle this conflict between them--among the nine members. Everyone surrounding this mess owe them that.-
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Thank you
I'm about to place an order but now that I think about it.... do you reckon the TTS album is coming out soon... that way I could wait a couple days to order both since I hate having to pay the shipping fee multiple timesNot sure if it's confirmed but read that TTS will be coming back probably this month or September (?) If they will be confirmed to come back around the end of August or early September, then I would suggest for you to wait and save money on shipping...that is if you have the patience to do so
.As for me, it's an easier choice since most K-pop albums, especially those by popular groups are also sold on record stores in my area.
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Quick question is this expensive for the LV photo book http://www.yesasia.com/girls-generation-girls-generation-in-las-vegas-photobook-dvd-limited/1036467287-0-0-0-en/info.html I want to pre order it but I have no idea where to get it from at a decent price
I preordered mine from Kpoptown:
Here's from Kpopmart:
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Does anyone here know where I can watch the full video?? It is from The Best
[HD] SNSD (Taeyeon & Tiffany) - Lady Marmalade @…:
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Fangirl paying homage to the goddesses





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Stellar's "Guilty"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HHGKdz9IPw8
Tahiti's "Hasta Luego"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QNY1pbUiVAc&feature=kp
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Just read imnikky's quick translation of "Indestructible" and now I know why Taeyeon said it brought her to tears. It's a beautiful song, and every word is on pointðŸ˜
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I don't want the "rumors" to be true. I don't want any of them to leave any time soon. I won't believe in anything until it happens; but, when it does, I won't hold it against anyone leaving or anyone who will be left behind. I will be really disappointed and saddened if it takes place in the near future, but there will be reasons behind their decisions and I'm sure those reasons will not be something bad and/or ridiculous. Members leaving or the girls disbanding won't change the fact that their bond is real and that they've made a lot of people happy just by being together and I will always be grateful to them for that.
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Yasss! New MV!
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T-XgAn8ctSY
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This gif made my day


Oh gosh, the ever elusive TaengSic

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â–º Girl group AOA is going to cover SNSD's Tell Me Your Wish (Genie) today at SBS MTV The Show

For girls who's into make-up, here's some tutorial by bnt news
Woah, this is the 2nd one this year, right? I always feel good about other groups performing SNSD's songs. I just hope this time, AOA won't get the same intensity of the flack received during "Mr. Mr." cover...especially since "Tell Me Your Wish" is one of the girls' iconic songs.
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lol nooooooo!!! that taengsic moment!!

Why do disasters happen during such times?!?

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Happy birthday to the world's most precious and luckiest maknae!

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SNSD,
the queens of walking.






That iconic "Show, Show, Show" walk should have been reborn in "Do the Catwalk"
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This guys gets into lots of troubles for using so many words, which only opens his posts to a lot more interpretation. Not saying he's 100% to blame, tho, because there really is a large amount of people who either don't take thing w/o caution or prone to selective reading and then blowing things out of proportion.
I decided to delurk only to send all my best and greatest energies to Taeyeon.
I'm currently experiencing quite the culture shock with this whole thing. I've read and understood why k-sones/netizens are supposed to be mad, but in all honestly it doesn't make any sense to me. Like not at all.
I could go on and one about how I differ from the entitlement ksones seem to feel like they have on this 9 lovely girls that have tried to please and make us smile for over 6 years, but at this point,after all thats been happening I can only call it culture shock.
I won't ever be able to understand this kind of behavior because that's not how I was raised to react to some celebrity either dating or showing and expressing her happiness trough her social media page.
All I can say is that I wish this scandal dies down soon. If Tae's relationship is really just starting as stated, all this shitstorm is just ruining a potentially happy romance for her. And that's just sad.
I keep thinking she must be so afraid right now and that makes me anxious and sad.
People have pointed out IU as a good example and that actually makes me feel better. I think Taeyeon and the girls are talented enough to overcome this. They have gained their place on the publics hearts to recover from this. (Im a Big Bang fan, so believe me when I say it gets better, besides this is the first time SNSD has ever encountered scandals like these).
But as of right now, if there's one thing I wish I cold do is just give a nice hug to a girl my age that's receiving an unbelievable amount of unnecessary crap.
Now on to those supposed "bad news" I just wished these insider sones would just shut up.
They know with just one cryptic word out of them they can send the whole fandom into panic mode but they still crave for the attention.
They got me lurking OH like crazy.
Anyways, just wanted to leave good energy out for Taeyeon out there, and I thought this was probably the best place to do so.

Same feels, tbh. I'm torn between wanting to see them and wanting to make them go on a hiatus...well, probably just Taeyeon. But I'm not really looking forward to group or TTS this year in SK, not because I don't want new releases, but because I don't think it's a good time for them to start promoting soon after all this.
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I agree. You all saying supporting no matter what and shit all sound like a cult. You have to know how to let go and move on...
From what exactly? I can only speak for myself and I don't feel betrayed at all. Her IG is her way to communicate with fans, yes, and Taeyeon never failed at that. Where's the "betrayal" exactly? Should I feel betrayed because she once posted asking if she is allowed to like whoever "you" is? Should I feel cheated that she posted two oreo cookies? Did she betray me as a fan when she used what was allegedly a pet name for the guy she's dating on her IG? Just because she has an IG which she primarily created to communicate with her fans, does not mean everything in it is her message FOR the fans---I thought this would be a common sense thing.
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On the other note. Still looking forward to the "Indestructible" Japanese single

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This is not soshified. Anyone can say whatever they want about the girls as long as they have some logical reasoning to back it up.
Though it seems like a lot of people still don't get why Taeyeon gets all the hates from her own fans while the other 4 members generally received support from K-Sones. The reason might seem asinine but it's how the Kpop idol industry has been working. Idols/Companies make money off their fans due to the marketed images of being flawless, so some people are overreacting because of their illusion. However, some older fans are angered because of the thought that Taeyeon used SNS to display her love for her boyfriend. She should have known better that she was playing with fire there but she didn't. No matter what anyone says about only a small fraction of her posts are allegedly dedicated to her boyfriend (this is a fact!) but it's still a very dumb thing to do.
After all, I hope the blacklash will die down quickly as this matter shouldn't be something that make the fans to turn their backs against her. Also, TTS is coming back soon, and it'll be tough to have a proper & enjoyable promotion when Taeyeon would have to apologize and talk about this topic all the freaking time.
This, seriously, is what I don't get at all. Even Sooyoung did it. Why do they have to apologize for something that isn't wrong is beyond me and why would fans ask and then dismiss their apologies is something I could not even start grasping.
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Christ, all this drama over taeyeon dating..I mean im super surprised but im hhappyfor her if shes happy, granted im not a ksone so I dont know exactly how and why they feel they way they do, but I guess if they want to feel betrayed then they can feel that way, on the other hand im still gonna support her till the end, I mean even though her IG was for the fans I kinda knew if there was a chance of a relationship she might go the secret code route, but again as a I-sone it doesnt bother me
I hope this will all pass and we can get back to some type of normalcy in the SONE fandom, I always worry that one day some news is gonna hurt the girls career I just hope this isnt it..OT9 FOREVER SONES FIGHTING! ♥♥♥♥♥
Normal is the least-related word to us

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i'm scared of the backlash she might get
lol but it doesn't change the fact that she might dating someone atm.. T_T
Well, it's about time she does. If she isn't, then it's all right as long as she's not lonely. It's only a matter of time before all of theirs get revealed anyway.
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Jinx what???? Why are you all so scared that Yuri might be dating?!
I'm not scared! Just not right now when Taeyeon's still a hit. I may be a hardcore fan but I can only take so much at once!
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true.. fans can be so extremely defensive and delulu at the same time to think that they have a right to control their idols' life.. i hope it won't affects snsd that much since they will have another comeback this year.. you and me are yurisistable right? i wonder who is the lucky guy that yuri dated atm.. i'm scared to even think about it..
awwhh this is adorable.. i wanna hug her..
Let's just focus on Taeyeon at the moment >__<
OMG DON'T JINX IT!
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A perfect representation of how things should have turned out if only less self-entitled people exist.
I'm about to place an order but now that I think about it.... do you reckon the TTS album is coming out soon... that way I could wait a couple days to order both since I hate having to pay the shipping fee multiple times













[Naver:KRN] Kim Gura mentions Jessica to Seohyun on 'Radio Star'
in Translations
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Not talking about someone/something out in the open =/= ignoring them.